Marriage & Divorce - 24 October 2006

driving. I take too many risks, & she says she's driving next time we go somewhere together. I think she's bluffing. Guess we'll see how good a gambler I am.

2006-10-24 06:33:32 · 11 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

A woman needs a man, like a fish needs a bicycle....

Your thoughts please... Thanks for sharing (",)

2006-10-24 06:30:25 · 12 answers · asked by DiL 3

I am w/ some1 who I don't love anymore, we have a 2 yr old daughter 2gether. We were living in CO and I had a really good career going 4 me there, but I decided I wanted 2 move back 2 my home state in IA 2 B closer 2 family due 2 all the fighting & problems I had w/ him. Well he came 2. So now I am in the same situation w/ him, I am unemployed and looking 4 a job, no luck yet, and I am unable 2 start dating cause he is living w/ me at my parents house.

He makes me feel fat & ugly. I know I am not, guys hit on me & alot of them tell me I am hot.

So what am I 2 do. I want 2 start meeting new people & I cant w/ him around. I want 2 B w/ some1 that I can take vacations w/ & make memories w/. I just want 2 B happy & I am not. I am getting more depressed everyday. I am wondering if I need 2 take antidepressants.

I know this was long & not alot of people probably care about another's relationship or life. But if you have some good advice - I'm all ears...

Thanks

2006-10-24 06:30:08 · 17 answers · asked by SingleRose 2

For child custody purposes and divorce

2006-10-24 06:26:55 · 13 answers · asked by lucy p 2

I really enjoy it and find it a great way to fantasize. Any girls out there feel the same?

2006-10-24 06:25:08 · 11 answers · asked by mecoachyou 1

my fiance has broken up with me...I know I have made mistakes, but i have done so much work to make things right. I have never cheated on her, but i did text another girl (whos was a friend of a friend), and it was just to see where everyone was going out and stuff. I am in therapy, on medication, not drinking, not going out. I just really want to win her love again. I want us to be in love. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I can do this????

2006-10-24 06:24:16 · 9 answers · asked by blahblahblah 1

2006-10-24 06:21:21 · 7 answers · asked by moontikia 1

I have been married for 7 years, we got married young (22yrs. old) 2 years ago my husband had an affair and I agreed to stay with him. Now 2 years later I still cant get over it, I see her all of the time driving her car. I lost all of my cofidence and faith. We argue alot just about everything. He told me today that hes sick of me always trying to accuse him of stuff. He says it's not going to work out because I can't forget about what happened. He says that Im making him hate me. The problem with him is he does somethng wrong and he doesnt like talking about it he just wants to sweep it under the carpet and put it behind and expect me to do the same. The thing with him is hes never wrong always finds my faults and doesnt look at his part.
I love my husband but I can't do this anymore. We have 2 kids together. I don't know what to do........

2006-10-24 06:15:40 · 28 answers · asked by cyntss 2

2006-10-24 06:09:40 · 17 answers · asked by seanpntcstl 1

My man and I separated becuase he was in jail. Now he is out but cannot stand to be near him. I tried explaining to him and I stay in my son's room at night. But he said I should be happy he is out and with me and our son. What options are anyone provide out there??? Please

2006-10-24 06:08:04 · 12 answers · asked by Mercedes75 1

Lots of bright people are on this site who know lots of things, so thought I'd toss this one. This problem has to have been around forever, so there has to be a topical remedy that someone's grandmother knew. All the websites just want to sell you a product.

2006-10-24 06:01:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has always been very loving. We met about 8 years ago, she moved to be near me about 2 weeks after we met. We fell in love the first time we met and have been together since that day. neither of us had a thing when we met financially and we have been through hard times. She has stuck with me through alot, and was always loving about it. The majority of the time she is now, but when we argue she demonstrates such incredible rage and says such hateful things and treats me like she honestly hates me. My fear is that while she loved me when she was younger (she was 20 when we met) that now as she is getting to her late twenties, she is seeing how much better her life could have been. I am a survivor of child sexual abuse, and this is another factor that I think she is sick of. This past does not leave me emotionally prepared to loose the person I love and who's always been on my side. It is almost too emotionally hard to bare just my realizations.

2006-10-24 06:01:14 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 8 months pregant with baby 3 and he has a "single mother" co-worker (that he admitted is attractive) that he takes breaks with, emails at work and goes out to lunch with on occasions. Now I found out that they have nicknames for each other too. I have never met her but he wants us to get together with the kids and all go to the park, should I be jealous or should I just go?

2006-10-24 05:59:50 · 17 answers · asked by reece 1

have you ever changed your mind about going to court after your spouse was arrested?if so how many of you got charged with contempt of court?

2006-10-24 05:59:00 · 9 answers · asked by Dominica B 2

ok, here's the situation. my wife in college had an intimate relationship with her female dorm room mate. he former girlfriend/lover is in town and they have plans to go out on the town... no big deal. anyway, the question came up that if they wound up in bed together again, would that be cheating... she says no. though I don't find it objectionable... kinda exciting actually, I say it is.
also, if the situation was reversed (me and another male... which would never happen...ick!) she says that would be cheating.
her reasoning is because two women together lack the anatomy to have intercourse where as 2 men can, that defines cheating...so which is it?

2006-10-24 05:57:58 · 38 answers · asked by jeep_man129 3

There are obvioulsly issues and acrimony on both sides but isn't she becoming a figure of hate over the viscious and public way she is conducting her divorce to Paul McCartney? After all he was happily married for about 30 years before her. Is it possible he's turned into a monster in 3 years?

2006-10-24 05:56:39 · 25 answers · asked by helen p 4

During arguments my husband tells me that he is tired and done with me and that he will be gone by the end of the month. We end up making up or putting the argument behind us and when I ask him if he really meant what he said he always says that he said it out of anger. Its been said so many times I am beginning to believe it and thinking that he doesn't care or even love me.

2006-10-24 05:50:41 · 20 answers · asked by concern1 2

2006-10-24 05:46:10 · 14 answers · asked by hidevaka 1

My son and five of his friends are turning 30 this year and having a big party. My son wants his family and friends to be there when he proposes marriage to "the one". He wants to do it in a unique way. I cannot for the life of me come up with any suggestions. Can anyone help????

2006-10-24 05:38:50 · 8 answers · asked by carolyn_fw 1

one minute he is all into me, touching, laughing, talking, etc. and the next he doesnt even know i am there. the only conversation we will have is when i start the conversation, and his answers are short to the point. his kisses will be just a peck. it will be like this for a couple of days, then he will start the touching, talking, laughing again. i hate when he acts like i am not there, and i have tried to talk to him about it. he states he has alot on his mind with our business. but, he will cut up with the fellas. is this just a "man" thing, or something else?

2006-10-24 05:35:11 · 21 answers · asked by aries 1

what do i need to do, i have kids from another relationship do i have to change my name on their birth certificate, what about passport, etc
(i know peple will say things about my bad spelling im sorry my first language is spanish i try my best)

2006-10-24 05:29:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 6 years now. When we first met, we both drank on occassion. Though he was never an acoholic by any means, he chose to refrain from drinking for religious reasons. I still have a cocktail or a glass of wine every now and then and come from a family who drinks occassionally.
3 yrs ago when he decided to stop drinking he slowly began imposing his views on me. To compromise, i stopped drinking at home and don't keep alcohol in the house. My inlaws live overseas and r VERY influential. They are also here visiting for 1 month. As a kind gesture my parents decided they would come visit the inlaws for a couple days. My husband tells me that my family must refrain from drinking in OUR home out of respect for his religion (same religion..i don't practice though). The situation has led to an "ultimatum"..i must choose between my family or him. Y can't he just turn a blind eye to it for 2 days? Its embarassing for me. I don't want to hurt my family

2006-10-24 05:23:20 · 25 answers · asked by Petra 2

Have you and your spouse participated in a sexual adventure ex: a three way. And if you did, in what way was your marrige affected.

2006-10-24 05:21:38 · 25 answers · asked by the one who knows 2

2006-10-24 05:20:06 · 2 answers · asked by ez-goin 4

we are 2 yrs with my girl friend and no matter how much sex we do,she never gets pregnant.Other people have said that position also matters.She has one child with another man before me,and I also pregnanted a different woman to see who could have difficulties.What could be wrong?

2006-10-24 05:16:47 · 21 answers · asked by Mbeshi M 1

We are in the divorce process. I definitely want the divorce but had a few drunken episodes and we slept together. We decided that it can't happen again--that lasted all of 12 hours. Someone smack me!!

2006-10-24 05:14:46 · 18 answers · asked by PeAcHeS 2

i think is not fear or wrigth i dont undarstand why she wont change it, so because of this i decided to keep my last name but i feel enbarriesed when people asume my last name is the same as his and i have to tell them thats not my last name.

2006-10-24 05:13:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been seperated for almost 6 months now. We both agreed we are going through with the divorce, we have just not actually got it yet, mostly becasue we are too busy (we both work a lot and I am also taking care of our 3 year old and 5 month old). I met someone, I wasn't looking, it just happened. Before I went any further with this man I spoke with my husband one final time and asked if he was absolutely positive he wanted to be done and go through with the divorce. He said without a doubt yes. So me and this other man are now going out and I finally told my husband and he is so jealous and mad and says that what I am doing is so wrong. I feel bad now, but I honestly felt like we were as good as divcorced. FYI...we seperated when I kicked him out because of being physically and emotionally abusive to me and sometimes in front of our children.

2006-10-24 05:10:24 · 50 answers · asked by me me me 3

My husband and I seem to have nothing in common anymore. I want to move to another state and he does not want to move. Things seem to be his way or no way at all and I am so sick and tired of it. I know that marriage is supposed to about compromise, but it just doesn't exist in our marriage when it comes to the bigger issues.

He's only 32, he lost his drive someonewhere along the way. I just don't get it and I am starting to hate him for it.

I feel like I need to pick up and go without him.

He thinks I won't leave, b/c he thinks I'm "comfortable". Little does he know...

It may seem petty, but when someone does not acknowledge or care that that the things you want to do in life is important, it's very hard.

2006-10-24 05:06:58 · 20 answers · asked by hrmom02 2

He's a good friend of mine and we talk to each other about everything. Sometimes he gets upset if I talk to him about other guys or if I go out with other guys. I only see him as a friend. Do you think he likes me?

2006-10-24 05:05:01 · 8 answers · asked by Sinster22 1