im not to sure how this is going to work out again
2006-10-24 18:01:02 · 24 answers · asked by christina530 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No!!!! You need to end the last chapter in the first book before starting another. It takes two to end a marriage so you need to find out what role you played in dissolving your marriage and until you do, you should not get involved with anyone. If you did not learn from your marriage the mistakes you made you WILL repeat them and so on. You will end up with many failed marriages. You should find yourself and find your inner peace and be happy with yourself before treading on someone Else's heart. Be so secure that you do not need a man to make you happy. It is when you are finally there that you will be ready to be in a HEALTHY relationship. Hope this helps. (what are you running from??)
2006-10-24 18:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kane nani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no u were to immature the first time around to realize that marriage isnt a game its a commitment thats suppose to last a life time, and u threw away your marriage as if u were throwing away your old barbies u played with only a few years back lol.. NO DONT GET MARRIED U HAVE ZERO CLUE WHAT IT TAKES TO GET MARRIED.. WAIT TILL YOUR MATURE ENOUGH TO ACTUALLY HANDLE THE VOWS UR MAKING.. before u bring children into ur immature world of fly by night moments..that will suffer cause your to immature to know what the hell ur doing.. OBVIOUSLY.. why ruin their lives just because your to busy ruining ur own.. Go back to school.. go have fun.. and when ur actually ready to get married which wont be for atleast another 6 years if that, then think about it then, but DONT BE STUPID ENOUGH TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES TWICE..
2006-10-25 02:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no integrity - do whatever the h*ll you please. Did you not listen when you married your husband to the vows. Love, honor, cherish til death parts us. So you move off to another relationship. Shame on you. This bf will be no different, you will leave him for someone else when the mood suits you.
You need to leave everyone the h*ll alone, and be alone for a while until you grow up.
**I have to say - some of the answers I just read are great!!
2006-10-25 01:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What??? First of all, you shouldn't be married at 19. You are still discovering who you are. You cannot possibly have a long term marriage at such a young age! First take time to grow into who you are and then when you are WHOLE, then you can marry someone who is also whole. Two WHOLE people can make each other happy -- never look to someone to make you happy. You are too young. This I am sure!!!
2006-10-25 01:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by Bubble Yum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your 19, you've already been married and divorced and you are wondering if you are rushing into something by marrying your new boyfriend ...
Sure, why not, don't be half a train wreck - go all the way!!!
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2006-10-25 01:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by Alan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, No, No! This may not be what you want to hear. There is no reason to get married right away. Wait and see how things go between the two of you. Why would you want to remarry right away? You will be happier if you wait.
2006-10-25 01:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, tell him that you're not ready...and you're not!! becaue you're not even sure how long this is going to last, just wait a little bit and see how things are working out and if you think it will work then go for it, just give it some time.
2006-10-25 01:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by kendra dowson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you wait a little while.You are only 19,and still are probably find out who you are as a person,and even more so now that you have just left your husband.I hope that what ever you decide that it all works out for you.
2006-10-25 01:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait. You didn't wake marriage seriously the first time. What makes you think it's different this time? Spend some time with this new guy and make sure you're making the right decision.
2006-10-25 01:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely NOT. Why not try some independance for yourself and find out who you are. There's plenty of time to be married. Dont waste your youth on being tied to another. Enjoy your independence!
2006-10-25 01:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋