i was wondering. if a marriage can work i would love to have a 3some with my wife guy or girl, its just that i dont know how it would turn out after u have done this will it make her wana cheat, because she has been with another man or women . any advice and how would u get your wife to agree to this. she says no. but acks like she would.
2006-11-04 16:53:30 · 12 answers · asked by wayneco_n_wv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
STOP THINKING OF YOURSELF!!!! Your only thinking of your pleasure. I seriously doubt that your wife is interested in a threesome. Because your being disrespectful to her. Why do you think having a threesome would be a good thing for your marriage? If you do this, it could cause alot of resentment from your wife.
Also think about how your wife might feel if she see's you having sex with another woman? How would it make her feel? Or how would you feel seeing her having sex with another man? Do you think she would be comfortable with that, or would you be comfortable with that?
Sex was created to be between a husband and wife, not to be taken outside of the marriage by adding other people into the bed.
For the sake of your marriage, DON'T DO IT!!!!
2006-11-04 17:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep your marriage, don't do it. My husband is always trying to convince me that we should have a 3some, guy or girl. He would prefer girl of course. I always said no and now when our marriage is rocky I am considering it but with a guy of course, because hey my husband will let me have sex with another guy who I'm attracted to. I think this will probably be the end of our marriage. And i'm not actually going to go through with this, but knowing that he would want me to sleep with another guy and be fine with it has made me lose interest in him and gain interest in other's. It makes me want to check out other guys, which i never did before this was suggested. I would never cheat on my husband but these feelings show me that our marriage doesn't have much chance to last, based on both of our thoughts. Get the thought of 3some out of your head! Or just keep it a fantasy!
2006-11-05 01:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by cherhub 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Couples who bring another person into the marriage are dooming the marriage. A marriage is based on love and respect. There is no respect when sex is just a game to play.
2006-11-05 01:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Slim chance, it will never be the same after. Not a good idea if you love your spouse and dont want to split up. there are alot of other things to bring into the bedroom , besides another person. Dont go there. Chances are YOU WILL REGRET IT!!
2006-11-05 01:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by PAUL B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your wife acts like she would in a fantasy world...where just the mere thought of such a thing excites her and obviously you. Is it really such an important thing for you? Would you expect such debauchery to enhance your marriage.
To each their own, of course, but respect your wife's wishes if you care for her.
2006-11-05 00:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by loriiskind 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bad idea people only do that because they want to have sex with someone else. That thought will drive you crazy and your marriage will end. try a long hot shower
2006-11-05 00:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by BingoBanggoBongo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let her go cause da more she keeps on going with different people there are t many std out her and da ways she going she is going 2 catch something soon
2006-11-05 00:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it will lead to a divorce down the road,
2006-11-05 00:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU CRAZY WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO HURT YOUR MARRIAGE.
2006-11-05 01:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
suprize her!! women luv suprizes have a stripper come and bug her!!!!!! then she will give in cuz of sexyness!!!!!
2006-11-05 01:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by i ♥ abercrombie! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋