I want my sex drive to be up , so up , as up as my husband's.But its jut not.I had my baby 7 weeks ago and it went down from almost everyday to maybe once or twice a week.What can I take thats over the counter?? I want something strong , so srtrong Im gonna want him right after I take it.I just want to want it.
2006-10-24 06:38:27 · 13 answers · asked by K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Gosh people cant you help , I dont want to wait 6 months to want to have sex.I want to have sex but I want a stronger sex drive.Any pills?? or sexy ideas??
2006-10-24 06:47:28 · update #1
ur hormones are still funny from being pregnant, so don't worry they'll get balanced soon enough. Reading hot stories on literotica.com always gets me super charged for sex. Try having him go down on u until ur begging him to be inside u. He could tease u more that might help!?
2006-10-24 06:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a normal vaginal delivery, it is best to wait about 6-8 weeks before doing anything serious. Talk to your other half about your desires, dress sexy, and at some point, may have to have a sitter for the baby ( wait until the baby is older) and take off for the night.
After child birth, hormones are kinds crazy and the drive just wont be there until things get back to normal. but there are ways to beat the system, its all mental.
Hey, a nice evening out, dining and a trip to a Hotel for some wild and crazy sex is a good way to boost your esteem.
2006-10-24 07:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by bigmikejones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need isn't in the pharmacy.Your sex drive is down because you just had a baby and your hormones are down and, most importantly, you are TIRED. This is all very normal. What you need is a grandparent or other trusted babysitter to take the baby for an afternoon and evening. Take a nap and rest up. Then go out to dinner with your husband and go home and light candles and make love. Go get your baby and be happy you had a nice evening with your hubby. Things will perk up as your baby sleeps better and you get more rest. Your hormones will naturally perk up, too, as the weeks go on. Good luck, and congrats on the baby.
2006-10-24 06:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a guy, pretending to be a woman, trying to stoke her fire chemically instead of emotionally.
If not, your sex drive is controlled by your hormones and your mental state. Just after childbirth, your body wants to focus on nurturing the baby, not creating a new one (particularly if you are breast feeding). Typically, your hormone level will drop dramatically until nature thinks the current child has a good chance of success. Then, typically, it will return to "normal". There are exceptions, of course. Some women never lose their hormonal drive, others never regain it.
Over the counter stimulants can increase your physical activity level, and thus have some small impact on your hormones, but very little. They can overcome exhaustion and fatigue, but not nature.
The only thing you can control is your mental state. Visual imagery (imagining yourself sensual), planning, hoping, etc. can do wonders to overcome the hormonal imbalance. But this is something YOU must do. It can't be forced or coerced by another. Of course, if your guy focuses on being "attractive", it helps. (Not by being sexual, but by being nurturing, supportive, thoughtful, consistent... all the things a mother and child need.) By providing the support nature wants for you, he can speed up the process of your hormones returning. But, again, not by being sexual... by being a father.
2006-10-24 06:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give yourself more time since you just had your baby. A lot of times a woman's sex drive goes down because you are tired from the baby and your hormones are all out of whack. Sometimes it can take up to six months. If after six months you still feel the same way, go see your doctor.
2006-10-24 06:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to try a few of the over the counter items, at walgreens or CVS in the herbal dept. they ahve several things for men that work and there is one my wife has used called "ESTRO" GEN or something like that designed speciffically for what you are desiring
2006-10-24 06:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adding up raw oysters (very effective when raw) on your diet, and drink Ginseng Tea more often. You can find different brand of Ginseng tea from any Oriental store. You can deep-fried oysters (least effective) if you can't hack raw. Follow this and you will notice your desire feelings and aggressivesness.
Good luck to you and happy landing.
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2006-10-24 07:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only 7 wks after the baby its natural to be a little inactive.....try spending some time allowing your mind to fantasize....its the best aphrodesiac
2006-10-24 06:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you smoke, stop. Drink a ton of water. Look at porn. And work out and get in good shape.
2006-10-24 06:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by dj nkro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think positive about yourself, buy new clothing, or you can drink or eat some passion fruit, it's sure to get you riled up.
2006-10-24 06:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by nycrunner69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋