OK, Me and my husband have been married for almost three years. Come to find out 6 months after we were married he had an addiction to chatting. He was paying money for it that he said we did not have. Then about 6 months ago when he was working out of state I found out he was chatting again. (and paying for it when he wouldn't even send money for diapers for our daughter) I found some emails that featured things like (thats saounds fun, but I don't know the area how will I find you. Also emails to a friend he had in high school, telling her they should have dated and he would "practice" having kids with her everyday. And he has only met two perfect women her being one and me not being the other. Also him saying he tryed to cheat on me but couldn't. he said it was because he didn't email them back. He never shows me affection of any kind. I moved 1600 miles for him. There is so much more. Should I believe him? Should I leave him? I just want what is right for my daughter.
2006-10-24 18:09:35 · 7 answers · asked by Triscuit84 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he paid money on sites that were adult content like AFF or Alt I know I have seen the reciepts
2006-10-24 18:21:20 · update #1
Deep down you already know what's best for you and your baby.Im sure you love this guy,but how much love and respect does he have for you if he can do this stuff.Does he really feel thet what he's doing is harmless to your marrige.Or maybe he think's "what you don't know wont hurt you" Well WRONG !!!!!! If he want's to cheat,then that's his los.Because in the end you and your baby still have eachother(maybe even a better man)and he'll have nothing but child support bill's!
2006-10-24 19:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by lkayj4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An addiction to chatting?
And you buy that excuse?
Tell him to limit his hobby. It is not a medical condition.
Remind him he has a family and a wife and if he continues chasing women on Internet that you will leave.
2006-10-24 18:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by justpatagn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he's doing more than chatting. Chat is usually free.
If he says he's paying for chat, then I would feel that he's lying.
Doesnt sound as tho he respects you as his wife. What's right for your daughter is to have a happy and loved mom!
2006-10-24 18:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would cheat on you if he knew he wouldn't get caught. He is only afraid of getting caught cheating. But just give him time and he will eventually cheat on you. These are the early signs that your marriage is about to be over.
2006-10-24 18:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by Chris C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't believe him. think about it this way: would you rather your daughter live in a household where you and your husband are constantly fighting and she can hear what's going on? or live in a household with you and be able to visit her dad?
2006-10-24 19:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a divorce and go back home. Sounds like he will never quit to me. Find a hometown boy that will be true to you and good to your child.
2006-10-24 18:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by orlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but it sounds like hell to me. I'd stay away and try to move forward.
2006-10-24 18:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋