yes i say women, he had three two I know personally, we used to work with both of them. So I know how to find them and I did, I felt I needed to do it for my own sanity, right or wrong it doesnt matter, i didnt go to their b/f-husbands with it though that's not my place, but my question is, I told them look I know what happened blah blah blah they replied both of them replied and denied anything ever happened after he had told me about it what do you guys think was their motive for lying?
2006-11-04 10:36:17 · 24 answers · asked by Stormy Waters 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok, well i did address it with him trust me i'm not just focusing in on them, lol, you guys should see how pitiful he looks now and let me tell you I have yet to cook, do laundry or clean my house since his little confession, ti's complicated we have two small children and the baby needs constant medical attention we have to go to houston every two weeks to get him the help he needs and I dont want to take his father away from him, people make mistakes I understand that, but I also know that I will not be played again, all this he told me at once so its not like he told me about them one at a time and i accepted it, this is his first and last chance, if you didnt notice i dont put up with much bull **** lol and i dont think he's lying, I am pretty notorious for a "dont mess with me attitude" especially at work where I know these two from so I guess that may be a factor but then again they should have thought about that before they spread their legs, but yes he has been dealt with too.
2006-11-04 11:48:28 · update #1
I would be more concerned about why your Husband told you in the first place, could it not be that your Husband is lying, I am not saying he is, but you have to look at it from both sides, and try to rationalize everything, Men do sometimes lie about this type of thing, to make their partners jealous
2006-11-04 10:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by hotbabes_tracey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, I figured you were watching the show Cheaters. Some friends and I were watching this past Saturday and it was refreshing to see the wronged woman get all up in her cheating boyfriend's grill and leave the unaware other woman alone. We got into a discussion about why some women do that. The only male in the room suggested that maybe the woman is so focused on the other woman being competition that she fails to see that the woman was not the person that betrayed her trust.
2016-05-21 23:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you!!I get so tired of hearingwomen that just let the sh*t go and its gotten away with.They probably lied to save their own relationships.{sounds stupid,I know]But they are probably sleepin around but not leaving their man.
I hope you took care of him in a way that made you feel better while you were getting them.Good Job!!
2006-11-04 10:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by migamw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liars, and cheaters, always deny the truth, even when you prove it to them. If you chase a liar down, and catch them......what have you got?? A LIAR! You KNOW the truth, so my advice is to let the liars go on doing waht liars do.....LIE! You move on with your life, and don't get pulled down by a pack of lying, cheating, good-for-nothings!
2006-11-04 10:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's wrong of those women to have cheated on their better halves. but shouldn't you be giving your bf/husband the boot. after all he cheated on you not just once but twice and maybe with other women God knows how many. the cheating never would have happened if he didn't let it. so he's just as much to blame.shouldn't you be re-directing your anger the other way.
2006-11-04 10:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by gracie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't even care about the men they are with, they certainly don't care about you or feel guilty at all. Personally I would dump that @ss and move on before he brings something home, and I am not talking about a present!
2006-11-04 10:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were trying to avoid any further actions from you. They didn't want any arguements and it would make them look bad if they confessed and could lead into a bigger mess if it goes to court for divorce and all.
2006-11-04 10:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by Just Bein' Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Majority of people are cowards....no one wants to accept responsibility for their actions anymore. She obviously has no honor or Integrity and neither does he...so I say let them eat cake! they are made for each other. Get yourself a good man, and when you find one let me know if he has a brother....
2006-11-04 10:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by Daisy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no one wants to admit being a homewrecker. Forget about why they lied. Think about why you care and why an admittance from them would change anything. Address and confront the problem...HIM.
2006-11-04 10:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by Petra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i would have got the proof, and would not have contacted the ladies, i did one even better when my spouse cheated with another man, and she gave me all the details i had it delivered by courier to his spouse what she did with the information was her choice. but i felt the both had to be held accountable for their actions. of course the ladies would deny it to your face you mean nothing to them, and why should they worry about your feelings. your married to the idiot who bed-ed them. they didn't. if you hold your husband accountable then the ladies should be held accountable by their spouse to.. if all did this the amount of adultery would diminish greatly
2006-11-04 10:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋