Marriage & Divorce - 24 October 2006

my parents are getting divorced,my brothers and i have add, i'm depressed, and now i'm cutting myself...i think i'm only doing that so that i can get attention....i don't have many people that care about me...i secretly want to get in a car accident or be diagnosed with some disease or i want my parents to get divorced so that someone will notice me...i know its horrible...i just want someone to notice me and its a horrible way to do it...i want to stop thinking that stuff but i don' know how

2006-10-24 14:49:53 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2

8% like the feel.
12% like the domination part.
But, 80% just loooooove the silence.

Any thoughts?

2006-10-24 14:43:00 · 12 answers · asked by scott in minnesota 3

Shouyld sex in a marriage take a lesser priority than raising a child or securing a ifnancial future?

2006-10-24 14:42:45 · 16 answers · asked by D 1

i sent my bf a text saying 'i miss you (his name). this is my truth. tchau. meu coracao.' (means bye. my heart. in portuguese, he is from brazil. he is married for his greencard, but his wife thinks it is a real marriage for love. he pays all the bills/rent and she only makes like $300/week. anyhow, somehow, she found the text on his phone and he calls me at 12 midnight with her by his side saying, 'can you explain to my wife that it was a friendly text message, she wants to kick me out of the house.' i said 'sure.' so then she hung up the phone on me. then, about 20 minutes later, i get a call from him, he says, 'don't call me ever again.' i am thinking she was in the room with him when he called me. keep in mind, we were supposed to go to a party together this wknd and he is constantly telling me how in love with me he is. what should i do at this point? i am not going to contact him until he calls me, etc. why didn't he erase the text message from me?

2006-10-24 14:39:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 14:26:05 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 14:17:43 · 6 answers · asked by WORD 1

If your wife/husband caught you in bed with another would you "keep at it" after she/he stormed out or would you go after her/him???

2006-10-24 14:12:07 · 24 answers · asked by Michael 5

2006-10-24 14:10:00 · 14 answers · asked by j b 5

if you found a text message on your husbands phone to his ex-girlfriend that says...."Hey baby i miss u. I miss ur face and ur taste" but when confronted he said that it didnt mean anything and that if he was trying to hide it that he would have erased it. I cant help but think that he wants to get back with her ( they have been broken up for over 5 years)

2006-10-24 14:09:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 14:07:34 · 6 answers · asked by dorothy c 1

She recently told me that she's not in love with me, and never has been. She doesn't want to seperate because we just moved into a new house together with our 2 kids. She doesn't want to have sex because she says it's too complicated. She leaves most of the housework to me and rarely comes home.

There was no fight, no unresolved issue, nothing. I was blindsided.

However, I seriouly doubt she's cheating - it's just not her. She is an amazingly talented person - artist, cook, dancer, writer - she is a force of nature. She's 5'3", 107 lbs, red hair - HOT!!!

I still love her, but I feel in my heart that we're over.

I don't want to leave her because she would be financially ruined, but I can't just watch her grow apart from me.

What the hell should I do?!?

2006-10-24 13:53:44 · 36 answers · asked by felonius_monkey 3

what difference does size really make?

2006-10-24 13:48:18 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

or both?

2006-10-24 13:47:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

We got engaged about 2 months ago, been together for over 6 years. He is divorced and went through lots of therapy after that and doesn't want to do any more. Until he popped the question he had always sworn he would never marry again which was fine with me. Then one day out of the blue he proposes to me. Suddenly he is getting angry with me a lot. There are a few reoccuring issues that we have gotten in to fights over since we first started seeing eachother. I want to figure out how we can deal with them before we tie the knot. Help!

2006-10-24 13:38:37 · 9 answers · asked by umelu 1

Im in constant pain andI have never felt so empty in my life, I truly love my wife and and I can't seem to get any remorse from my her. What can I do to save my marriage and make this feeling go away?

2006-10-24 13:24:29 · 21 answers · asked by relyks76 2

and how do you know you with your soulmate????

2006-10-24 13:20:22 · 22 answers · asked by birdsdafly 3

My boyfriend and me have been talking about getting engaged and this weekend his little brother did! We were going to get married first and I think his little brother did out of spite, him and his girlfriend have only been together for a few months. Do I have the right to be upset? Now I think my boyfriend will wait longer to propose to me.

2006-10-24 13:19:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let me preface this with the fact that I do love my husband, but there sure are times I am not liking him very much! This is one of those times.
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How many wives out there would prefer that your husbands not prepare anything in the kitchen, no matter how sweet and loving the gesture might be?

It is so incredibly annoying to walk into the kitchen after my husband has been in there, only to discover things misplaced, filthy and just downright a mess!

It is not a blessing to me that the meal tasted good or that it kept me from having to cook in the first place, when in the end I am having to contend with a mess that takes me far longer to clean up than it would have for me to have cooked and cleaned myself!

2006-10-24 13:19:41 · 15 answers · asked by NONAME 4

my wife is still on the lease until december 2006 and has kept some of her property here in our apartment and has moved the rest into the home were she and her new man live who shes cheating on me with. my landlord wont do anything except make me pay all the rent and she wont leave completly until the lease is up. what does it mean when she gets mad that I have a female roomate who wants to move in and help pay the bills and i mean a roomate someone she doesnt know and someone who is and only will be just a roomate? my wife says she'll beat up my roomate if she moves in but my wife doesnt even know this woman and makes threats still why is that? my wife and i are seperated she cheats on me but I dont cheat on her. advice on this please. why would she make threats to this potential female roomate?

2006-10-24 13:13:17 · 6 answers · asked by jerry1282004 1

2006-10-24 13:12:16 · 9 answers · asked by shari12065 1

My b/f and i have been together for 4 1/2 years. I was 16 & he was 17 so we are still fairly young. I still have 2 1/2 years left of school (i would wait till after school for the wedding itself) and he is a paramedic and we are getting a house within a year. When would be a good time for us to get engaged?? (we are fairly traditional so i won't be popping the question.). Because we are still young, should we wait even longer before considering it??

2006-10-24 13:08:19 · 2 answers · asked by ? 3

I got married on january 3,2006 she so far has cheated on me twice she left once and stayed away for awhile,then I forgave her and let her come back so we could try to work things out. about one month later she went back to the same guy calls me all kinds of names and is absolutly insaine. she says she doesnt have time for me to understand. thats the only response I get. she left me for a guy who is like 400lbs when shes like 120lbs and shes 23 years old and he is 40 years old and lives in the projects. I live in a nice area and am 24 years old and have fathered one child by her. he counsels her on how she can screw me over and what to do and when to do. I have asked her what is wrong whats going on and get no response except for I dont have time for you to understand yet she has time to cheat. I have been a loving supporting father and husband and have done my very best i just dont get why she cheats and is so down right evil need advice.

2006-10-24 13:06:47 · 41 answers · asked by jerry1282004 1

2006-10-24 13:05:15 · 20 answers · asked by Gdaddy 1

I came back to England nearly 4 years ago, having lived in poverty for 10 years. Unbeknown to me my spanish husband is a bit retarded and I know that he won't answer any court papers. I know that I can wait 5 years for an uncontested divorce but he will still be sent divorce papers that will need to be returned. I want nothing from him regarding property, goods, maintenance just my freedom. Any one know the law and how I will be able to get the divorce? I can't prove my ex's mental state but I know that he will just ignore the letters. Surely he wouldn't be served them personally! Please Help!

2006-10-24 13:01:45 · 9 answers · asked by linda r 1

Ok, this is a strange question but I have been married for 12 years...together for 14. We have a pretty healthy relationship and no major problems. The thing is my husband has this thing with licking my bottom. He really enjoys doing it, I however dont get much from it. Why would this turn a man on so much?? I dont get it??

2006-10-24 12:58:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 12:57:16 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6

as time has gone buy my husband has done so many ****** up things to me that i feel disgusted to have sex with him or even kiss him. he has cheated, lied, and even flirted with girls in fron of me. we are doing better now and i am trying to work things out but i just cant seem to forget the past.

has anyone else had this problem and if so how did you get over it?

by the way this question is for a friend.

2006-10-24 12:52:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok short version...

Wife and I have been together 6 years (Married 4 years)
We have had our ups and downs as all couples do...
Recently we split up for 8 weeks and we both dated...
We have been exclusive for the past
During mediation / counseling we decided to give it another try it is going well everywhere but in the bedroom (UGH)...

Guys I am even having trouble gettting aroused and I am still very in love... BUT I am struggling... I am also having insecurtiy issues with the guy she dated and ugh need help here...

What do I do to fix this???


I really want this to work

2006-10-24 12:43:01 · 12 answers · asked by John G 1

in the past yr. of seperation if you have tried every thing you know to do towards reconciliation, and she won't file for a div., she let someone else move in,says your a worthless piece of crap,says you live in a fairytale world,yada yada yada, and yes this all started over a confession of infeditilty.but you have chosen to change your life around and admit your mistakes and have repented for everything but she feels she hasn't received "closure yet" and can't find "acceptance" Interested in hearing other woman's perspective. give it to me so a guy can understand.I am not the brightest person in the world but I am sincere.I've even been known to be considered a simple ,dumb country boy. thanks

2006-10-24 12:38:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 32 and my wife is 31.Our daughter is 6 years old .My wife and I are thinking about whether we should have another child,but were so happy now that our daughter can finally do things on her own.I feel that we can do things together that we could'nt do before.Starting over with a new baby just seems like a hassle.We need to decide whether were going to have another or get fixed.

2006-10-24 12:35:56 · 17 answers · asked by charles 4