I am currently dating this girl for 8 months now she so beautiful and so amazing. Until we get into a fight. example: Everytime we get into a fight she threatens me with breakig up and kicking me out of the her house. more: and she will go back to stuff that we fought about months earlier, and causes more problems! And she will not even talk to me about it in person txt only well sometimes and it takes a few days for her to get over it. Then she will make remarks....being a complete smartass! HELP!
2006-11-04 09:55:28 · 20 answers · asked by 19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Plus dhe goes through my email.
2006-11-04 11:17:18 · update #1
I think you need to find you someone else and start over new again. You need to go out and find someone that really wants to be with you and that cares about you. The reason why she acts like that and says that she is going to break up with you everytime is because you let her say it so much, she knows you are not going anywhere, because if you were you would have done left. She knows that she can get away with it. To me it sounds like she is using you for something you got.
2006-11-04 15:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her to stop threatening and just do it or stop doing it. Tell her you can't take that kind of drama and won't either. If she is bringing up past issues than they are still an issue for her. Next time tell her it will get fixed right then the adult way and not brought up later. Fight it out until it is resolved and never bring it up again. It's very immature to continue bringing it up. As for her smart butt remarks, tell her to grow up she isn't 5 anymore. She seems very immature anyway. She only texts? What is that about, she still in high school? She needs to start acting like and adult if she wants to be in an adult relationship.
2006-11-04 19:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by ~*~frankie~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure u got somewhere 2 go and nxt time she threatens u just get your stuff and go no matter what she says then ignore her txts and phone calls b/c she will get in touch with u even if it takes a few days give her a taste of her own medicine and she get the msg then u will have upper hand and prob some respect then u can tell her how u feel about ur relationship
2006-11-04 19:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that the only way your going to move on with your relationship is to let go of the past. It doesn't seem like she wants to resolve it,or she would'nt keep bringing it up. Sending "Text Messages" is her way of saying what she wants to say,but not wanting to hear what you have to say. (Actually) I think she's being rather childish. Ignore her text messages,and ignore her for a few days. When she comes around wanting to talk,then listen patiently,until she starts "clowning again". If she brings up "The Past" again,then it's time for you to find someone who's a lot more mature,with a little less drama.
2006-11-04 18:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who treats you with respect. It IS a 2 way street. I dated a guy for a couple years who threatened to leave me every time we had a disagreement and wouldnt call me for a couple of days just to make me apologize even when it wasnt my fault. Finally I got sick of it and left him. I am so much happier .
2006-11-04 18:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by tarahump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you girl needs to grow up. You need to tell her that "what happen in the past stays in the past". Maybe next time she threatens to break up with you break it off with her. You could always try talking to her about things.
2006-11-04 18:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that relationship. She is very imature and you cant not live day to day wondering if she will snap and you are then homeless. Either get help or move out. You can get better.
2006-11-04 17:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by tess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds harsh, but you need to get out of this relationship before you go any further. she will never change this roller coaster mood and it may be the beginning of a mood disorder (depression, manic depression) or even worse, a personality disorder (borderline personality disorder) she needs counseling and you may too.
2006-11-04 18:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by outtahere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what is going on with her mood swings and ask how you can help her to feel much better then soon you will to. By the way if she has yahoo answers and she saw that you called her a smartass then you better consulte her before you ask her these questions.
2006-11-04 18:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by Brittany P 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Move out and see how you feel about the relationship then. She may like making you feel dependent on her.
2006-11-04 18:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋