are you still happily married after two years or just in it for a security blanket?

Answer 1

happy after 2, security after 4 years

Answer 2

I have been happily married for going on 4 years. I do not think of marriage as being like a security blanket. I do not need anyone for a security blanket. I made it on my own as mother before I got married and can still do it if I was not married anymore. If I do not love a person, I would have a hard time staying with them. I learned that from past experiences.

Answer 3

Being happily married is a sort of a security blanket. But it's an honest security blanket. I've been married 20 years, and there are times when the blanket seemed a little "thinner" than other times. But now as the kids are heading out to college, it's a REAL GOOD BLANKET. :-)

Answer 4

I have been happily married for 3 and 1/2 years now. I can't imagine staying with anyone just for the security of it.

Answer 5

This is such a vague question. You have to have a reason for staying married, i.e. love, money, etc. Nobody is married just cause there bored..........or are they?!! These days you never know! You would think that after 2 yrs the love is very strong, better yet growing stronger, trust between the two married should be on the higher side of the scale, communication is open and honest.......keep in mind these examples are in a perfect world, in a perfect marriage, and neither exist!!

I've been married for 6 years. We've had rough-divorce worthy times, but were both dedicated to Christ, each other, and doing well.

Answer 6

Have been happily married for much more than two years, and have never thought of it as a security blanket. It's so much better than that.

Answer 7

There is security in being married for sure... and its true that after 2 years a marriage loses that newlywed "spark"... but after 2 years I still love my husband and want to be married, and if I had it to do all over I would marry him again in a second... Its never been "just a security blanket".

Answer 8

Have been happily married for almost 10 years. Although he is my security I am in love with him more than just for security reasons. I just hope he feels that I am his security as well.

Answer 9

yes! very happy!(our 4th year anniversary is coming up) in fact i am even more content now than the 1st 2 years of our marriage. the getting to know each other stage was really hard. i've been very independent before we got married and it was really hard for me to adjust. but now i'm very comfortable with my husband. i can't even begin to imagine life without him. i'm not saying our marriage is perfect, but for me it's close enough to being one.

never have i ever thought of my marriage as a security blanket. but whenever i'm with my husband i always now that i am safe and secured. i guess you can say there is that security blanket there but staying married for that reason alone? in just don't know. the foundation of a marriage should be stronger as the years go by........for me? that's how it should be.

i really don't know the root of your question. there must be a story behind it. but whatever it is, i hope i was able to help.

take care and all the best to you!

Answer 10

I have also been married for over 2 years. My husband and I get into some ridiculous arguments which most of you on here already know my life but through all of it he has and still does make me very happy. There are a few things that I would want to change in our marriage but he is really a good guy takes care of me and our kids and I am in this marriage 100%.

Answer 11

I've been married for 2 years and yes still happily married and it gets better every day