will i laugh again or should i just wate for death one day at a time are there any woman who just want to enjoy whats left of our time here
2006-10-24 15:52:26 · 12 answers · asked by cancel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You'll survive...things will get better...hang in there.
2006-10-24 15:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Will you laugh again? Well, that depends upon what you decide to do with your life. Right now, life seems terrible, but what you are losing is a woman who has treated you like crap. If there are no kids, this is good, not bad.
Like I was told back in 1973, when I divorced my first wife for what is now called emotional abuse when a man does it to a woman, if I tried to find another woman as bad as her, I probably couldn't do it.
If you think you have problems now, hurry up and start looking for a new wife. If you are smart, don't even date for a couple years. You need to reasess your life, and the society you live in, which lets women divorce a husband solely because they want another man.
Get a life, a life with activities, with human contact, something fulfilling to do. Love is like water boiling; the more closely you observe it, the longer it seems to take.
You have not mentioned kids. If you have none, proceed with caution. It is not fun to get stuck with child support payments for kids you don't get to see. You have unlimited opportunities to make life even worse than it already is.
2006-10-24 23:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by retiredslashescaped1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce does not mean doom day! You can look for another and start a new family again. Whether to laugh or just wait for death will depend on your mentality. Life is short so don't let your divorce take away your remaining life. All the best.
2006-10-24 23:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by Renew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will indeed laugh again, pain doesn't leave us where it finds us, we do survive, what is important is how we handle our problems.we do find someone else, and life does go on, one door closes on us, and another opens up. other people's choices in life can hurt us, and make our life hell for awhile. i didn't think i would survive, i thought it was the end of the world,but looking back three years ago, i have come a long way since than, and i continue to grow every day. seems when we are hurt and depressed we need to bring god into it, and pray for guidance. don't just feel sorry for yourself, don't just let someone make you feel like this, you are looking for confrot in your wife, and really the only one who can confort us is god. when it happened to me i was not religious, i believed but did not really know the lord. but today i know him a little better, i take one day at a time, and i choose not to let the person who hurt me win.
2006-10-24 23:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better stop that! Love is many things to many different people. Marriage is a chaotic piece of work that 2 people try to tame together. Sometimes the people involved havent evolved at all. Like maybe work on you alittle bit. Maybe love with someone new is out there for you BUT if you just sit and wait to die THEN it may just pass you by. Love is eternal, marriage may not be BUT trying never hurt either. Please dont give up yet. Your destined soul mate is looking for you.
2006-10-24 23:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by ms foxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not seem like you can ever get over it right now, but you will eventually will find your way through this, in your own way and in your own time... time being the key word. Spend time with friends, family. Don't go looking for someone new until you're ready - who knows, maybe they'll find you first!
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
2006-10-24 23:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do. my husband decided to move out of town FOR A JOB. he's been gone 7 months.......and wonders why i'm upset! can you believe it! i mean....we all know, most people don't get married to get divorced. but most people don't marry a person who isn't going to be there either. this was his choice though. he quit his job to start a business out of town. ugh......i could go on and on. but i know the feeling all too well of just wanting to have someone special, someone too enjoy and appreciate the little things in life.
2006-10-24 23:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by ♥2323vsb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one that can answer this question... If you live life to the fulliest, I'm sure you will find whatever it is you are looking for. But if you hide away... you might as well give up on it.
2006-10-24 23:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by oohsherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will get better, but it takes time. Don't give up. As long as you are alive there is always hope.I was there too, and it does get better.
2006-10-24 22:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by Marti M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh!!! u sound miserable... you will find love again... and if not then hey....join my club...its called i am lonely and learning to like it w/o a blabbering butthead in my ear!!!!
2006-10-24 22:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋