Hubby wanted a baby, I had 1 grown child and one almost grown, he had none. So i had baby he wanted and i love but now he has become a hunter so he leaves every weekend. So now I stay home with the baby. i am so lonely. This is just what i said i didn't want to happen. I amost had a life but now i have started over.
2006-11-11 06:00:56 · 12 answers · asked by dixiedarling 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is what i would do. go out not to meet anyone.but get dolled up take the baby or go out with friends just to make you feel better.let him see you get ready or come back so he can see what he is missing. it won't be that woman that always say she don't have anything to do.let him know you have made plans in a happy way.and go and enjoy yourself,he will be wanting to join you.it might take 2 maybe even 3 times but remember get dolled up even by yourself something to wear.
2006-11-11 06:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by lizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you had a straight forward heart to heart with your hubby? If not it's time to. But if that doesn't help try this, enjoy your little blessing, but get yourself out there and start living again. What are your hobbies? What do you like to do on the weekend, say before you met your hubby? Did you enjoy going to the movies? Concerts with friends? Any sports that you enjoyed that you can get back into? Find a great babysitter, and don't let yourself feel guilty! A happy mommy makes for a happy, healthy baby. When is the last time you got together with your girlfriends? All your happiness in life is not your hubbys responsibility, though I think he is taking you for granted, and if he see's you getting on with things, still loving your family and having a healthy life outside that front door, maybe he'll cancel that next hunting trip ;) and want to get to know this happier, take charge woman that he married. Good luck!!
2006-11-11 14:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by JazzyLynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunting season isn't on EVERY weekend of the month. It is only at special times during the year. I say get together with some girlfriends of your and have girls night. Have them over with their kids, play games, listen to music, eat, etc, and enjoy each others company.
Most women need other female companions to be able to do things with- it is normal to feel lonely while he is gone, but that is just part of life- he wont be there every day for the rest of your life, ther will be times when he isn't there.
just start to do things with other women who may be going through the same things that you are. Join some parenting groups, and meet friends through there.
Good luck!
2006-11-11 14:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not fair. When hunting season is over you can make it fair by going out as many weekends as he went out hunting. That way he can be alone on the weekends with the baby.
2006-11-11 14:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by miss m. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him how you feel and compromise with him he does need time to himself but you need his love and support
Its not an options this is something He MUST do so be firm if you have too
2006-11-11 14:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by David R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel!Do the same thing to him,put the baby in his arms and go out!See how he likes it!
2006-11-11 14:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunting season will be over soon enough
but if he continuously find reasons to ditch you with the kid tell him that your new boyfriend will have to act as the father figure
that should get his attention
2006-11-11 14:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not fair, you did something for your husband now he should do something for you. give and take. tell him how you feel and make him listen. if he doesnt take his guns away, if that doesn't work do things to annoy him. trust me that'll get his attention and change. it's not right that you have to suffer.
2006-11-11 14:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by collgegrl11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry a new guy and get pregnant by him. after two or three times, you will get the message.
MEN do not grow up just because they are daddies.( some do)
2006-11-11 14:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
That's life; nobody said it was fair!
2006-11-11 18:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋