Marriage & Divorce - 4 November 2006

How will a man or a woman show respect to each other when they are married. Will the man go on chating with girls and so with the woman when their partner is not looking? What do you think when the partner keeps chating with other girls or men( am not talkin about their friends)

2006-11-04 15:40:40 · 9 answers · asked by rosamia 2

i'll try to make a long story short.
met a man, we are both married. this was over 4 years ago. had an affair, ended up getting pregnant. then i moved. we have stayed in touch and he still says he loves me. we have had our ins and outs, but we always find our way back to each other. we are both still married, and his wife recently found out we are calling each other. we stopped getting in touch for awhile, but he has emailed me and called and text messaged me lately. i asked what he was gonna do if she looked at the phone bill again and he said he didnt care. he wont leave her because he doesnt want to be away from his kids, and he knows she would turn them against him if there was a divorce. he is a wonderful father, just cant get along with her. guess my question is, guys, do you think he really cares about me, seeing as he still says he loves me after 4 years of this? or do you think he is afraid that i would start trouble if he said hey i dont want to talk to you anymore?

2006-11-04 15:39:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to find the marriage forms or documents so i can print it out and fill out the blanks my self just like a marriage lics if i went in front of a pastor or judge

2006-11-04 15:39:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

WE're in debt up to our elbows, but she won't stop shopping.....I don't know what to do about it.

2006-11-04 15:31:46 · 40 answers · asked by Michael D 2

several problems here. our house which he did not pay mortgage for 5 months will forceclose in 2 weeks , my emergency money spent on getting my transmission fix which he has to pay half of the bill (i know he wont pay) hes not telling me what the outcome on the house is ...i asked him-- has he paid it and he says NO! then i asked him if he will pay it he says "i dont know" ...he has been a real jerk and all also he cashed out my chldrens mutual funds ...now i really want to get away from all this emotional tension hes been doing to me , i just want to get out and move to another state. after reading all of this problems can i just move without notifying him , we both have lawyers. how much trouble will i get in doing this?

2006-11-04 15:29:08 · 18 answers · asked by maya v 2

Pretend for a moment that she already has the hot body, what else? what are your top things?

2006-11-04 15:22:56 · 15 answers · asked by JustJane 6

My husband and I have been married for going on 4 years. Ever since we got married he has asked me if I would sleep with another woman and him. Is this normal for him to keep asking me this? How many women have had a three-some with another woman and their husband/boyfriend? Men what are your views on this subject? Why do men want this so much?

2006-11-04 15:17:31 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is it with guys and porn? I dont understand... My husband and i have been together for a very short time, and we (in my eyes) are starting out on a bad foot, ever since I caught Porn on the computer, he has changed in little ways here and there. (to name a few, I dont feel like I am enough, he never trys to seduce me anymore, it feels as if I am not sexy enough for him... etc.) I have now found it about four times now, and everytime I find it, "he has no idea how it got there, he swears" so I am clueless at this point because I feel like I am being lied to. I dont understand how he can say how much I am perfect for him, and how much he loves to be with me, but then the next minute he is on the computer doing who knows what to some internet whore. I feel rejected, boring and not good enough, but he still continues to hurt me, and as sad as it may seem, I dont even know if he knows how much he is really hurting me.

2006-11-04 15:16:17 · 27 answers · asked by Michelle S 1

2006-11-04 15:13:29 · 14 answers · asked by divine1xoxo 1

2006-11-04 15:10:54 · 5 answers · asked by peter c 1

My wif eleft me 2 months ago. Satan was workign me over and I came to a point were I refused to let him use me to break us apart. I turned back to God at this point for help. Then this old boyfriend pops back into my wife's life. And she's like not wanting to see me anymore. God is telling me this is satan working on her. Could it be possible that satan is using this old bf to break us apart?

2006-11-04 15:10:52 · 20 answers · asked by extremeradio2006 1

We have been married for 22yrs and are really good friends, but I have a feeling that he would rather be friends then lovers. He never really got into sex like I did and now that he is older (41) we only have sex once a week. I on the other hand would love to have sex, hold hands, hug, kiss, someone to hang out with, well to me those are things that a husband and wife should do together. I guess what I am trying to say is could there be something wrong with me or is there something wrong with him. I miss having the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. I need someone to love me the way a man and women should love each other....I just don't know what to do.....

2006-11-04 15:03:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and the ex bought cremations services years ago, we are now divorced and she has re-married .she asked if she could sell hers to her mother in law..I found out that her name isn't even on the contract -only mine , what do i do ? sell or give it to her or ?

2006-11-04 15:03:05 · 10 answers · asked by jeff 2

How can yo be married to someone take the vow....promise you wanna be with them forever...and then just change your mind??? why??!!!??!?!?!

2006-11-04 14:58:32 · 18 answers · asked by cutenwild1769 5

I bought my wife a wedding set to replace the engagement ring that she lost. I bought it for her for christmas and cant decide whether I should give it to her now or if I should acctually wait until Christmas. She will be without a ring in the meantime and that is difficult to me.

2006-11-04 14:57:53 · 19 answers · asked by Kenneth F 2

I have been married for 5 years my wife has cheated on me several times. She treats me like a slave. I work all day at one point I had 2 jobs and the baby was in day care but she didn't work. I am all ways cleaning and cooking. I have always used the excuse that she has bipolar. But this last time she moved out put us in financial ruin we have to file bankruptcy.

The thing is I have a friend that I have had for 10+ years and she has her problems too nothing has ever really happened with her we kissed a few times. But I can't stop thinking about her it almost makes me sick and sad at the same time.

What do you think I should do????

2006-11-04 14:55:27 · 20 answers · asked by Spoon 1

This is just one example. Two different times she asked me what I wanted for Christmas.The 1st time I said a welding machine to which she replied I could use my step dads.The second time I told her a guitar and she said "Youre not getting a damn guitar" I guess she don't know I can take my own money and buy it any time I wanted to.

2006-11-04 14:45:05 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's just been over 2 years of marriage now and I feel like I made a terrible mistake. We had dated, broken up, dated, broken up, then dated again for a few years. There were never fireworks, never a connecting of souls, just time spent together and pressure from her and our families to tie the knot. I loved her as a friend, but I was never IN love with her. Our wedding day felt like some kind of play I was acting in. I always hoped that over the years she would evolve into the person I would be proud to call my wife, but it never happened. I totally accept and appreciate her as a friend, but we're nowhere close on a spiritual, intellectual, or social level and nothing I've tried has changed that a bit. I have been in love before, but the other person didn't feel the exact same for me. I'm just sorry that I'm on the other side of the fence this time and that I went ahead with a marriage I really didn't want. What do I do?

2006-11-04 14:40:50 · 16 answers · asked by Rustoleum_James 2

I actually dated my wife 10 yrs ago and while she is more open and more communicative in the bedroom than before, she doens't have much of an imagination. Before I met my wife, I was very much into BDSM and role-playing. While the vanilla sex is very good, sometimes I'd like to spice it up a bit. Espeically if she'd take control. Are there any sites I could direct her to in the internet?

2006-11-04 14:38:36 · 17 answers · asked by bills47374 2

2006-11-04 14:37:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am aking this in marriage and divorce because yall give the best answers

2006-11-04 14:32:29 · 5 answers · asked by teen cutie 1

I'm with Paul but my partner is with Stella. Who are you with?

2006-11-04 14:31:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey.....i'm perfect in every way.........

2006-11-04 14:31:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a married woman gets raped by another man and gets pregnant, would you want the wife to keep the baby, abort it, or have it and put it up for adoption? Assume the morning after pill isnt an option. Please elaborate if the race of the rapist matters or not.

2006-11-04 14:30:09 · 43 answers · asked by james c 2

We've been married 2 yrs and are happy with sex and life but I've had this fetish since before I met her.

2006-11-04 14:22:16 · 27 answers · asked by bills47374 2

Whats wrong with me

2006-11-04 14:16:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and i havent been getting along at all.....he says since we got married "i've let myself go" so he hasnt been doing the usual caring stuff like holding my hand or sitting by me when we watch tv...in fact he gets up and moves...i called him on his lunch break the other day and was like how are you? and hes like fine..but you could tell he wasnt so i wa slike well i guess ill let you go and hes like i never wanted you to call anyways! well tonight he said he was going to his single guy freinds...and he went dressed up with cologine on...(which he never wears) and im like...okay and then he leaves at 430 and the game didnt even start til 645....he hasnt bothered to call at all....am i just being overprotective? i really dont like this......!

2006-11-04 14:13:57 · 17 answers · asked by cutenwild1769 5

I've just attended a wedding where the bride and groom performed a paid-for, choreographed first dance. Tell me this was a one off.

2006-11-04 14:11:40 · 11 answers · asked by Harriet 5

my grandfather married my best friends grandmother after my great-grand mother died and so her and her granddaughter moved into our house. her granddaughter and me were like best friends so we were happy about this. my friend claims she thinks my husband is ungly and so on and so on. well her son started calling my husbnd daddy and then so did she!! she had him making her car payment so we could drive her car when ours blew up. after almost a year I got tired of it and so did her so we moved and she came with us!! n our new apt. complex she told everyone she was married to him and they were letting me live with them!! my husband new nothing of these things she was saying. so I sent her back to TX and now we don't talk that much anymore. I guess my question is is WAS SHE IN LOVE WITH MY HUSBAND AND JUST TRYING TO HIDE IT? I think she wanted him to want her and he didn't.

2006-11-04 14:10:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please only serious answers. My husband tells me that his favorite part of being married is cuddling in bed at night and not sleeping alone. So I was wondering what others say is their favorite part of marriage?

2006-11-04 14:02:45 · 11 answers · asked by Annie R 2