If your wife/partner cheated on you sexually, which of these males would be most and least threatening to you as her preferred choice of partner? What thoughts and feelings would each one bring up for you? You can even rate them in order of disgustingness, if you wish.
a) a guy with a very large penis, eg 10 inches+
b) a sickeningly handsome Adonis
c) a boot-ugly evil old billionaire
d) a 13 year old boy
e) your best friend
f) a criminal
g) an average normal guy, not that different from you
2006-11-04 11:51:15 · 11 answers · asked by Girl Machine 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not meant to be manipulative - I would never cheat with anyone, under any circumstances, and this is definitely hypothetical and only for general interest.
Please feel free to ignore the question if it is distressing for you - I know it is a confronting subject.
2006-11-04 12:07:29 · update #1
a) a guy with a very large penis, eg 10 inches+
She did it for pleasure, obviously she isn't getting what she wants at home.
b) a sickeningly handsome Adonis
She fell into lust, may have been a one time thing, but deserves the boot.
c) a boot-ugly evil old billionaire
She wants the kind of money you don't have. Let the gold digger go.
d) a 13 year old boy
She's sick.. Run away
e) your best friend
She not only did it for pleasure, but to hurt you. Dump her.
f) a criminal
She finds her life boring, she wanted some danger. Dump her because she will probably never own up to being sorry for cheating. And who wants the stress of constantly having to please a woman?
g) an average normal guy, not that different from you
She doesn't love you anymore or isn't getting what she wants out of your relationship., She is looking for someone new. Dump her.
If my woman cheated on me with any of those types, and begged for forgiveness, i MAY give her another chance. With the exception of the best friend and the 13 y/o. Those both are unforgivable.
2006-11-04 12:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These are great hypothetical scenarios, but I have to say that ultimately cheating still counts as the same thing: trust is broken and the person you thought you were involved with is fundamentally different than you thought.
For a, b, c, and f, there is something pretty selfish and hedonistic about those choices and I don't typically go out with someone who would make those choices in the first place (someone who isn't obsessed with money or physical satisfaction). d and e indicate something is pretty warped about her. I can understand g, but it's still cheating.
2006-11-05 07:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by KatGuy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL 13?????
This is a very good question. I am enjoying seeing the men's answers. In real life, most men want to keep their wives after they have affairs.
2006-11-04 12:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't matter who my mate cheated on me with, gone is the key word.
2006-11-04 11:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating......why are so many female surveys seeming "How to be most manipulative" based?
2006-11-04 11:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
None of the above.
2006-11-04 11:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by StuPenDus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what kind of question is that? what does it matter what "type" of guy she cheated with? she still cheated!
2006-11-04 12:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
most threat would be a criminal least would be a normal guy. good question.
2006-11-04 13:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by pickledaddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter, she cheated.
2006-11-04 14:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the right answer isn,t here, it was with a butt ugly stinking *** geek
2006-11-04 14:27:20 · answer #10 · answered by indm45 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋