How do I know if my wife is cheating?

Answer 1

That can be really hard to find out....Do you have any evidence that she is seeing someone else??? Are there things wrong within your marriage? Does she seem less interested in you?
I really think that you should question her. Really. Not that she will come right out and tell you the truth, but you'll know by what she tells you.......

Answer 2

Why do you think she is cheating? Have you had any long heart-to-heart talks lately? When is the last time you brought her flowers? If you are treating her well, she probably is not cheating. Usually when guys accuse their wives of cheating, it's 'cause the guy is cheating, or thinking of it. Time for you to really listen to your wife. Have a talk. Be sweet.

Answer 3

Ask yourself if you have given her cause to cheat first, ie: do you pay her enough attention, do you help around the house, with the kids, have fun with your sex life? If you are doing these things and she is not responding then the likely hood is yes, Try to talk to her and ask if anything is wrong and what she would like to do about it if it is? If it is just fun sex then make your sex life fun, Tell her you want a date but she has to meet you in the bar with her overcoat on and nothing underneath! Have sex in unusual places, (come on use your imagination!). before you go accusing her remember to look at what you have with her first. good luck.

Answer 4

You need to give a little bit more detail as to why you think your wife is cheating.

Answer 5

She buys her own cell phone and pays the bills. She is gone for hours at a time. She is vague about where she went. She dresses different or better. She worries about her physical appearance more. She is preocuppied alot. She seems to be daydreaming. She is buying cards and writing letters that you can't read ....she listens to sappy love songs and watches love movies.....she acts like a teenager.....She lies alot....she doesn't talk to her friends as much or her family...due to guilt and not wanting to lie. She does't want to have anything to do with you. Do you find things that you have never seen before? (Clothing, matches, jewelry, trinkets, movie stubbs, receipts, etc....)

Then again, she could be really good at hiding it.

Answer 6

Secret phone calls,not being home at the regular time,change in habits,dress in a different way.Secrets on the putter text message are deleted and so on

Answer 7

-A change in attitude for better or worse, nitpicking over things, looking for reasons to fight. Gotta cover up that guilty conscience, you know.
-A state of preoccupation.
-A change in want of sex- either she wants it more, or she wants it less
-She suddenly starts improving her body and/or wardrobe (especially lingerie)
-Working late, "trips" that she can't take you too, nights out with "the girls"
-Hiding cell phone or email
-Long hours of time unaccounted for, explained by increasingly flimsy excuses.

Answer 8

Gut instinct. But men don't really have that intuition that women do. So..........look at her routine. Has it changed? Do things seem off? Is she emotionally distant? Is she physically uninterested?

If so......there may be someone else.

Answer 9

What are some of the things that lead you to ask this question? Thats probably how you know.

Answer 10

Ask her. If you guys have a healthy honest realtionship, this is the most appropriate way. if not, you are probably needing a professional counselor.