Marriage & Divorce - 24 October 2006

2006-10-24 19:44:53 · 13 answers · asked by butterfly13 1

2006-10-24 19:41:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is complicated, as always. I have been married 7 years. He loves me, I know, but I can no longer deal with him constantly putting me down, demanding the house to be clean, while changing diapers, making dinner, working full time, carpooling kids, managing a business, while he sits around telling me about his hard day at work. His family hates me because I am american and have different beliefs. They go out of their way to make me upset. I cry to my husband and he refuses to defend me. I feel lonely. We can be home all day and not say 2 words. I don't want to live a lonely life and have my children think this is normal or think that this is what marriage is. I want to be happy and "In Love" and have it be returned. He has denied counseling for years. I fear losing my house, friends, family, and respect. I really need your advice. Am I wrong for wanting to leave? How do I tell him?

2006-10-24 19:38:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My step daughter insists on her father walking her down the isle with the stepfather on the other side. Even after 20 years my husband would rather hurt this guy than even look at him and she knows this. My husband has been in her life and has taken care of her. My husband was hurt and angry when she asked him to do this - is he in the wrong for refusing her? She didn't ask- she simply insisted that he do this.

2006-10-24 19:32:10 · 12 answers · asked by Erik 3

I gave my husband a second chance and he cheated on me again. I left him...tonight he came over to my family's house and started crying...and told me that he would change...

I believe in forgiving...we have all fallen short and we all have sinned...

I know that adultery is grounds for divorce...

But...I wanted to know if your spouse has cheated (twice or more) how many times have you taken them back/forgiven them? And did they ever change? Or was it a never ending cycle?

2006-10-24 19:24:38 · 9 answers · asked by Bella 1

2006-10-24 19:17:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is the lady who asked a favor to my husband if she and her friend can use some electricity to plug their extension cord in my garrages so they can dig the basketball court in my x-nieghbor yard.

She is the one who borrowed my husband cell phone and also talking to my husband by our garages. My husband said,she asked for house phone but he gave her his cellphone so he won't have to get up.

She is the same lady also who told my husband that she's a nurse and her brother own the Nickolites coffee shop here in the City where I live.

This lady live the same street where I live. Me and my husband always passed by their house everytime we go somewhere or to the store. There's other street go to instead of their street but my husband has been accustomed go that way ever since before she moved in to her new home.

I need your comments guys how I get rid of her in my mind.

2006-10-24 19:00:55 · 14 answers · asked by rauma_raumamary 2

How long did you date?

2006-10-24 18:48:16 · 14 answers · asked by wondering 4

my wife left me and i am trying to move on but i am hurting so bad i dont know how anymore. i am falling apart all over again.

2006-10-24 18:45:57 · 15 answers · asked by eddie w 1

I have been dating a girl for 3 years. I love how caring, respectful, giving, reliable, loyal, hard working, and competent she is. She would make a lovely wife, but I am not really attracted to her appearance. I get a headache when I think of spending my life with her, and I am overcome with EXTREME EXTREME anxiety when I think of committing myself exclusively to her, such as being married to her. Do I need medication to control my anxiety, so that I can get over this hump??? Maybe she is the best thing that will ever happen to me, & I just need to make the commitment, and settle in with her (i.e.GET MARRIED)and after a few years, maybe I will have become comfortable being with a wonderful girl, like her, and everything will be fine.... or am I just thinking wishfully???

2006-10-24 18:37:58 · 30 answers · asked by should i 1

But I don't trust my wife or myself. I left her once and she had a fling with someone I hated. In fact, had she done it with someone else I would have been over it instantly because I LEFT HER. Anyway, now I don't trust her. In fact, I TOTALLY don't trust her and I'll bet she's being completely honest with me. I'm a fool

Next, I must be sort of attractive or something, because I am 44 and I get hit on all the time by women in their mid 20's on up to about 35 or 36 years old. Older women don't even try to hit on me. I guess they think there's no way I'll do them or something.

Personally, I don't think I'm anything special at all, but I turn down sex often.

The sucky part is that I love my wife and I want to trust her, but I can't even trust myself. It's not because I feel as if I'm always looking to cheat, it's because women always hit on me and it makes me think my wife is like all of them!....plus...it's VERY hard to turn down hot women.

I want a normal marriage. How?

2006-10-24 18:21:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 18:20:05 · 10 answers · asked by jay s 4

I wanted to thank everyone who posted a reply to my blog in which I wrote that I discovered my husband has been visiting the same 3 strippers for over 2 1/2 years, calling strippers compulsively. He has spent 1000's. He claims that he never had sex with these women, but only got lap dances in which he ejaculated into his pants. As I said early I am an attractive women, but since discovering this infidelity, i have felt very low in self-esteem. What has upset me most about this is that I love to have sex and I feel rejected by my husband. I would have gone with him to the bar if that is what excites him, but the fact that he went alone shows that he doesnt care about my emotional and sexual needs. I feel that I am not good enough. I am a good wife, always ready to listen and I like to have sex. I just don't get it. I wonder if he will cheat in the future, and if he had sex with these strippers. I wanted to have children, but he wasn't interested in sex. He says it was to escape stress.

2006-10-24 18:18:28 · 13 answers · asked by CCalias 1

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10 YRS NOW AND MY WIFE DONT WANT TO MAKE LOVE TO ME OR EVEN KISS ME ANY MORE I TRY TO KISS HER AND SOME TIMES SHE WILL KISS ME OTHER TIMES SHE TELLS ME TO STOP SHE NEVER KISSESS ME ON HER OWN ANY MORE I HAVE TO START PLAYING AROUND WITH HER TO GET HER TURNED ON AND EVEN WHILE WE ARE PLAYING SHE TELLS ME TO STOP I HAVE TALKED TO HER ABOUT IT LOTS OF TIMES AND SHE SAYS IT IS HER IRION IS LOW BUT I DONT KNOW IT HAS BEEN 2 MONTHS NOW SINCE THE LAST TIME WE MADE LOVE AND I HAD TO SUCKER HER IN TO IT THEN WHAT WOULD YA DO IN MY CASE I LOVE HER AND DONT WANT TO CHEAT ON HER SHE SAYS I ALL WAYS THINK ABOUT SEX BUT IF A PERSON GETS IT AS MUCH AS I DO THEN YOU KNOW WHY THATS ALL I THINK ABOUT

2006-10-24 18:13:21 · 11 answers · asked by kingkong9274 3

OK, Me and my husband have been married for almost three years. Come to find out 6 months after we were married he had an addiction to chatting. He was paying money for it that he said we did not have. Then about 6 months ago when he was working out of state I found out he was chatting again. (and paying for it when he wouldn't even send money for diapers for our daughter) I found some emails that featured things like (thats saounds fun, but I don't know the area how will I find you. Also emails to a friend he had in high school, telling her they should have dated and he would "practice" having kids with her everyday. And he has only met two perfect women her being one and me not being the other. Also him saying he tryed to cheat on me but couldn't. he said it was because he didn't email them back. He never shows me affection of any kind. I moved 1600 miles for him. There is so much more. Should I believe him? Should I leave him? I just want what is right for my daughter.

2006-10-24 18:09:35 · 7 answers · asked by Triscuit84 2

im not to sure how this is going to work out again

2006-10-24 18:01:02 · 24 answers · asked by christina530 1

Am married for 4 years & found out hb have a more than 6 mth long office affair + internet girfriends 3mths ago & probably had been having affairs on and off for the pass 3 yrs. I filed for divorce & he ask me to reconsider when the lawyers's letter reach him, for our 1 year old son. He agreed to see a consellor and claim he is no longer having the affair. Problem is, he lied about the duration of the affair and is wishy washy on when it started/ end. I know for a fact it is still going on 3 weeks ago. He has since put a password on his hand phone so I can't verify whether he is telling the truth.

Shd I still go ahead and try conselling to see if the marriage can be salvage or is it just gonna to be a waste of time? we have loads of other problems beside the affair, including his tendency to be verbally and emotionally abusive. (in fact, that have reduced after he started having affairs - his lover seems to be getting quite a bit of that) My son adore him, hence my dilema.

2006-10-24 17:40:26 · 24 answers · asked by peaceful 2

2006-10-24 17:37:17 · 14 answers · asked by bipolar_diva 2

I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 2 YEARS MY HUSBAND HARDLY EVER MAKES THE FIRST MOVE. I ALWAYS START WITH FORPLAY HE TURNS OVER 99% OF THE TIME AND GOES TO SLEEP IS HE HAVING AN AFFFAIR OR IS HE GAY?

2006-10-24 17:27:06 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 17:26:47 · 13 answers · asked by eygpt4queen 1

I wanted to thank everyone who posted a reply to my blog in which I
wrote that I discovered my husband has been visiting the same 3 strippers for over 2 1/2 years, calling strippers compulsively. He has spent 1000's. He claims that he never had sex with these women, but only got lap dances in which he ejaculated into his pants. As I said early I am an attractive women, but since discovering this infidelity, i have felt very low in self-esteem. What has upset me most about this is that I love to have sex and I feel rejected by my husband. I would have gone with him to the bar if that is what excites him, but the fact that he went alone shows that he doesnt care about my emotional and sexual needs. I feel that I am not good enough. I am a good wife, always ready to listen and I like to have sex. I just don't get it. I wonder if he will cheat in the future, and if he had sex with these strippers. I wanted to have children, but he wasn't interested in sex.

2006-10-24 17:18:11 · 18 answers · asked by CCalias 1

we have 4 kids and we are doing shared parenting. we don't even know if its his yet.she slept with others also.its killing me everyday.i just never thought this could happen to us. we were middle school sweethearts,married in high school. we had everything in life we ever wanted. don't get me wrong there were some problems but, i never went outside to get what i needed from him.my values of a marriage is broken. i want to love him and be with him again but i know in my heart right now i won't except this child and have her a part of the rest of his live because of this child.has anyone been in my situtation and their marriage worked out?and did you have some of the same feeling.he doen't want her he knows he has done me wrong but i need help.it has been 7 long months,she is due at christmas. then on top of him betraying me my best friend of 11n yrs stole 2 credit cards and charged 4000 on them.she is no longer a friend but i have no one to talk to that i can trust.Please help.

2006-10-24 17:11:56 · 31 answers · asked by heather m 1

me and my wife r considering a divorce.we have a 15y/o son and i'm scared about the effect our divorce will have on him vs. the effect of our constant fighting and yelling(if we were to stay together).can anyone tell which one they think might b more damaging to him?can u tell my what u/your parents did and what effect did it have on ur child/u?

2006-10-24 17:11:52 · 20 answers · asked by Simply Me 5

I feel so fresh out of high school although I am almost out of college. I am 24. Most people I know are in serious relationships or either married. I feel so weird and left out. People get married so young from 17-24 from what I have seen, young in my opion. I dunno....

2006-10-24 17:10:23 · 9 answers · asked by JM 1

My husband left me 7 weeks ago after only 7 months of marriage. I have tried talking to him & he usually says the right things (I want this to work, etc) but it never carries into action. He has already moved into a new place with a guy friend & seems caught up in bachelor life.

2006-10-24 17:05:50 · 21 answers · asked by rain7088r 2

I m looking forward to marry soon. it would be a arrange one.

2006-10-24 17:05:20 · 2 answers · asked by kailash k 1

i dont care she got them after pregnancy but now only has sex in dark or covering up during it. she really is beautiful to me still and i tell her all the time. how can i help her realize more shes beautiful?

2006-10-24 17:02:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am just wondering why guys tend to go for the end so quickly? Don't they enjoy the journey? so why want to get to the destination in such a rush? It's like men are microwaves and women are like crockpots.

2006-10-24 16:56:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mother reciently married someone 2yrs older than me.im 17. prob. is he was a good friend of mine . now what?

2006-10-24 16:51:04 · 5 answers · asked by krzeamy 1

like at weddings, graduations, funerals /etc? i hate it. does anyone else?

2006-10-24 16:45:10 · 10 answers · asked by rhonda3826 5