We have tried the wife handles all the money stuff. It just never happens. He won't (hasn't) let it/made it.
Do I love him?, with all my heart. Sometimes love isn't enough.
2006-11-04 11:23:32 · 14 answers · asked by meggamom6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You want to end your marriage with someone you supposedly love with all your heart because you can't work out money issues?
Sounds like there's another reason for you to be thinking about divorce.
2006-11-04 12:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love changes throughout the years. It's not the same love as your wedding night but it's still love. Just because it's a different kind of love doesn't mean you have to leave unless you don't love him at all. I found out when my husband had two heart attacks in one month what love really meant. It's not just having sex, it's knowing what the other will say or do. It's spending time with them quietly and know exactly what they are thinking. It's so many things and they all mean love. As far as the money, I did it for most of the marriage and got tired of it and just told him it was his turn and he does just fine.
2006-11-04 19:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by winter715 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have already made your decision. Now that you know that you are going to leave. Plan your move by consulting with an attorney. In addition contact the your debtors and let them know that you are leaving your husband so they can remove your name from the bills. You need to protect yourself, your children and your name.
2006-11-04 19:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by msladykm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job and handle your own money.
2006-11-04 19:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by Ginger Sling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and save your marrage, its people like you who make other men never want to get married
2006-11-04 19:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by dohm84 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prepare for a fat lonely sexless and depressing future alone..or stop the whining, watch the weight shut you mouth and perform wherever whenever and with whoever he says.......simple isnt it
2006-11-04 19:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce him
2006-11-04 19:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by Claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disvorce him.Well, listen to your heart. Good luck!
2006-11-04 19:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really enough here to make any decisions.
2006-11-04 19:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by Mommy-of-Twins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have equal responsibility and he needs to be that or it wont work
2006-11-04 19:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋