My wife had a friend who caught her husband in the act and she told my wife that it was just like sheating since he wasn't with her. I thought that was ridiculous. I can understand someone feeling a bit upset but comparing it too cheating is taking it way too far in my opinion. What do you think?
2006-11-11 06:09:35 · 32 answers · asked by E_Soup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no it is not. i do it daily and it has nothing to do with my man its all in good fun.
2006-11-11 06:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by three_ladybug 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
She may FEEL Cheated that he was not with her...and decided to take matters into his own hands However I would think that ANY normal man or women would rather there partner masturbate than go out and have sex with another PERSON. He should ask her which she would prefer.
2006-11-11 06:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if a man is married he should be masturbating with a picture of his wife or an object of hers. He shouldn't be jacking off to women that he would like to be with. That's the difference. If you need to see yourself with someone else, then be with someone else.
2006-11-11 07:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely not cheating and it is entirely natural to masturbate. I do frequently even when I have had sex the same day and even when I am in a great sexual relationship. Nothing wrong with it!
2006-11-11 06:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by dumb guy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's not cheating. Saying that's cheating would be like saying a guy jerking off is gay because he's getting a hand job from a guy.
2006-11-11 06:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by John's Secret Identity™ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well theres a saying Wack a Day Keeps the doctor on the job
2006-11-11 06:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by Pacino 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This isn't cheating. Better him doing this to himself then another woman...Your wife's friend is narrow minded, and need to be educated. Tell your wife to tell her friend that if she had satisfied her hubby, then there would be no need for him to be doing this. She need to look at the bases of his actions before criticizing him. She's the problem....not him.
2006-11-11 06:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Its only cheating if there is another person involved.
If your a virgin when you masturbate, your still a virgin after you masturbate because nobody was there with you. So, why would masturbation's definition change once married? If nobody is there to help you masturbate then your not cheating.
Your friend is wrong.
2006-11-11 06:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Since the majority of adults do it at least occasionally, it'd be hard to consider it cheating. Would this gal consider sexual thoughts cheating also?
2006-11-11 06:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by Eric B 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No way is that cheating. Cheating has to envolve another person form outside a relationship.
2006-11-11 06:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
God no way is that anything like cheating, he was a bit daft that he did not say he was thinking about her while he was doing it.
There is nothing wrong with a bit of DIY!
2006-11-11 06:13:44 · answer #11 · answered by jizzi 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋