Okay it's like this we've been together for almost six wonderful months. During the fifth month he's been working is butt off working two jobs. I rarely heard from him. But I know he wasn't cheating all he was doing was work, work, and more work.
Anyway, I finally got a chance to talk to him and asked him if was avoiding me. He said no at first and then he said yes because he was offered a permanent job in Oklahoma. I emotional, but I don't think he knew, or he did but was holding back. He said that he talked to his family and friends and they said he should go.
But the only thing that stopping him is "me." He said leaving me here would be the hardest thing to do because I bring joy into his life and he didn't want to hurt me. I told him that he should take it because it's a once in a lifetime opportunity. (Holding back my tears.) He got unitl the first of the year to make his final decision.
2006-11-04 16:51:37 · 4 answers · asked by Lady B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are a wonderful person to tell him to take the job. You are putting him first. You give him permission to do what is in his best interest.
If he doesn't pop the question soon he will be losing the most understanding woman he could ever wish for. You are the best thing that has ever happened to him.
2006-11-04 16:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why didn't he tell you sooner? or before he consulted his friends? is he asking you to go with him? how could he stand avoiding you? does he have to choose between you and the job? are you hoping he'd ask you to marry him or atleast go with him? if you mean he's got until the first day of next year to decide, you're going to be miserable for 2 months and more if he chooses the job over you. at this point he should be wanting to marry you if you mean that much to him. you should work at getting ready to move on
2006-11-05 01:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by out of my wit's end 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough decision that he has to make .If you love someone let them go and if they come back it was meant to be ..I find truth in that statement ..Good luck!!
2006-11-05 00:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by southernn_sky_2020 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with him so that yall can stay with each other
2006-11-05 00:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋