how do you find love?

Answer 1

I find it hard and very depresing when ever you are not with the person that you love you think about that person and when ever you think about them you can not think about any thing else when you fight you think that it is your fault and then you blame your self nowing that you didn't do any thing wrong and the other thing is that when ever you are with them you do not want to go any ware but you know that you do well altimetly it is more like a west of time and well I must also say that it is also amuseing.

Answer 2

You don't find it, you cultivate the ability to give and receive it.

I use the word "cultivate" very specifically, the same way a gardener would, as the analogy works.

If you are going to grow a garden you must first:

1. Remove all large objects (rocks, trash, etc.) in the garden space.
2. Remove all of the interfering plants, etc. (initial weeding)
3. Till the soil, and make it what is called "friable" (see below)
4. Give the soil nutrition, often over a long period of time
5. Plant what you wish to grow
6. Sunshine and rain or watering and patience....
7. Weed weed weed weed weed
7A. Don't rush things and pull up your good plants by their roots.
8. Enjoy the benefit of your cultivation and labors.

For love:

1. Remove all of the hard-hearted places in your soul.
2. Put your priorities in order (removing initial interferences)
3. Make room for kindness and gentleness in your heart.
4. Be involved in soul-fulfilling activities,
5. Don't be a strawberry in an onion field. (see below)
6. Count on God to provide good experiences (sunshine)
and
6A. Realize that rain (sorrow) etc. is necessary for growth too.
7. Keep removing hard hearted places/unneeded distractions
7A. When things hurt, learn patience and gain empathy.

The fruit of this labor is that you will find love and more importantly be a loving person yourself.

Now then, two notes from above. First, In gardening terms, friability means that water and warmth can easily penetrate the soil which allows the roots of the plants to draw nutrition, etc. into the part above ground. In the soul, you need to be willing to let things inside in order for them to show on the outside. This includes rain (sorrow), and tender moments (watering).

Second. You can't find love and sweetness in places where only bitterness is usually grown. I would look for a good woman in a place with many service activities, not an alcohol serving bar, if you catch my drift. Suggest the same is true in reverse.

Good luck in your cultivation and future journey.

Answer 3

look in the right places pray to god that he would send you the right one and if you think he has then be patient wait until marriage for sex. So don't go to the bar to find him or be in a hurry. Nothing good comes from rushing into relationships it becomes a battle very quickly to prove that you are loved I don't know if this is what you you wanted to hear but God loves you and this is the real love if you become saved and rely on him he will show you.

Answer 4

IT has been 2 to3 months since you broke with your boyfriend
give yourself some time to get over him,
only saying this because you have ask a lot of ? about the x and his new girl
well he did not waste anytime getting someone,that does not mean he had found love
so you need time to get to know you that way when love come around you will recgonize it and you will not settle for anything less than someone who thank you are the best thing that ever happen to him
Take care

Answer 5

Love will find you

Answer 6

Love is not a commodity you go looking for in a supermarket. Just try to be happy with your life, and the right person will naturally come along. Being sociable and involved in activities with people also helps.

Answer 7

You will find love when you start loving yourself 1st and then pass, give and share your love to another person unconditionally and not expect return in monetary value or reward. Just a feeling from you to another person- sincere and pure.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

only one way. live life and remember just take it slow cause all good things are worth waiting for!!!!

Answer 10

By concentrating on your education, maturing, and not being desperate.