2006-11-04 10:25:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sit in the middle of them!! lol
2006-11-04 10:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Ask my husband. He's going crazy.
The only thing that drives him crazier than the fighting is when we stop in the middle of the fight and cheerfully go to the mall.
Then two hours later we're arguing again.
It's just human nature. There really isn't room in one house for two women, and your daughter is growing up. It will settle down after she starts college and they will be best friends again.
2006-11-04 18:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by sparticle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the wife first. Why on earth would an adult fight with a child.....the wife is the adult for crying out loud, there is no argument.
Tell you wife how terrible it is for you and it isn't doing the daughter any good either = then talk to the daughter. Insist they stop this. then sit down with both and make a plan.
2006-11-04 18:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's just part of growing up. i fought with my mom alllll the time from the time i could talk until my older brother moved out and went to college... now we work together and we were friends for a while.... now that i'm getting ready to leave and get out on my own we fight about stupid stuff and like 5 minutes later we talk like nothing happened... it's just the way "women" are... i think you need to stay out of it because if you don't then you'll get into trouble.... best of luck and i promise it won't be like this forever!!
2006-11-04 19:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
I would tell them to stop. My wife and daughter has disagreements, but not fights.
The kids know, you want daddy to be happy then you had better show your mother all the respect in the world, or dad will not be happy, and if dads not happy, then you kids will not be happy.
And if mommy is not happy, then dads not happy.
I for one want to be happy, so I protect my wife and make sure the kids respect her. If they yell, then they are sooooooo toast (grounded).
Mothers deserve respect from the kids, not attitude.
2006-11-04 18:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my other half has a daughter from first marriage we dont always get along and i feel bad b/cause he must feel like piggy in the middle i should just step aside b/cause they r flesh and blood but i dont like 2 c him get walked over so i do open my mouth sometimes i think u should try not to take sides but keep your eyes open to each situation both r prob as bad as the other just women r bitchy towards each other and they learn early
2006-11-04 18:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that your daughter is a teenage, there is nothing that you can do. She will grow out of it. Try to get your wife to leave her alone more. That may help a little.
2006-11-04 18:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by KC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same to my mom and usually my father tries to ease things but sometimes after my mom and I yell at each other we calm down and we go from there
2006-11-04 18:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tolerate it. Punish whichever one of them engages in it. Make it worse for the one that engages in it. Don't try to figure out who starts it.
2006-11-04 18:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to counseling.
2006-11-04 18:26:41 · answer #10 · answered by jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋