My boyfriend and me have been talking about getting engaged and this weekend his little brother did! We were going to get married first and I think his little brother did out of spite, him and his girlfriend have only been together for a few months. Do I have the right to be upset? Now I think my boyfriend will wait longer to propose to me.
2006-10-24 13:19:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No..I see your point..but never ever show your true feelings..I really doesn't matter who gets married first as long as its with the one you love. Nobody else matters when your in love
2006-10-24 13:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by tazzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If, he did it out of spite, he is stupid because he is probably marrying the wrong person. If, your boyfriend really loves you then what his childlish little brother doesn't matter. If that the case
2006-10-24 13:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by Tia Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not only selfish, you have alot of growing up to do!!
Making the step to marriage out of spite isn't the normal thing to do. Hearing you though, I wouldn't be suprised if you were the one wanting to do thing for "spite".
2006-10-24 13:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think it is perhaps you should be happy for them no matter what, besides it shouldnt be about who gets marry first.........besides when someone rushes to take that step to commitment and marriage it takes a lot to make things workout and if you and your b/f are so in love and are serious about one another it shouldnt matter if his lil bro gets marry first or you two but rather hope that it lasts. Worry about your relationship and your business....mind your own business foreals....Dont be jealous because someone else is happy but rather congratulate and be happy for them especially when is family and loved ones.
2006-10-24 13:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not selfish your human... I hope you get a nicer engagement ring if he makes you wait... best of luck
2006-10-24 16:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by engagmenrime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're acting like a child!!!,what difference does it make who gets married first!!!
you act like you're on competition with your boyfriends brother!!!
you keep acting like that,your boyfriend will never propose
2006-10-24 13:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by msalb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did his brother know that you two were going to get engaged? If he did, then that was tacky. If he didn't, then you are being petty.
2006-10-24 13:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it you are not the only person on the planet. my goodness.. so what oyur gonna resent him for ever i mean you are planning on being part of the family one day you better suck it up hunny!!
2006-10-24 13:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything happens for a reason, and its not healthy for you to stay mad, but its normal for you to be a little ticked.... but be patient. and I'm sending an early congrats to you!!!!!!
2006-10-24 13:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by TamBam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutly selfish. you should be happy for him. But if it upset you this mutch then talk to your boyfirend about it.
2006-10-24 13:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋