2006-11-11 14:56:40 · 24 answers · asked by hoekie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know about your husband, but my fiance does NOT get mad, or even a little upset or jealous, when i have male friends, and I don't get mad, upset, or jealous that he has female friends either. Being mad or jealous about something like that is, in my opinion, childish and immature. It has broken up more relationships than people realize.
I think you need to talk with your husband and find out 'why' he gets mad when you have male friends. Is he jealous? Does he think that you will cheat? Does he feel left out? What are his deepest feelings about all of this? In return, you need to search within yourself and figure out how you feel about him having female friends. This needs to be talked out by the two of you, calmly, until you guys can figure this out. This is nothing to be taken lightly. You may need to reassure your husband that you love him and only him and that there is nothing going on with you and other guys. Most guys need this reassurance from women, just like women need it from men.
2006-11-11 15:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by honey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God, I love how some women in here keep throwing the "he's insecure" stuff around as if he's just like this by nature. Look, you can be married to the most secured man but if you keep hanging out with other men whom your husband does not feel comfortable with, he will become threatened.
If you feel you must have male friends, what's stopping you from introducing them to your husband and suggesting that you all hang out together?
2006-11-11 15:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Leila G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I get really jealous when my wfie has male friends. Especially if we have an argument. I dont care how much of a friends someone is. When a guy sees a vulnerable girl they move in like a cheeta on the open plains.
2006-11-11 14:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by Justin N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound sexist, but its the truth. Why does a hen need more than one rooster? She shouldn't. That's why he's angry. Tell your guy friends that 'sorry, but you are a one rooster hen', they will laugh, but they will understand. Be glad that your husband feels this way. If you need male interaction, be sure that you both have friends who are couples. That way, your husband man may not be so territorial. Make friends with couples only, that way, both of you gain "friends" of the opposite sex.
2006-11-11 15:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most likely he knows how other men are. Women can be friends with a man and not expect anything. However, the same cannot be said of men. Most men only have one thing on their minds and if they're friends with you, you know they only want one thing from you.
So if I were you, I wouldn't put myself into a situation where my husband will end up distrusting me.
2006-11-11 15:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by Aurora 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 01:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by abigail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are insecure, most tend to believe the " I'm a guy and I know what they are really thinking" line of crap which means they don't want to be your friend just get in your pants, which is an insult to their wife. But I just think they are scared of losing their wife to one of her male friends. Which could happen if something their was trouble in the marriage to begin with. Then again it works both ways, most woman don't like their husbands to have female friends either cause we don't trust other females either. We know when we have a good thing and other females would love to have it too. GL
2006-11-11 15:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I dont belive a man and a woman can have a plutonic relationship, with out sex being underlying
somewhere. Your husband knows that. Unless one party is gay
2006-11-11 15:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by kd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its just fear that one of a wife's male friends may turn out to be the other man and may elope with her one day.
2006-11-11 15:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by Bachelor boy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because he only wants to be the only one you need and want, and because men get protective of their loved ones, he tends to protect his wife from others. But then if he was to bring home female friends, would you get mad too?
2006-11-11 14:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by superboredom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋