if you found a text message on your husbands phone to his ex-girlfriend that says...."Hey baby i miss u. I miss ur face and ur taste" but when confronted he said that it didnt mean anything and that if he was trying to hide it that he would have erased it. I cant help but think that he wants to get back with her ( they have been broken up for over 5 years)
2006-10-24 14:09:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We are in Austin TX and she is in Indianapolis, IN....i was sending a picture from his phone to mine
2006-10-24 14:13:42 · update #1
I dont mean to be the bad person in this story. I'm sorry to say that maybe he does want to get back wit the other girl. Talk to him and ask him. Tell him to be sincere and to tell you instead of lying to you. Tell him that talking hurts sells then lyingt. I really think talking this over is a great idea. You dont want to lose him for something that might not even be happening. Think about all the good times and think of all hes doen in the time you two have been together. Good luck and I hope that I helped you into making the right choice. If you love him then talk it over and youll heart will tell you exactly what to do. Follow it thats what its there for.
2006-10-24 14:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by BIBI 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's pining over his ex to me. IF you didn't find a text back to him reciprocating the feelings, she's probably not interested in breaking up a family. But for him not do delete it, either tells me he's just waiting for her to respond, or he's so dealing in the past, that he doesn't want to let go. I'd be checking out the History file on the computer, to see where and what he's been doing. Or checking out his cell phone bill. Believe me, that will give you so much info, you may not want to go there.
2006-10-24 14:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by beckykinney1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think he was interested in communicating with her. If it means nothing to him, then 'why' does he have contact? What's the big attraction??
My 'x' and I communicated a lot while she was still married, yet she denied to her husband there was anything going on. At that time, there truly wasn't anything going on, but after time we knew that we were in love with each other and eventually she divorced her husband. After a while with me, and although I couldn't prove it, there was every indication that she had cheated on me before she said we were done.
My advice to you would be to have a serious honest talk with your husband. Find out just why he feels the need to communicate with a former girlfriend.
2006-10-24 16:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! he has to be seeing her! he probably just forgot to erase the message! DUH! he totally is cheating on u!!! Why would he be sending other girls text messages that said HEY BABY I MISS U! I mean come one! HE Was lieing when he said it didnt mean anything! DUMP HIM! But u dont have to listen to me because I ask questions about my boyfriend sometimes and I get mad wen people dont kno the whole story so just gving u my opinion of what I know about u and ur bolyfriend!!!
2006-10-24 14:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by P!ATD GIRL! Luvn Brendon Urie! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating, get a lawyer and get started without him knowing. You need to realize this is the beginning of the end and prepare. What if it were you saying such things to another man, how do you suppose he would respond. And to the person who said this is private property, when you're married there are no secrets so her having his phone should be no big deal. Protect yourself dear.
2006-10-24 14:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by crkristy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off.. I would think he was a lying bastard. Secondly - you let him make you question if he was lying or not by saying that if he were serious he would have deleted it. Maybe he didn't think you were going to go snooping around in his phone and had no reason to hide anything. Good on the spot cover - but he's still lying. If you want to try to work it out that's up to you - but something is up.
2006-10-24 14:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetie, but he is trying to lie his way out of getting caught redhanded. He was busted and came up with this lame-o excuse. Hell, it wasn't even a good lie.
Now, what you do about it is up to you, but don't fall for this line of BS for a second. I wouldn't trust him as far as I could throw him, and it is probably only a matter of time before he finds someone local to chippy with if he hasn't done so already.
I would advise you not to waste a lot of time and effort on him, no matter how much you believe you love him.
Sorry for you heartache. Best wishes
2006-10-24 16:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I htink that he 4got to delete the message and the answwr that he gave u was just the perfect defense to your confrontattion. Pay keen attention to his movementss from now on and when u got strong proof that he wants her back then u have to let go if u so desire
2006-10-24 14:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by lovelydivine21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He means, if he had remembered it was on there and realized you might stumble across it, he'd have erased it. If the message "doesn't mean anything," see if he'll agree to send it to a guy . . .
2006-10-24 14:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by infidel91 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is in contact with her. Whether it is an emotional affair or a physical affair something is going on. I've been there done that. He forgot to delete the msg. Please don't fall for it. I am sorry for your pain. I am in contact with my ex of 14 yrs. not proud of it just saying. I hope you both can work it out.
2006-10-24 14:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by sdd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋