Once before marriage and continued it after marriage & 2nd time after 13 yrs with a family friend.its killing me from inside ....
2006-10-24 07:42:51 · 14 answers · asked by ashish t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No he is addicted to cheat on you.........dont waist your time
2006-10-24 07:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't see what you being Indian has to do with it.
You can forgive your wife but if the problem as to why she had an affair isn't solved then it will likely happen again.
If she has done it twice with the same person then chances are she will again. File for a divorce and give her 24 hours to vacate the home and retain custody of your children. If you are first to file you will get your kids at least until it goes to court. It is about the only way to really let someone know you won't tolerate cheating. Unfortunately!
2006-10-24 07:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife has no moral fiber. It is sad. She is very lucky you took her back after the first time. How is she to learn that her behavior is wrong if you continue to take her back?? You must let her go and show your children what is right and wrong too. I know it is very hard and maybe not your custom to divorce but this is a despicable circumstance. You can find someone who will appreciate you for your fidelity and respect your morals. You will not believe how happy you will be when God brings you the right one. Sometimes you have to close a door before a new one opens.
2006-10-24 07:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason you should take her back is if you can handle the next time she has an affair. If you want an open marriage, take her back. If you know you want someone who can be faithful to you, you may have to divorce her.
2006-10-24 07:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that this is very painful. Honestly, you should go talk to a lawyer to get some information for now. You and your wife should go to marriage counsel if you want this to work and so that she can be very open and honest regarding way she did it. I would leave her for good if she does it again. I would disassociate my family from this family friend. And, you should ask her: "Is he more important than our family?" GOOD LUCK!!
2006-10-24 07:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by loves2dream2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it does not matter what nationality, race ect. that you are. Cheating is hard to forgive! Ask her what are her intentions with your future, if she is going to continue to hurt you in this way. If she is willing to work on things with you, try if that is what you want. at this point you and the kids are all that matters. Give her a chance to be in your life, but she needs to prove cominment in every way...
2006-10-24 07:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one deserves to be cheated on. Your wife clearly doesn't understand what it takes to make a marriage work. Take your kids and leave her. She doesn't deserve a third chance....then again, no one ever deserves a second chance after caught cheating.
2006-10-24 07:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by blueeyeskenai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they do it once they do it again. My ex cheated on me and is marrying the guy who convinced her to leave me and cheat with him.. So i am gonna laugh so hard when the next guy comes around and she does it to him
2006-10-24 07:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by SuperSoldierGIJOE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take the pain. You will never trust her and she will do it again cause she thinks she can get away with it and you will take her back. Leave her
2006-10-24 07:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No get a good lawyer and sue for divorce and to get your kids.
2006-10-24 07:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to get away from her! she will continue her affairs an keep hurting you!
2006-10-24 07:46:42 · answer #11 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋