Marriage & Divorce - 4 November 2006

2006-11-04 12:30:00 · 5 answers · asked by AnotherguyinJapan 1

Since tonight seems the night to be asking all the questions about cheating, here is one for you.

Why is it when there is a couple living together, married or not and one cheats on the other, not both of them, just one of them is cheating, why does the one that is cheating always gets mad at the other one that is not cheating? Even though the one not cheating knows that the other one is cheating on them, and don't say anything about it to the one that is.

2006-11-04 12:21:07 · 18 answers · asked by SapphireB 6

sometimes it just gets on my nerves I have tried all kinds of ways to tell her without hurting her and at parties or buffets she just eats so much, sometimes I get just a little so that maybe she will feel like she's eating to much but it doesn't help either

2006-11-04 12:20:29 · 26 answers · asked by Daniel S 2

You woke up tomorrow and found yourself five years old again back in time but with the same intellect and memories?

2006-11-04 12:16:10 · 14 answers · asked by rustylium 2

I have the hots for someone else...what should I do?

2006-11-04 12:11:00 · 34 answers · asked by yakimablueyes 6

My Mr. Future – Son – In Law is engaged to be married to My Daughter sometimes next year. My daughter wanted to buy a new car (She has One and works perfect with no problems). She quit her job after the engagement with little or no resources for a new car. Mr. Future son-in law's parents purchased a new car yesterday in his NAME and Title and told their future daughter-in -law that she can drive the car and own it after she pay-off's the loan of $ 27 K or more. The monthly payment for her is nearly $ 500. She has no legal ownership in this car and my Future Son-In - Law made the decisions on this for her. What to expect from this in the future and from the in-laws if she is unable to make one or more monthly payments. If you were in her shoes what would you do.

2006-11-04 12:03:18 · 10 answers · asked by US 2

2006-11-04 12:02:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my boyfriend SO much! I love everything about him, he is so damn sexy, and he is so sweet to me. He suprised me and took my to Chigaco for my 21st birthday! I also love how he loves to cuddle with me when we watch movies. What are some of the things you LOVE about your sifnificant other?

2006-11-04 11:54:45 · 13 answers · asked by Stark 6

never be home and end up having a long term affair?

2006-11-04 11:54:26 · 22 answers · asked by who me? 3

I mean... do you think more people start the affair so that the marriage will end? what are other reasons for the affair???

2006-11-04 11:52:20 · 22 answers · asked by who me? 3

If your wife/partner cheated on you sexually, which of these males would be most and least threatening to you as her preferred choice of partner? What thoughts and feelings would each one bring up for you? You can even rate them in order of disgustingness, if you wish.

a) a guy with a very large penis, eg 10 inches+

b) a sickeningly handsome Adonis

c) a boot-ugly evil old billionaire

d) a 13 year old boy

e) your best friend

f) a criminal

g) an average normal guy, not that different from you

2006-11-04 11:51:15 · 11 answers · asked by Girl Machine 7

He tells everyone that he's going to las vegas on a buisness trip and he comes back the following monday and tell me that he got married to his ex-girlfriend that he had only been dating for 8weeks. Now its not like shes mean or anything but shes very wierd and its like a stranger has moved in.

2006-11-04 11:48:45 · 12 answers · asked by Pam N 1

I WANTED HIM BACK AND I WANTED TO MAKE THINGS WORK WITH ME AND HIM

2006-11-04 11:44:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. I have been on workers comp for 3 years because I injured myself at work .During that last year, I got married. With our marriage came alot of bills that comp did not pay them very well. My wife is disabled so she cannot really work. She did however constanttly push me to start working again. After I got the doc's ok , I tryed out for at least 9 or 10 different jobs. A few weeks went by with no luck of getting a job. I did have 2 interviews but I believe thier backround checks they found out I was an injured worker afraid to take on a guy who collected workers comp. Anyways I did get a job finally after a month with a place I have worked for before with no questions asked because they know my work ethics and apprieciate them. In the mean time, my wife believes I am going back to the past. She does not want me to work at this place because it is in the city I used to have a girlfriend in and a city where I used to drink. The drinking and the gf have no connection with the employer o

2006-11-04 11:33:07 · 16 answers · asked by Kevin S 1

has anyone ever left/divorced their mate for the other woman/man. if so did it end in disaster like me or did it work out

2006-11-04 11:30:13 · 21 answers · asked by keithy 3

My friend is in the middle of a divorce, when it is finalized he and his ex-wife will have joint custody of their 4 year old. Right now his ex- and her new boyfriend have photos of his/their daughter on their myspace pages, is there anything he can do to make them remove them? with all the sick people on the internet and as much personal info that myspace gives out, he is concerned for her safety.

2006-11-04 11:28:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have tried the wife handles all the money stuff. It just never happens. He won't (hasn't) let it/made it.
Do I love him?, with all my heart. Sometimes love isn't enough.

2006-11-04 11:23:32 · 14 answers · asked by meggamom6 1

I have caught my husband on more than one occasion lying to me. The first two times, it was little things - he'd been chewing tobacco (yuck!) behind my back since we met and he'd gone to a strip club with his friends...whatever. I was more upset by his "reasoning". He lied because "he knew I would be mad and get crazy." In my opinion, if you are doing something that will make your wife mad, you shouldn't do it. A few months ago, I caught him having secret conversations with a woman he used to date...not just every now and then, they were talking about 4-5 hours a day (with about 8 seperate calls); and they'd only talk when I wasn't around. He lied about it continuously until I pulled our $450.00 phone records. That's ended (as far as I'm told - I can't get past it though) but now I catch him lying to me again about how he's been in contact with one of his (guy) friends. What should I do? I get so mad but is it warranted? I think so. But, am I making it too huge? He says yes

2006-11-04 11:19:38 · 21 answers · asked by Jax 4

She is a wreck, crying all the time. She says she is angry and hurt. She suspected he was cheating, but never imagined it was anything serious. Right now she is on the phone crying. I suugested that she get professional help as soon as posible; I am willing to take her. But right now she only wants to be cry and talk...
I am very sad for her, and i don't know what to do.

2006-11-04 11:17:33 · 15 answers · asked by Dulcinea 5

I am aware it needs to be officiated, but whats the difference?

2006-11-04 11:11:48 · 14 answers · asked by missadrian05 2

i believe i am in love so much that i cannot ever be happy unless i am with this person he is my soulmate things didnt work out because of me i was not a good gurl but i am so sorry for the things i have doen he wasnt perfect either but i wish i could be with i think about him constantly even though we have been broken up for 4 months we were together for 3 years and i thought we would marry i cannot see my life wihtout him in it i hjave tried to get him back but he says he does not trust me waht can i do if anything he was my first love and will be my only love i cannot see myself wiht anyone but him i know he loves me more than anything but we just appreciate what we had when we had it what should i do what can i do to foget i have tried datign other people and for a while it worked but i always went to him i know this sounds stupid but when your in love thats all that matters

2006-11-04 11:09:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think he's been cheating on me. I checked his mobile and saw some text messages to this woman, saying he's missing her and asking if she'd like to see him again etc. It doesn't sound like a text that you would send to a friend. What shall i do? I know her mobile number but he hasn't put her real name, he's put a guys first name instead, so i don't know who this woman is. I want to contact this woman and find out who she is, but how shall i go about, without her getting suspicious or letting her know who i am?

2006-11-04 11:04:19 · 16 answers · asked by curiousugar 1

This is my first marriage and we've been married for a year. In that time I have sold or threw away everything I ever had while I was in another relationship...I cared so much about many of these things..for example all of my musical equipment and instruments. She considered them tainted from another relationship although my girlfriends never so much as touched any of them. I want to know if I am asking too much of her to get rid of her wedding dress from her last marriage. She says no way! Her only excuse is the fact that it cost so much but I have made many sacrifices to pay bills with my stuff in the past. We are still in a financial jam as I continue to sell everything I care about while that dress is just making me mad. Why is it so important?

2006-11-04 11:03:49 · 29 answers · asked by Kevin S 1

Okay here's the thing, my ex owes me back child support. I have gone to the attorney general's office, and they said, and I quote, "I am really sorry miss, but because it is not worded correctly in your divorce papers, we are unable to help you."
What is up with that?? Come on.. There has to be someone or some group that will help me. With out my having to spend 1000's of dollars, to get what is owed to my daughter, not me, but my daughter.. I am a firm believer that the money goes to my daughter. If I have to use some of her money, then I pay her back.

Okay thanks for taking the time!

2006-11-04 10:57:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-04 10:56:25 · 27 answers · asked by missadrian05 2

I had a discussion at work with about 20 or so men and we wanted to know why women think we should be faithful if you make no attempt to fulfill us sexually. We put it to a vote and we decided that our wives can tl us how much they would like us to be faithful by the actions they take sexually. If we were as woefully pathetic with our income as you are with sex, you would leave us!

2006-11-04 10:51:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

yes i say women, he had three two I know personally, we used to work with both of them. So I know how to find them and I did, I felt I needed to do it for my own sanity, right or wrong it doesnt matter, i didnt go to their b/f-husbands with it though that's not my place, but my question is, I told them look I know what happened blah blah blah they replied both of them replied and denied anything ever happened after he had told me about it what do you guys think was their motive for lying?

2006-11-04 10:36:17 · 24 answers · asked by Stormy Waters 2

2006-11-04 10:25:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been together almost 12 years, married almost 7. We have 4 schoolage children. He has a horrible gambling problem. At times has spent entire paycheck @ casinos (all of our bill money). He has tried Gambler's Annonymous, and counseling. Counseling not going so well due to job schedule. Since the BIG fight about the gambling/debts he's been very loving/affectionat, but I sometimes feel like I should just divorce him and get it over with. Other times I feel like he IS trying and I'm hoping for the best. I'm afraid he'll just end up (sooner or later) gambling again, which will force me to leave him (its been on-going for 3 yrs.). I'm looking at inflicting more pain on our entire family by giving it more time, or cut our losses and end it all now, so we can ALL recover and move on. HELP!!!

2006-11-04 10:22:45 · 18 answers · asked by meggamom6 1

and are you still together?

2006-11-04 10:14:23 · 19 answers · asked by tess 1