Is it common for couples that are married too young to start liking other people? Do you think that being married too young affects how faithful they are to their spouse?
2006-11-11 16:05:52 · 18 answers · asked by h2gj87 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it just has to do with the person. You probably don't really like this person in the way you love your spouse the feelings are probably just physical. Go and Find your marriage again. Treat each other as if you just started dating all the time. Go out with each other even if you have children. Find time to be alone and to go and do things together and things will always be great. If you don't have a lot of money go for a drive, picnic, walk in neighborhood or park. Always tell each other everything.
What is wrong in your marriage that you are looking elsewhere.
If it is the spark or flame it can be rediscovered. Work first on your marriage it is worth everything.
good luck
2006-11-11 16:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by quinn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What age is too young? 16, 17, 18? If you love each other, it doesn't matter what age you are, you will not cheat.
It is common for couples of any age to think about what it might be like to be with a different partner. But, if they dwell on those thoughts, they can lead to infidility.
I personally think it's a good idea (if you find your true love) to marry young...if you are at least 18 or older. It keeps the couple from doing other things with other people that they might regret later in life. Plus they get a life partner that they can more or less grow up with. They can have s*x all they want, with no guilt or worry of out-of-wedlock pregnancy. They can have kids at young age if they choose. They can work together on financial goals. They can grow old together and look back and feel really good about the commitment they made, and kept, to each other.
If you are married and are wondering if there is someone better out there, that would fulfill you more, don't count on it. If you love your spouse, and your spouse loves you, that is a very good thing. Hang on for dear life and go the distance together. And remember; the one you are married to, and the one who knows you best, can satisfy your every need. Just trust that.
2006-11-11 16:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by gailfrances 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. I think the majority of young wedded couples get married for the wrong reasons. Pregnancy, boredom, etc...If you don't have enough in common, it's not going to last, plain and simple. It also seems that younger people don't want to work as hard to make the relationship work...it takes time, effort, and dedication. That being said, this doesn't automatically lead to cheating, but definitely has something to do with the higher divorce rate. Cheating will depend on the person, and how much respect they have for themselves, their spouse and their relationship.
2006-11-11 16:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dana D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's dependent on the people.
Statistically, marriages have a better survival rate after age 25 for both spouses, and no children within the first two years. Common religion, education and family support are also leading factors.
However, I know 4 women who decided to cheat in their late 20's-early 30's JUST BECAUSE they married young and had never been with another man. Sadly, only one has saved her marriage.
2006-11-11 16:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 23 besides. My fiance' is 28. the marriage is planned for next summer season. We the two are very mature, in charge, properly employed, clever and in love with one yet another. I truthfully have in no way cheated and so some distance as i comprehend, neither has he. LOL! we don't plan on getting divorced. we've stated attempting separation if our marriage gets too perplexing. I advise which you are not getting married decrease than the age of twenty-two or 23. maximum individuals decrease than that age are very immature and don't comprehend what actual dedication is. So previously you get married, think of long and problematic.
2016-10-21 22:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by grewe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not exactly cheat, but they may lose interest. If someone gets married at 18, let's say...and has a bad marriage, it's a given that the marriage won't last. Young people especially guys are very immature..and will likely fail in their marriages.
2006-11-11 19:38:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for me I'm 24 and happily married...my husband on the other hand wasn't as together as I was so I had to TALK to him about ground rules that needed to be followed (if you know what I mean).
My husband is the GREATEST!!!! It's great to have a man you can trust and feel sooo secure with. WE could not possibly think of hurting each other due to home wreckers. We both laugh about how stupid they look trying to get their superficial ego boosts. My husband is hot so if they want to stutter,drool, compliment fine as long as they respect him enough NOT to act on those feelings then it's cool. If not then don't be surprised when his wife breaks it down for you one by one...lol...
Communication, togetherness equals unbreakable strength!! It takes two!
2006-11-11 16:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you married a cheater. Cheaters cheat. Straight arrows don't bend.
People married too young are more likely to change and grow apart.
2006-11-11 16:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not really it all depends on the person and how true they are to the ones they love, cheating comes from lack of something not marrying to young, do you have a healthy relationship
2006-11-11 16:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by worriedmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely! You need to experience life, date a lot and get a feel for what type of mate you want. Younger people are too spontaneous and if they see someone better, they'll go for it. No one should marry before they are at least 25.
2006-11-11 16:09:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋