I WANTED HIM BACK AND I WANTED TO MAKE THINGS WORK WITH ME AND HIM
2006-11-04 11:44:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WHY? THINK about this for a while -- he is an EX for a reason -- and they are NOT good (believe me). That is why it is MUCH healthier (emotionally, physically, mentally and every other way) to LOOK FORWARD instead of backwards -- you have a NEW lease on life, a NEW chance at a BETTER and more COMPATIBLE mate, and it is just so much to your benefit that you will be happier in the end.
2006-11-04 12:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
remember the saying......
If you love something
Set it free.
If it comes back, it was and
Always will be yours.
If it never returns, it was
Never yours to begin with.
I kept this in mind when I was in this situation and after I completly gave up hope he came back because he realized that he still cared for me a lot. We didn't fight at all and the reason we stopped going out to begin with was because right before we got together he ended a long messy relationship. I think it was better that we were apart for a while, because now I know I wasn't a replacement for her!
Good luck!
2006-11-04 11:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he no longer with you. If he is the one that left, and he gave you reasons why, then fix those reasons.
If you are the one who instigated the separation, then call him and tell him you were wrong, and you want to try again.
But, be honest with yourself. Are you just lonely, and need someone? Why do you want this man back? Really, why? This soul searching should help you know what to do.
2006-11-04 11:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is an ex for a reason. Think about the reason why. If it was you talk to him and see if he feels the way. Thats the best you can do. You really dont want to FORCE someone to love you! IT WONT WORK
2006-11-04 11:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by tess 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
An EX is an EX for a reason!
I suggest you recap the reasons you're no longer together and move on from there. However, chances are that you should just move on, have a few one night stands and forget him.
2006-11-04 11:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by AJD 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You don't say who finished it? Either way it's over, it's very hard to get back to what you once had once either of you says that. Try & be strong, think the longer you spend crying over him the less time you spend laughing with the one you're meant to be with!!
2006-11-04 11:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by celtic_beaut 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call him, and talk to him about it, but know that there could be rejection involved. remember why he is an ex, because those who fail to remember the past are doomed to repeat it.
2006-11-04 11:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him up and tell him that u need to talk! sit down and talk to him. tell him how u still feel, and try to fix whatever went wrong. sometimes all it takes is to be apart to realize that u still love each other.
2006-11-04 11:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about why he is your ex and move on
2006-11-04 11:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by Claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haven't you ever heard once you leave you can never go back it will never be the same, because their is too much past
2006-11-04 11:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by connie m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋