Marriage & Divorce - 24 October 2006

2006-10-24 07:49:07 · 25 answers · asked by crzyraine 1

2006-10-24 07:45:46 · 18 answers · asked by dhj 1

My sister left her husband last week and I am going down to see her today (we live 7 hours apart) I think she can do a lot better than him, as he is lazy, mean, a liar and just generally horrible but dont want to say that in case they get back together and make it awkward(?) She has a son to him. What do I say to her? She wants me there for her, but I have no idea what you say in things like that

2006-10-24 07:45:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Once before marriage and continued it after marriage & 2nd time after 13 yrs with a family friend.its killing me from inside ....

2006-10-24 07:42:51 · 14 answers · asked by ashish t 1

2006-10-24 07:39:16 · 28 answers · asked by Tracianne 1

I am not sexually attracted to my wife anymore. I am here for the kids and the kids only. I am their primary care giver but she is not a bad mom, just there to pick up the slack when I cannot attend to the kids. I have to get drunk to have sex with her. She kissed a guy at work when he knew we were having trouble a couple of years ago, so I know she has it in her to cheat. Should I hire someone to seduce her and sleep with her? That way I can get pictures for court and get custody of my kids.

2006-10-24 07:36:15 · 68 answers · asked by Joesmoe 2

Two months ago, my husband (of 18 mths) dropped a bombshell and told me that he no longer has any feelings for me. We've been together for 5 yrs. He doesn't seem interested in anything, he doesn't even seem to care about himself and I've been banned from showing any affection towards him. Despite all this, I love him. We saw a relate counsellor once, which scared him off even more. What do I do?

2006-10-24 07:36:00 · 36 answers · asked by Kanst 3

She'll be back after work, I think it'll be a good gag. Do you think she'll laugh?

2006-10-24 07:35:26 · 13 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

she will not send even a photo! she told the courts she would come from up north to let me see them and that's why they let her move up there she will not tell me anything about them when i call.. and hangs up alot of times if i try to ask them any ?'s about there life! school, doctor's ,friends, i can't afford a lawer sice i was a truck driver but child support took my lic for missing payments. now a can't even find a job that pays anything after i pay the child support! they have put me in jail 3 times for missing payments over the 9 years even when i was living outside! told to sell my cloths and give her the $.. yet she is a r.n and remarried 2 weeks after my divorce. she charged $49.000 on my name and has lied about me to every court we went to when i knew were she lived to the point i lost my temper in court after her trying to say i was doing things to my little girl! can anyone help me to see my kids and maybe lower the payments since i am $20,000 and can't do anything ?addres

2006-10-24 07:35:08 · 16 answers · asked by tommoore66 2

When people get married and begin having children, do you find that you have less in common with your single, or non-married friends without children? Does marriage automatically mean a time when you and your hubby are supposed to be looking for friends that are couples, and therefore, have more in common with you? I have friends that are now married with children, or that have one without the other, who I rarely talk to anymore. I guess you can't change the fact that people grow apart...but it'd be nice to think that some friendships actually do last forever.

2006-10-24 07:30:29 · 16 answers · asked by LibraT 4

Your wife/husband passes on to a better place. You finally decide to marry again. Though you loved your spoused very much, you find that you love your new spouse even more. You and your deceased spouse had already bought a jointed grave site and head stone. If your new spouse wants you to be bared by them, which one do you pick?

2006-10-24 07:24:58 · 48 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

Weather it be job,marriage, friendship ect...

2006-10-24 07:19:06 · 14 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

bitten the bullet and gone it alone, only to discover they were better off with the loser they left in the first place? Just curious.

2006-10-24 07:18:38 · 20 answers · asked by mizzsquitz 3

I trust my husband but I feel threatened by the relationship. Am I nuts?

2006-10-24 07:12:06 · 22 answers · asked by buggerhead 5

In a relationship there are differences between men & women. I was told the following:
1) A man needs to know that his woman is FAITHFUL
2) A woman needs to feel safe & secure
If these needs are not met,the relationship will deteriorate. What is your view?

2006-10-24 07:07:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

bottles of wine in the fridge, and the alcho meter is beeping it's time to refuel. Should I drink just the one bottle or go mental and do the two, moving on to the kitchen cleaner as a little night cap before beddie byes, what do you think? P.s The reason this question is in the marriage catagory is because I never encountered cleaning fluid until I got married, well I never drunk it anyway....

2006-10-24 07:06:44 · 5 answers · asked by mizzsquitz 3

2006-10-24 07:00:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Riding the good times are easy.
but the hard times can really tear us apart.
However, to keep the dreams alive between 2 hearts,
must we keep holding on and try to work things out,
through thick or thin? or simply give up after numerous tries.

Just want your views on what love is all about...

2006-10-24 06:53:39 · 12 answers · asked by DiL 3

If both people work at it, can a marriage really last "forever"?

2006-10-24 06:53:13 · 33 answers · asked by Falling to pieces 2

How do I tell my husband that i am going to leave him? ive told him a couple of times and he doesnt believe me.but I need to get enough money saved before I can leave I just dont love him like I use to and Ive been talking to another woman.

2006-10-24 06:50:47 · 15 answers · asked by shedevilinlust 1

I have always been sexual driven but towards my husband unfortunetly I crave it more and he doesn't I understand cause he is overwhelmed with work but I have needs and I would like to have it with him I ask for it but he tries to change the subject I feel like I am living with an old man and he isn't I just want to have it with him but if he doesn't want to have it like I do, I don't know? I love him very much but I don't ahve much patience about it and we use to have sex all the time every morning always before he went to work and always on weekends now once a week maybe that is too crazy for me I need it consisitently and longer than 1 minute!

2006-10-24 06:50:17 · 37 answers · asked by dee 1

I know this sounds silly. Last night me and my H were having sex and after he and I were done I just like passed out or something. I don't even remember falling asleep and I woke up like an hour later. I don't think anything is wrong with me but we haven't like done this for about 2 weeks so maybe that had something to do with it. Any ideas

2006-10-24 06:48:39 · 34 answers · asked by Stephanie 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We both know that we want to be together and have children. We both still live with our parents, and we both have full-time jobs. We're in our mid-twenties.

I think we're ready to move on to the next level. He says no because we don't have the money. We both make a decent living. Approx. 70K (combined) before taxes, if not more. Neither one of us has any real savings, but pay all of our bills with ease. I know that if we sat down to actually make a budget, we would be able to figure out how we could easily save up for a down payment on a hosue and a wedding. We just have to stop our frivolous spending.

He doesn't seem to even want to get engaged before we have the savings and he thinks that we have enough money. I don't see what it has to do with getting engaged.

Aren't most people struggling with money when they first get married?

2006-10-24 06:47:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 06:46:49 · 12 answers · asked by Sara 2

How do I tell myself to giveup. I still love her but she wants a D and has cheated on me. He lives out of state and just came to see her and I found out. What is she thinking. She cann't leave our boys 14 and 17 can see. She has been talking to him for some time. She has had time to stop loving me. How do i just stop loving her. All I do is cry.

2006-10-24 06:46:48 · 15 answers · asked by skipper 1

I'm at a weak point and want to call him. I shouldn't do it. He's not good for me.

Help. I need your support.

2006-10-24 06:44:34 · 20 answers · asked by wayouthere 4

I recently found out what I had expected for the last year. That my fiance whom I have a child with and been together with for the last 5 years had been having an affair with a guy she used to work with. She claims that it is over between them and that I am the one she wants to be with forever. 6 months ago she wanted to leave and get her own place, we worked things out only for me to find this out now. Her own place was going to be paid for by this other guy, who is married, with 2 kids, one just born recently. I am at a loss on what to do, I love her but am scared of being hurt again. Should I forgive and forget knowing what they have done together? Should I put him through the same stuff he has put me through over the last year by letting his wife know what is going on? He came off as a friend to the family, we have done our kids bday parties together so that just makes it worse. Knowing the two of them were sneaking around behind my back. Please advise. Thank you.

2006-10-24 06:42:54 · 19 answers · asked by dhenning72 1

Last week I mentioned to my hubby that we should do date night and the other night after work he said he was taking me out for dinner..He took me to Arby's and went throught the drive through

2006-10-24 06:40:56 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want my sex drive to be up , so up , as up as my husband's.But its jut not.I had my baby 7 weeks ago and it went down from almost everyday to maybe once or twice a week.What can I take thats over the counter?? I want something strong , so srtrong Im gonna want him right after I take it.I just want to want it.

2006-10-24 06:38:27 · 13 answers · asked by K 2

just wondering if all men , even those madly in love with a beautiful gurl dream about having sex with a different women, and what is it that you change about the current one you are with?

2006-10-24 06:34:43 · 16 answers · asked by RACHEL M 1