I have a friend who is in this similar situation...any comments? And yes it is my friend!!
2006-11-04 15:46:47 · 30 answers · asked by Sunflower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, In my opinion it's wrong. Sex is a big part of a relationship but it's not everything. Would you rather be with a man who treats you like crap but he's good in bed? I would rather have a good men (especially because they are so rare now days) who's not good in bed than a horrible man who can put it down. Men are teachable. You can teach a man how to be good in bed but you can't teach him how to be a good man, they have to come that way. LOL
What happens if you cheat and lose him and can never again find a good man?? Would it be worth it???
2006-11-04 21:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheating is Cheating no matter what the reason behind it is. Try to learn new things, tell your partner what you want , need , like and dont like, If there is respect for eachother you will grow together and learn from each other. If you cheat it wont make sex with your spouse any better, just make you a cheater and you can expect to lose everything you built together. Is Sex worth that?
2006-11-04 17:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by PAUL B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously that your friend is very immature and is thinking only of sexual pleasure instead of loving her partner. Love is more than just sex. And even if he's not good in bed is NO reason to cheat on him. People need to quit thinking so much about themselves, and think about their partner, and their partner's feelings and needs.
Ask your friend how she thinks her partner would feel if he found out that she were to cheat on him, just because he's not good in bed. It will crush him. As a man, we are very sensitive about our sexual performance, and being told that we are not good in bed, is like getting stabbed in the back with a knife.
Also if your friend is only thinking about her sexual pleasure, she's too immature to be in an monogamous relationship.
2006-11-04 15:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is not about wether he is good in bed or not...If you thing you man islousy in bed there are a lot of things that you can do to improve that.. first of all did you talk yo him about that??That is he not good in bed and did you try to resolve this? by cheating on someone who does not know why it would be unfair to this good man... he does not know that he never satisfies you in bed.. give the man the chance to improve his style and maybe he will not make you sleep all night long.. talk to him about the bed part not that you cheated ok...
2006-11-04 15:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by pinky c 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong. Why doesn't she just leave him instead of cheating on him? I'm sure there would be some good woman who would appreciate him. Also maybe she is the reason he is not good in bed. Maybe she just does not turn him on.
2006-11-04 16:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by stariei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always wrong to cheat. If the person is unhappy than they should get counseling or get out of the relationship. The pain and agony your friend will cause to her good man if he finds out or the guilt she will have to carry is not worth the little bit of selfish pleasure. She needs to think before she acts out. Good Luck, I hope that you can be a helpful friend.
2006-11-04 15:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by galbee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong...sooooo wrong!!!!!!!!!! if your not happy and want to cheat then you need to get out of the relationship...if he is such a good man why would you EVER want to hurt him...because thats what would happen, he would be hurt. Tell your " friend " to try and change his sexual mishaps by renting movies, buying sex books, telling him what you like, try a toy?
anything. If he is a good guy dont risk losing him over something that can be fixed.
2006-11-04 15:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's wrong. He's no good in bed because of lack of communication. Your friend needs to tell him what she needs in bed and he needs to communicate with her. She'll never have amazing sex if she can't do that! Sex isn't something that some people are just good at and some people aren't. It takes time to get experience and get to know your partner.
2006-11-04 15:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
certainly wrong....all men can at least be taught to be good in bed. certainly not everyone is bad in bed either. other women may thing he's the man in bed! personal preference can hinder something really great! if she can't show him what he needs to do or she doesn't feel comfortable in doing so, chances are she needs to let this man go so he can find someone who will be honest and faithful.
2006-11-04 15:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to cheat on a good man or a bad man. Cheating is wrong!!
2006-11-04 15:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋