2006-11-04 08:13:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would give them more affection.
2006-11-04 08:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Show them!!!!
Everyone wants to feel loved. Especially women.
Don't be afraid to show or tell your real feelings for someone. Guys tend to think that by having sex with a women that they have shown affection.
Not true. Affection is more than sex.
Affection to me is holding my hand,rubbing my feet,playing the grab game,telling me you love me without me saying it to you first,cooking me dinner not out to eat,buying me a gift just because not for some special occasion.
There are so many ways to show affection. Affection is simple things. Talk to you partner more. Tell them what they truly mean to you.
Exercise: Imagine your partner left you or died. Picture this as if it were real imagine what you would say or do to get them back if you could. Imagine all the things that you would have said or did differently to them if you had just had the chance.
You need to live everyday like it is the last day. All ways tell them and show them so you have no regrets..
And most importantly listen to what they are telling you. They will drop hints here and there about what you aren't doing or saying to make them feel loved.
Then change and do some of those things that they want. Embrassament isn't even an option.
Don't worry about what other people think or say it is your life not their's. And I'm sure that if they are in love they would do what ever it took to hold on to there loved one.
So do as your partner asks. Show them the affection that they long for and I gurantee your realtionship will be better in everyway.
2006-11-04 16:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by rockn75 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you were previously unaware of your partner's desire for more affection than you've currently been showing, you likely are also unaware what they mean when they ask for more. So, schedule a time when you both have time to talk. Better yet, set up a specific day and time for giving your partner an extra special piece of your attention. When the time comes, let them know you're sorry if you have been unaware of what they need. Ask them to describe to you what they mean when they ask for more affection. Listen patiently. What they have to say in response might not be easy for them to think of or they might have a seemingly endless number of things to say. When you think you understand what they're asking for, repeat back to them what you believe you've been asked for. When they confirm that you understand what they want, let them know whether you're willing to do all they ask. Be honest if you aren't and explain why and what you are willing to do. Remain calm and keep your heart and your mind open. It's likely more complex than it seems.
2006-11-04 16:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by berdudget 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Become a total nuisance and fawn all over them.
Then slowly back down the attention until they stop complaining and leave it right there.
Helps to find out what kind of affection they like too..
Ramp it up every now an then too for a short while...
Keep it fun and new.
Things don't remain static and keep the SO guessing...
2006-11-04 16:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by Kaustaub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would show them more affection, and take note of the things that they really appreciate and keep doing those things. If you do really like that person then it will be a small sacrifice for making them feel more appreciated; and it's likely to benefit the relationship as a whole. I would let them know that I welcome their comments as well, as it's far better to communicate what is wrong than to just run away and leave the relationship.
2006-11-04 18:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by teary chocolate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get them to write a list/letter explaining what they mean by affection and then do it, and not just once but every day for the rest of their lives.
2006-11-05 14:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not confuse affection as meaning 'sex'. Affection is a hug, a touch or a kiss which does not come with the expectation of sex attached to it.
2006-11-07 15:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your partner is screaming for affection you better give it unless you want to eventually lose them to someone else. Last year my husband was begging for more of my time but I wouldnt listen. He had an affair. It wasnt until then that I actually heard him.
2006-11-04 16:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by dana t 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my partner should never have to ask me to show more affection towards him. this is automatic! and if your really in love with that person then they should never have to make a request like this of you.
2006-11-04 16:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show more affection
2006-11-04 17:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by Gossip81 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its quite simple, leave little love notes laying around for them to find. Surprise them with a candlelit dinner for the 2 of you, sprinkle rose petals on the bed, light candles and share a bath. Oh there are so many little things you can do to keep the romance alive
2006-11-04 16:33:22 · answer #11 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋