Marriage & Divorce - 4 November 2006

2006-11-04 10:06:44 · 20 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2

I am currently dating this girl for 8 months now she so beautiful and so amazing. Until we get into a fight. example: Everytime we get into a fight she threatens me with breakig up and kicking me out of the her house. more: and she will go back to stuff that we fought about months earlier, and causes more problems! And she will not even talk to me about it in person txt only well sometimes and it takes a few days for her to get over it. Then she will make remarks....being a complete smartass! HELP!

2006-11-04 09:55:28 · 20 answers · asked by 19 1

Most of the really hot men i have dated were really rude and my ex flirted with every woman he saw please why are you guys so rude and dis reapectful.( Woman id like you inputs too.)

2006-11-04 09:54:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my step dad died 4 wks after i married my lomg term partner of 17 yrs .cant go t bed without having a drink just cant sleep, my eldist son is nearly 20 he has cerable palsy and has kive with my mom since he was 1 .his dad hung his self in my house when he was one. i no its bin a few years now but i just cant seem t get on the right track, never had counciling after wot happened but finding my step dad seems t have bought it all back please help me

2006-11-04 09:51:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

he wants me to quit my job to take care of the house! not any childern but the house!
i work 35 to 40 hrs. per week , keep a very tidy house , clothes are always clean. food
always on the table but he wants me to quit an stay home like his mother did! i think it is he is trying to control me! i don't want to quit my job , i enjoy my work. he is really upset over this! how can i convince him to let me work an have my life too?

2006-11-04 09:48:01 · 27 answers · asked by hey_girl 1

2006-11-04 09:43:40 · 8 answers · asked by amuse4you 4

I know I know....I am a dumb *** for letting this affair continue. He now uses what I have always said,,,,He wants me to be happy. Then why in the heck does he keep calling me? And why do I keep answering the phone.....I can not let him go......??????? Every time we talk I wind up crying, because he tells me how he cares for me and apologizes in saying that he cannot give me what I want today. I then say just let it go because we will never be together...then he says never say never that is a long time.

2006-11-04 09:43:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have so many things that are wrong in our marriage but the love is still there, atleast for me it is. He walked out because he doesnt have the ability to stand up for his marriage. Therefore I want to move on, let go emotionally, (sexually too) but IM hurt and scared. Any words of encouragment here? how does one let go of an unhealthy relationship that causes a lot of emotional pain?

2006-11-04 09:42:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

he was ordered to pay me each month for the rest of my life. if he was working they would take it directly out of his checks, but since hes not can i get it taken directly out of retirement or soc sec.

2006-11-04 09:39:31 · 8 answers · asked by dds 2

I'm 15, female and I'm having an affair with boy aged 17 who's engaged to a girl 1 and 1/2 years younger than me.

This boy is my ex. and we went out for 6 months. Now he's been have feelings for me, and we've started having an affair behind his fiancée's back. But everytime I meet him I feel awkward, and make up an excuse. But deep inside I have strong feelings for him. I'm not sure what to do.

He's sworn me to secrecy, but accidentally my best mate found out, I trust her to keep the secret, she knows we've both had feelings for each other, because she’s sits near him on the school bus (I walk home) and she know that it's gotten so serious, I’m only 15 and this relationship is meant to be truly physical but I can't help falling in love.

Please someone help me, I don't know who to talk to, except form him and my mate, and what to do with my emotions.

2006-11-04 09:39:30 · 54 answers · asked by Silent Sam 1

that his best friend is flirting with me? i also thought maybe i could scare this guy by saying i was going to tell my husband and just hope it stops. what should i do? tell the husband or just threaten the guy with the thought of telling him?

2006-11-04 09:24:34 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I spend every day with my husband. Today I went out with a friend of mine and her boyfriend who is also my husband's friend. We saw another friend of ours who is a girl. She just moved into a new apartment and asked if we'd like to come over for a little house warming party. My friend's boyfriend asked me to ask my husband to come so he wouldn't be the only guy there. So when I get home I told him what my friends boyfriend said. He looked at me and said, "What makes you think I'm going to let YOU go." I feel so miserable and I don't know why he's being this way. It's like he doesn't want me to have a life. What should I do?

2006-11-04 09:19:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-11-04 09:15:43 · 9 answers · asked by Gaia Weeps 3

my ex has been in jail, on drugs (he says "recovering") and abusive... we have a 3 year old son together, but he has never been around, and i will not let him see him.

he txt messaged me today. he said "i will not leave you alone until you let me see him". He txts me at least 6 times a day asking for my address and calling me names. I don't know what to do!!!!

2006-11-04 09:09:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is to long to get into here. I basically had an affair for 3 mnths a year ago. We have made it this far. If anyone would care to talk to me feel free and ill do my best to fill you in. I really need some help here peeps please!

2006-11-04 09:08:52 · 11 answers · asked by eyeneeder 1

It is to long to get into here. I basically had an affair for 3 mnths a year ago. We have made it this far. If anyone would care to talk to me feel free and ill do my best to fill you in. I really need some help here peeps please!

2006-11-04 09:08:26 · 7 answers · asked by eyeneeder 1

It is to long to get into here. I basically had an affair for 3 mnths a year ago. We have made it this far. If anyone would care to talk to me feel free and ill do my best to fill you in. I really need some help here peeps please!

2006-11-04 09:08:07 · 4 answers · asked by eyeneeder 1

My exes parents connected themselves to the case between my ex and I. My ex wanted visitation and they decided they needed to get involved which made me really mad because I don't feel it was their right but the court made it their right. I have never kept them from their grandchildren. It was just underhanded. Anyway, Grandpa is 83 and Grandma is in her 60's. I told the jugde that I did not want the grandparents to be allowed to drive my children on curvy or hilly highways because I felt they were too old and their reflexes would let them down. I am a mother, concerned for her children. Well, the judge was old himself so I think he made it personal when he told me they were perfectly fine to drive MY children and I had no choice but to allow it. Since court my ex husband has gone back to prison for credit card fraud, burglary, drugs, and parol violations. The Grandparents have been in two car accidents since and they were only months within each other and close to our last court date.

2006-11-04 09:06:37 · 7 answers · asked by Jules 3

My wife and I have 2 very different sex drives. She has almost no drive due to a hormonal ondition. I on the other hand have a very strong drive. It has gotten a lot worse since we got married a few years ago. I know it is not her fault but I have a hard time getting through my day sometimes because I feel so physically frustrated. I make a lot of sexual suggestions during the day and usually get turned down. Sex for her is like a chore. We used to do it for hours before we got married. I am sooooo frustrated that I do not know what to do. How can I continue to live like this? There is so much missing in hte marriage now. It is making me "cranky" around her which does not help the situation. I try my best to control what I say and do when I am frustrated. I usually end up having a few drinks to calm me down when she turns me down or just goes to sleep. What am I supposed to do?

2006-11-04 09:05:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-04 08:58:09 · 15 answers · asked by mona a 1

he works 40 plus hours a week as skilled trades.
on the weekends for months now , he has worked as self employed contractor.
we have not been able to do anything together for months now! i am so sick an tired of his working! we have not been out or even out for dinner in months! how can i get through to him , that we do need the time together. i need the time out of this house away from the routine of cooking , cleaning , laundry ect.... it's not like we are desperate for the money , he is just a work acholic! and i am so tired of it!

2006-11-04 08:51:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

We both agreed on divorce, but in state of maryland you have to be separated for a year before you file for divorce. we both agreed on separation but we haven't file any official paperwork for separation.

2006-11-04 08:50:49 · 5 answers · asked by sodagank 1

or hurt our already so so marriage. We have been married for 4 months i am 18 and he is 24 .We dated for 6 months met when i was 17 we met sneaking into a NYC club.He is only the second guy i ever dated so i have no experience with how guys think.His job is promotion for a record company he hopes to become a producer soon was offered a job in houston. The traveling and him always being at clubs puts a stain on our relationship. Plus i am a freshmen in college at NYU taking 16 credits. I hope that if i major in same thing my hubby did i can work with him?and spend more time with him or relate better/understand the industry?

2006-11-04 08:43:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

When your partner (g/f) commits a serious boundary infraction(ie. lying, cheating, etc....) at what point are you trying to persevere because its wrong to run away from every problem in life, and at what point do you say,"forget it, this is a pattern and I won't be subjected to it any longer"?

2006-11-04 08:42:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife says that she has lost all feelings of sexual desire She is 43 and we have been married for 19 years and am sure that she is not unfaithful What has me very worried is that she doesn't see this as a problem. She says that the problem is all with me and that I should accept this as a natural condition of growing older. I have said that I don't think that our being in our mid 40s is all that old and that I still want her physically. She says that she has grown beyond the need for physical gratification and that once a couple has all the children that they are going to have, we have two kids ages 7 and 13, a husband and wife's relationship should grow into something like brother and sister. We had a wonderful sexual relationship up until a few years ago when this began. I am not going to leave her, I gave my word on that when we got married and I take that stuff seriously She isn't intersted in seeing a counsler, she says there isn't a problem. Has anyone else faced this?

2006-11-04 08:41:27 · 32 answers · asked by MEL 2

My preliminary hearing is coming up and I wondered if anyone thought a judge would give unsupervised visits to a father who has not visited his 2 month old son in a month, and has a long history of drug and alchohol abuse that has caused him to be in jail. He refuses to visit his son because it is supervised and he wants to take his son to his mothers house where he lives. This is a problem because my son was premature and his mother chain smokes, let alone my husband is constantly buying narrcotics online....I have alot of documentation but am so scared they will let him walk out of my house with my son...any ideas??

2006-11-04 08:28:28 · 12 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2

I saw this show called the half ton man. This guy weighed a little over 1000 pounds and still managed to get a wife. And his wife never cheated on him. This would never happen with a man. Im starting to think that love is really what women want. Are women more shallow then they are letting on???

2006-11-04 08:26:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like I am going crazy. I am totally possesive. I want to know his every move. I still check his phone bills and question him about evertything. I cant seem to get over it. I know I am driving him crazy. If this doesn't end soon I will lose him and he is a good guy who made a mistake. Heaven knows I am no angel. There is no sign of him still cheating, but he continues to lose weight. I am bothered by that too. Is there any one else out there that has gone through this and kept their sanity!? What do I do?

2006-11-04 08:14:32 · 18 answers · asked by dana t 1

2006-11-04 08:13:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like I am going crazy. I am totally possesive. I want to know his every move. I still check his phone bills and question him about evertything. I cant seem to get over it. I know I am driving him crazy. If this doesn't end soon I will lose him and he is a good guy who made a mistake. Heaven knows I am no angel. There is no sign of him still cheating, but he continues to lose weight. I am bothered by that too. Is there any one else out there that has gone through this and kept their sanity!? What do I do?

2006-11-04 08:13:46 · 16 answers · asked by dana t 1