Marriage & Divorce - 4 November 2006

He loves her. But is that too much of an age differece?

2006-11-04 17:02:39 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy comes to the US and gets married to an American girl. This will allow him to stay in this country. What if they get divorced a few years later? Does he have to go back to his home land or can he is he allowed to stay here?

2006-11-04 17:01:49 · 8 answers · asked by Dr. Joe-Voice of Reason 1

Pretty much anything goes! We are married after all! LOL

2006-11-04 17:00:58 · 11 answers · asked by Nats 1

~~~OK,,,so you and your spouse just had a nice dinner,,,now,,hmmm you or your spouse has a lets say "gassy" stomach,,,,how many times does one ummm (pass gas) without having to say excuse me after each time. If you have a stomach ache do you have to say excuse me every time?

2006-11-04 16:56:22 · 21 answers · asked by ~~Penny~~ 5

i was wondering. if a marriage can work i would love to have a 3some with my wife guy or girl, its just that i dont know how it would turn out after u have done this will it make her wana cheat, because she has been with another man or women . any advice and how would u get your wife to agree to this. she says no. but acks like she would.

2006-11-04 16:53:30 · 12 answers · asked by wayneco_n_wv 1

Okay it's like this we've been together for almost six wonderful months. During the fifth month he's been working is butt off working two jobs. I rarely heard from him. But I know he wasn't cheating all he was doing was work, work, and more work.

Anyway, I finally got a chance to talk to him and asked him if was avoiding me. He said no at first and then he said yes because he was offered a permanent job in Oklahoma. I emotional, but I don't think he knew, or he did but was holding back. He said that he talked to his family and friends and they said he should go.

But the only thing that stopping him is "me." He said leaving me here would be the hardest thing to do because I bring joy into his life and he didn't want to hurt me. I told him that he should take it because it's a once in a lifetime opportunity. (Holding back my tears.) He got unitl the first of the year to make his final decision.

2006-11-04 16:51:37 · 4 answers · asked by Lady B 2

This guy at work told me that the reason American women are so scared of foreign women is because they fear competition. He said that foreign women tend to be harder working, and more willing to do work around the house and much more willing to have sex than American women are. He said American women are afraid that American men will go for these easier foreign women and will no longer support there lazy asses. Do you agree??? Do you fear foreign women?????

2006-11-04 16:49:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-04 16:44:38 · 20 answers · asked by ? 6

What problems could a legal separation cause?

2006-11-04 16:42:58 · 5 answers · asked by galbee 3

All daddy does lately is smoke pot. Every day! When I got pregnant he quit to finish college and get a good job. Well he goes to work and that's about it. He barely spends any sober time with us at all. We have terrible communication and he's seriously addicted to fantisy sports online and watching sports on TV. I'm a very busy person and love being on the go. He never wants to go to the park or anything with us and refuses to seek counceling. He also knows I can't stand pot smokers! What should I do? Marry him? Ultimatum? We already have a bunch of money saved up for a house and have many plans for the future??? I don't want to make a big mistake but I also feel like leaving the father of my child would be a big mistake as well. He does have a lot of good qualities. HelP!!!

2006-11-04 16:41:05 · 28 answers · asked by lalala 1

2006-11-04 16:38:13 · 14 answers · asked by galbee 3

My dad said that a man should never get married. He said there is no security in marriage for a man. He said if I cheat on my wife she gets half my stuff. If my wife cheats on me, she still gets half my stuff. He also said that being married is no different than being single because after you get married, your wife quits having sex anyways. Only difference between being single and being married is when your married, your stuck with a nagging pain in the ***. Are men as doomed as my dad claims??????

2006-11-04 16:37:27 · 19 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1

2006-11-04 16:30:43 · 6 answers · asked by Chris 1

I know the obvious answer is stop flirting but It's really hard to do. I have been married for 6 years and my wife is a great person. However, I get absolutely no physical or emotional attention anymore. We are more like best friends with a son. I definately do not want to leave her. I have been working with a young lady for a year now and for the past 3 weeks we have gotten to know each other very well. She is trying to leave her hubby because he is abusing her and I have been helping her cope at work. She reminds me of my wife alot, we enjoy the same things to a "t". We began a sort of mild flirting last week and I am so confused. My wife and I have talked about getting more intimate but nothing ever changes. I just need some advice from anyone who has been in this situation before. I feel like a highschool kid again when I am with my co-worker, I get the whole butterflies in the stomach feeling. THats a feeling I havent had in years.

2006-11-04 16:29:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says he put the last few payments into my account in error even though they were for the correct amount and on the right day. Since I've said I'm not repaying them he has stopped all payments. I shouldn't have to repay my support payments just because he says he put them in the wrong account. I used the money as usual for basic necessities and haven't the money to give back to him. What kind of a man does that after 40 years? How does Ontario/Canadian laws protect me from someone like him?

2006-11-04 16:26:13 · 6 answers · asked by junebug 5

my bf gets turned on when i speak spanish while we are at it.but i want to say things in other language that sounds sexy.

2006-11-04 16:25:18 · 4 answers · asked by super girl 3

It's one thing I could never do. If you really like someone else better, why wouldn't you just dump/breakup/divorce the person you're with first?

2006-11-04 16:22:50 · 15 answers · asked by lucky 2

2006-11-04 16:20:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-04 16:18:49 · 14 answers · asked by nashvegastennessee 1

2006-11-04 16:09:57 · 20 answers · asked by Spadesboffin 3

my spouse gets really excited during sex. he really hurts my tets, soemtimes I feel he is biting them off!!how can I tell him not to?

2006-11-04 16:07:24 · 26 answers · asked by little s 1

2006-11-04 16:07:21 · 13 answers · asked by nashvegastennessee 1

2006-11-04 16:06:59 · 4 answers · asked by deo rei 2

they other night I was using my husbands cell phone and another call was coming in unavailable I hung up with who I was talking with and told my husband he had another call and handed him the phone he acted funny and hit the end button I ask him why he didnt answer it and he said it was probably a sales person, well later on that night while he was in the shower I went through his calls and he has alot of unavailable calls all day long that he answers. anybody understand this one?

2006-11-04 16:02:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should i use to scratch his initials in his golf balls?

2006-11-04 16:01:03 · 12 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3

My husband is so sexy and sweet and I just want to share it with everyone!! he brings me lunch while I am at work and cleans the house on his day off. But he is also so f*ckin sexy. I guess my question is Are men like him a rariety, I mean no one stays together anymore and they always cheat on each other but that is just not how Jamie is, so do you agree??

2006-11-04 15:58:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i am dating a guy, 25 years old currently holding a work permit, for the second time today. Still, we don't have so much in common and we stayed quiet for some of the time. So i thought may be we are not very suitable for each other and he is, too, not that into me. But in the second date, he played with my hands, placed his hands on mine, put my hand on his lap and held my hands (ocassionally). I don't know what that means? He also talks about how he wants to get into serious dating and get married. I was a bit scared cus i thought it is a bit early to talk about this. So, i built a wall between us and don't have a lot of trust in him. At the same time, i still have feelings for him. He did point out one thing: he feels that i don't like to share my feelings with him and i don't like to express myself.

I feel very frustrated and afraid to get cheated on (for using me to get citizenship).

2006-11-04 15:55:19 · 17 answers · asked by polinatora 1

I dont know for sure if she would do it but part of me already knows something has happened. I have chosen to forgive her already for whatever she does. May be stupid but im willing to stay here and get my butt kicked and be put through hell everyday just for the chance she will pick me again. Of course i will be devastated if she does because that ISNT her way in the least. But oh well if she does its all my fault :) i mean i cant sleep or eat or anything for that matter when she goes out im messed up lol help

2006-11-04 15:54:00 · 21 answers · asked by eyeneeder 1

We have been together 5 years, 2 kids... and i gave my 1000% to our marriage for this whole time... he however is a big time alcoholic. he would get drunk, hurt himself in front of me, abusive mentally... And now he wonders why my feelings have changed for him. he wonders why Im not giving it my all anymore. When I was he never appreciated it! So, I started taking norice to my neighbor that I visit with frequently... he knows Im about to end my marriage with my husband, cuz of the mental abusive situations... so hes holding off until im divorced... I would never physically cheat on my husband right now, but I hold stronger feelings for this other guy than i do my hubby. Should I stay in this type of relationship, and raise our kids around it??... Or should I say screw it, and find true happiness again with this other guy I possess such strong feelings for?... I dont know if i can ever be with or care for my hubby again like i used to cuz of our bad past...

2006-11-04 15:52:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who is in this similar situation...any comments? And yes it is my friend!!

2006-11-04 15:46:47 · 30 answers · asked by Sunflower 2