Marriage & Divorce - 24 October 2006

If a woman asking favor to someone else and he's married but his wife is not around but she's inside the house. She didn't know that there's woman outside infront in thier garrages asking favor to her husband. Is this sort of flirting or trying to impress the married man. In my case I only asking favor and if I know he's married I don't want to stand up there beside him talking and tell him that I'm a nurse. Another thing when she borrowed a cell phone from husband so he can call her brother is it okay also to tell that her brother owns couples of coffee shop. She said her brother own the nickolites coffee shop here in my town where I live. To me what is the point of telling the married man that I'm a nurse and my brother own coffee shop business when I'm only asking some favor. This woman live the same area where I live but we're not that closed. Her house is about 5 house in between mine and her. Any comments regarding on this?

2006-10-24 16:43:10 · 5 answers · asked by rauma_raumamary 2

Other than a junior bridesmaid?

2006-10-24 16:40:39 · 11 answers · asked by biggest Johnny Depp fan ever 2

My husband wants to get rid of me so he makes me crazy to give up our marriage and leave him, I dont know what to do, I dont have a job and I dont have place to go, his the only one I got, we have a daughter and I dont want her to suffer, I feel sorry for her, Im so confused and I dnt know what I will do.

2006-10-24 16:37:33 · 24 answers · asked by Lady B 1

We have been toghter for 5yrs. he promised he quit smoking weed years ago. Today he came home from work high. He says he slipped with a friend might I add this friend use to be a girl friend. I have a daughter that is 13 I do not want her to lead this kind of life, how can I tell her it is not OK when "DAD" does it?

2006-10-24 16:32:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my husband havent spent any time together her lately just a little here and there anyways he seems to always be in a bad mood and it gets me all depressed and when i go out with my friends which isnt often at all like twice a month i feel something different like he is mad at me or something he just stops talkin to me and looks all depressed he sleeps all day cause he works nights and when im going to do something with my friends hes always awake and makes me feel bad for leaving any advice on what to do

2006-10-24 16:29:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am Brazilian, he's American. We met up in Florida and married up there 5 yrs ago (no kids). We lived up there for 5 yrs and in Aug. this yr we moved down to Brazil, which he had agreed to. Now he just went back up there to work (over the road truck driver) last Thursday, and he keeps saying he will come back, but each time we talk he says different dates. He didn't want to find work here or even give it a try learning the language. He said he went up there to make money to support me. But he has always been flirty with other girls even when we were living up there, he had online profiles on dating sites, he was addicted to pornography, and our relationship was most of the time difficult. I don't want to go back living up there because he said I won't have to work, I will stay home. Does it seem like he wants to keep me at home to do his crazy stuff? Do you think I can believe him when he says he will be back in 4 months?

2006-10-24 16:25:39 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2

I am a first timer posting a blog. I need some advice. I recently discovered that my husband has been visiting the same 3 strippers for over 2 1/2 years. I grew suspicious of his late hours at work and I discovered this information by checking his cell phone records. It appears that he was calling these strippers compulsively. He has spent thousands of dollars at the strip joints. He claims that he never had sex with these women, but only got lap dances in which he ejaculated into his pants. He has expressed that he is very sorry and that he will not continue these activities. He says that he did this in order to escape from his worries at work and in life. I am an attractive women, but since discovering this infidelity, i have felt very low in self-esteem. I want to forgive him, but I don't think that I can get past this. I know that he didn't cheat on me emotionally, however, his addiction to strip bars made him emotionally and sexually unavailable. What should I do?

2006-10-24 16:24:02 · 21 answers · asked by CCalias 1

if one partner has a higher sex drive than the other, should the one give in, just to try to please the other? does it work or just feel like they are going thru the motions?

2006-10-24 16:23:44 · 10 answers · asked by head_banger_yyc 4

I' ve been separated almost four months and I can't get him out of my mind. I still have a relationship with him, but I seem more hooked than he does

2006-10-24 16:17:35 · 6 answers · asked by lauralei52 2

The reason is because they do NOT plan to marry again anyway. This is understandable reasoning. Why go thru it and lose property and money? The marriage is suppose to be over but the spouse wants the person to come back. Is this too risky?

2006-10-24 16:16:41 · 16 answers · asked by wondering 4

When we got married she only weighed 120 lbs. After she gave birth to our son last year she gained almost 40lbs. She looks awful naked and I just don't feel attracted to her anymore. I met a girl at work last week and we had lunch. The next day I met her at a Motel and we had sex. It was awesome but I did feel kind of guilty.Should I stop?, I mean I didn't make my wife eat too much and gain all that weight. Why should I suffer. I'm a man and I have needs. Last night my wife was at night school and I had my new girl come over and we made love on mine and my wifes bed. Was that wrong?

2006-10-24 16:13:46 · 49 answers · asked by mrharderson 4

If you feel anxious, belittled,betrayed, unappreciated, dumped on.......why is it so hard to let go? I know some of you have been with someone like this. You knew you should leave but you just couldn't. What should I do? How do I get the courage to leave?

2006-10-24 16:12:16 · 17 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2

Theres about 1000 things in details i'm leaving out, but the main thing is my childs father after a path of moral destruction and after my duaghter lived me me alone for over a year on my birthday took her to KC to my fathers and moved in on the other side of his double by using some of my fathers hidden angers about women and lies and exaggerations and a ton of other stuff that you wouldnt even beleive. My problem is dealing with my duaghter who is 3 calling all the time with the sadest voice telling me she wants to come home and he says she is home, he also says the main reason he is really doing this is because he doesnt want me to have a boyfriend and has absolutley no care or consideration twords her feelings whatsoever its purely as punishment to me, How could he do this and and have tried legal measures but they just believe him I'm just lost I dont even know what i;m asking basically how to deal with knowing her pain, I was there to at her same exact age.

2006-10-24 16:11:55 · 13 answers · asked by KIMBUR 4

we'll only have about 9 hours to spend together

2006-10-24 16:10:04 · 6 answers · asked by blue 1

my spouse filed for divorce said it was over and then two weeks later comes and sees me we talk then we made love and continued on but still he still divorcing me but yet still loves me why is he doing this?

2006-10-24 16:09:53 · 15 answers · asked by frances 1

I have been dating my girlfriend for three years and im a hundred percent she is the one. We want to get married after our second year of college and i just wonder if this could complicate things or if i am rushing into it. I personally would marry her tommorow but i just dont want to jump into things to quickly.

2006-10-24 16:09:04 · 14 answers · asked by c b 1

2006-10-24 16:08:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married and my kids father and I have always been friends, for about 15 yrs now however he's was incarerated when I got married now that he is out my husband is really paranoid which is causing alot of friction in the household, and he no longer wants me to be friend with this dude,
by the way my kids father and I have never had a serious relationship it was just casual sex every now and then.
Should I let my husband tell me rather i should be friends with him or not?

2006-10-24 16:06:33 · 25 answers · asked by eutaw29048 1

My husband says he wants his personal belongings but yet wont give me an answer to pick them up and we only communicate thru email, we still love each other but he feel he needs to go on his own for awhile he is 46 years old and his a very introvert person but he confuses me when he says he wants them but wont pick them up

2006-10-24 16:04:45 · 10 answers · asked by frances 1

Here is my situation. I finally after years of trying, have a chance to fulfill my dream of going to school and getting an education in something that I have wanted since I was a kid. My wife knew this since the day we met, only because I didnt want to hide anything from her. This is the perfect opportunity seeing as how we have no bills, kids or debts. I really want to live my dream but she has given me the "me or education" ultimatum. I have a really great paying job at the time but I am miserable and have only stayed with it to save up for school. I really dont want to loose her but I also dont want to give up my dream. I dont think I can stay in my position at work till I retire 40 years from now but the money makes her happy. I dont know what to do, I am really stuck

2006-10-24 15:57:08 · 11 answers · asked by bsgtar26 1

we are married 19 yrs and i always thought i could trust her, but she tells me about guys stopping and seeing her at work, she knows i get freaked and tells me she hates me and i'm ugly just to hurt me

2006-10-24 15:56:56 · 7 answers · asked by jay h 1

2006-10-24 15:53:38 · 11 answers · asked by Adam B 1

will i laugh again or should i just wate for death one day at a time are there any woman who just want to enjoy whats left of our time here

2006-10-24 15:52:26 · 12 answers · asked by cancel 1

I always hear women ask, "why do guys always go for the slutty girls and not the good girls." They ask like there is such a thing as a good woman. I have never met a good girl. Even the so called "good girls" do nothing but ***** and moan about everything. At least the bad ones put out. I mean what, do you women think we are supposed to put up with your crap for free????

2006-10-24 15:49:23 · 14 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1

2006-10-24 15:29:02 · 11 answers · asked by Sun Shine 2

My husband is wonderful but on the other hand awful he has depression and is on medication. He is good we have been through alot but we have a problem when it comes to money he won't share the household expenses 50/50 thats what i want he only wants to pay half the house payment and some of the light bill i pay everything else including food. Everytime we discuss it he says he wants to move out and get an apartment we are going to counceling to get thru this issue but he tells her everything she wants to hear but when we get home its different. He is wonderful except money what should i do.

2006-10-24 15:21:26 · 10 answers · asked by mistiful2001 2

I went to his house for dinner we have a new baby(2m) & h/brother came in from outta town & wanted to c the baby.So we went and it was nice.(he's muslim)well h. family promotes marriage & has been trying to counsel us since I was pregnant.So coming from the house my mood changed b/c I felt like people were looking @ us like we were stupid and I felt stupid.Because we arent married and he keeps saying he wants to marry me but he's just not ready yet.He says he loves me and made me keep the baby for a reason and isnt introducing me into h/ religion for no reason.Well Im ready now. I have to start building a family for me my children I have an opportunity in Newyork to get my stuff together and I told him we were moving(i have a 1year old too).I told him today and his first reaction was ok it gives me something to think about but I support u n ur choice. Do I go or do I stay. We are currently in Atlanta. We would be gone for about 4years.His family is going to be mad @ him.

2006-10-24 15:13:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've oficially been dating a year and just got engaged and we're head over heals for each other. My parents (married 28 yrs) are the only couple I know who are just like a honeymoon couple. They slow dance in the kitchen, Spend all their spare time together, hold hands, and always make each other smile, it melts my heart ... Anybody know peaople or are in that special relationship after so long? Whats their story? Or yours?

2006-10-24 15:12:57 · 7 answers · asked by July 1

I am not very well endowed, and I can't do much to satisfy my wife with the equipment I have. do you think she wishes I were bigger, or would it be normal if she fantasized about a guy with a bigger package.

2006-10-24 15:10:38 · 13 answers · asked by Steve J 1

My husband and I have been seperated for over a year. Anyhow,six months ago, I met this guy in the culture chat room in yahoo. We both fell in love with each other hopelessly. We've exchanged pictures and called each other almost everyday and he knew my marital situation and he told me he loved me and would wait for me till I get the dirvorce..
Suddenly out of blue, right after I booked the flight to visit him , he told me the guilt of being a home wrecker caught up with him and he decided to break it off with me. I am so heart broken now. I thought I finally found someone after the troubled marriage. I have invested so much emotion in this relation...I understand that I did not started this relationship with a clean start; maybe I deserved my heart to be broken. However, I am still so hurt....How to heal? I want to get over this soon. What should I do with the plane ticket which I don't think I'll use it any more....Please help.

2006-10-24 14:54:30 · 30 answers · asked by bumblebeegaga 1