I was dating this girl i really liked. Well as it turned out she was a complete bit-ch. She constantly started fights with me and did nothing but insult me and treat me like dirt. She then dumped me for no reason. Well i go to college and i met this girl who just turned 21. She asked me if i wanted to go celebrate with her. i ended up getting drunk and having sex with her. Well somehow my ex found out and came to my house and just blew up at me. i'm like wtf you dumped me that means i get to do what i want. Why do women care what the guy does after you break up with him??? I mean what did you think we were going to do, just lounge around in self pity. Hell no were going to go out and make ourselves happy.
2006-11-11 05:15:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You may want to choose better acquaintances.
2006-11-11 05:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She starts fights with you and treats you like that because she wants to feel superior. Better than you. These " xxxitches" are out there. Most of all, don't feel bad for celebrating a friends birthday even if you just met and slept with her. Some magic was there and you must concentrate on the relationship you can make with your new friend...if you really want one. Don't give your ex the time of day. She blew it!
2006-11-11 13:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by chatterella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people (guys and girls) are just possessive controlling people who do not know when to let go...they don't want you, but they don't want anyone else to have you either.
It is sad that people cannot just move on and let go of bad memories and relationships.
This sounds like what happened here. Just ignore her and go on with your life. If she becomes a nuisance....threaten to get a restraining order against her and follow through if she violates it.
Good Luck!!
2006-11-11 13:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do the same thing.
Some men and women will push their men/women away and break things off with them but somewhere in their brains they don't want that person to move on with their life. Yes, it's stupid but it happens.
If she still keeps bothering you get a restraining order. She could get worse. Having the police involved might get the message through to her.
2006-11-11 13:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by kitt_kattkitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I hate to tell you this, but at one time you were her b--ch. She ruled you. You didn't have the balls to stand up to her and she lost respect for you. Now you have moved on and she is still trying to control you. How did you react to her when she showed up? Did you let her b--chslap you again? You tell her you will screw who you want to. Then tell her if hell froze over and her vagina was the only warm place on earth you still wouldn't touch it with a ten foot pole.
2006-11-11 13:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since she dumped you in the trash bin she should not care what you do. If a trash collector comes by then let them pick up the trash.
2006-11-11 13:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy! Most women still feel the man is still hers after the relationship goes sour. Not me personally, but its normal bc both men and women do this. They jus cant stand the thought of someone else getting whats "theirs".
2006-11-11 13:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by Xx Spookz xX 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy, you are a real class act: you call women names, brag about drunken indiscriminent sex, and are a huge ball of open resentment. A regular gentleman.
Dumped for no reason, huh?
2006-11-11 13:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because women live in the damn twilight zone. Tell your ex to pi$$ up a rope -- and keep your doors locked....
2006-11-11 13:24:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if out partner dumps us hell no don't stay home, go out there more fish in the sea, and this time take your time and don't say you love them reight away, just take your time life is to short
2006-11-11 13:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by sexie1949 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women unlike men...have a softer heart..she broke up with u...with no reason u say but mebbe there was a reason she broke up with u.which she cudnt tell u..n u didnt consider either...u were dating her that means u have sum commitment towards her..mebbe she trusted u..n u going arnd making urself happy made her miserable coz she was home crying for the reasons she broke up with u...so bottom line is....ask her..y she broke up..n if u being with sum1 bothers her then ask her y it does?
2006-11-11 13:23:03 · answer #11 · answered by koolnsj 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋