2006-10-24 07:39:16 · 28 answers · asked by Tracianne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just pop a tape in the vcr and lay naked on the bed, call him in and invite him to join. I guarantee he will change his tune, real fast!
2006-10-24 07:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by dumb guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intercourse is different for a man than a woman physically in that it is more intimate for a woman. The man enters the woman's body and if a condom isn't used, then he leaves a part of himself behind. The reverse isn't true. Whether a man consciously takes note of this fact or not, he does realize it on some level. This is one of the big reasons men view women being sexually active in the same manner and the same amount as a man to be a bigger deal; because it is. It isn't discrimination, it's just a simple fact.
For this reason I can understand if he becomes a little upset, but you don't say how upset he is or how far you or him take the looking at porn thing, so I can't judge if he has good reason to be as upset as he might be.
2006-10-24 14:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not OK for him to be looking at porn and its not OK for you to look at porn and the last thing is for you to think it is ok for the both of you to be looking at it, it only spells trouble. so if your man can only get it up with that then that tells me there are major problems and you are just brushing it under the carpet and one day you will trip and it will not be pretty!
2006-10-24 15:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by lloydgberry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if they are sneaking to look at porn, they both need to sit down and talk about this, they are looking for something that the other just can't offer, sounds like a communication break down!
2006-10-24 14:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, all is fair in love and war. If I knew my husband was looking at porn, and that was something I liked to do, I would be less apprehensive to do the same.
2006-10-24 14:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you better look the porn together and you will be happy forever after
2006-10-24 14:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution is to look at it together, that makes it fun and interesting. So neither one can get mad at each other!
2006-10-24 14:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by Tommy's_Sweet_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he should be glad you are into porn at all, some women w ould have a hissy... Do It together, and both have fun with it, What's good for one is good for the other!!!!
2006-10-24 14:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he shouldn't get mad, not if he looks also. and for healthy adults, porn IS just looking. (you might enjoy it together) I think he is just embarrassed.
2006-10-24 14:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by ike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope whats sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander as the old saying goes. In other words he should not expect you not to look when he is looking . good luck and god bless.
2006-10-24 14:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋