I am not very well endowed, and I can't do much to satisfy my wife with the equipment I have. do you think she wishes I were bigger, or would it be normal if she fantasized about a guy with a bigger package.
2006-10-24 15:10:38 · 13 answers · asked by Steve J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh how bad to think so low of yourself. you may be small , ok but there are other ways to please your wife.
2006-10-24 15:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
No No No.....Men seem to be obsessed with the size of the their "equipment". Now Gentlemen, please be advised that some women do not wish their spouses were bigger, as it is not always better. Contrary to popular belief a woman can only feel the first 3 inches upon insertion.
Now has she came out and said,"I wish you were bigger?" I think not. What do you consider not well endowed? A lot of men are average between 5-7 inches. Size is not and should not be an issue.
I would not like a tonsillectomy while having sex.
I've said enough.........
2006-10-25 12:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by Gina K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no I don't think she fantasized about men with a bigger package but for some reason if she is she mite not have been with a man with a big dick ,and for some people that can be a bad thing a man can have more package and the girl will then be uncomfortable don't worry about it you can find other things to please your wife, just to make it fun but I think she is satisfied with you package and that other stuff mite just be a mith. I never compained about a smaller one matter of fact it fills better . If she knew she would stop wondering about that and love what she got . Size dosent matter to alot of women.
2006-10-24 22:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by miss african 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its not so much the size of your package that matters hunny, its how you use it. Incorporate more foreplay into it if you really want to please her, spend time on her before jumping into the main act. You could even bring toys into the scenario to add to her pleasure. Try some positions that allow for deeper penetration or go in from an angle, it does make somewhat of a difference.Good luck and just remember to not focus on your size so much that you forget that she did marry you knowing what you had. Feel good about yourself and exude confidence, she will see it and it will help tremendously.
2006-10-24 23:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by Ash 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to say i love a man with a good size package. Not to big but enough to get the job done. I think women need good sex just like men. The only difference is we hide it a little more. I really think if your that bad off you need to be good in other areas.
2006-10-24 23:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Really, it's not that important to most women. After being with my husband for 10 years, it never occured to me that he may think he's small. I don't fantasize about bigger men. He's perfect for me. Lighten up and enjoy your woman.
2006-10-24 22:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is clear you are hung up on size or your penis is all you need to make love to your woman.
You need to change that way of thinking. Intercourse is far less important to women than it is to men. What they want is for you to show them.....in every way....that they are special to you. Foreplay is critical to a woman. They need it to get worked up.
Quit worrying about your size and start pleasing her in other ways. You will be very glad you did.
2006-10-24 22:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by John B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you should be asking your wife this stuff. Just remember she married you not your penis. Just because you aren't happy with the size of it doesn't mean that she feels the same way.
Marriage isn't based on the size of your penis or sex for that matter.
2006-10-24 22:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are literally hung like an infant she probably doesn't even think about it. I've had a pretty small man and I didn't fantasize about a larger man. Besides if you can't please her with your penis, there are other ways. but, most of all, ask her about it. Tell her that your worried that you're not pleasing her and see what she says.
2006-10-24 22:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by Violet 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why don't u just go right ahead and ask her? It will save u the trouble of wondering.
2006-10-24 22:16:20 · answer #10 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she wanted bigger she woulda married bigger, relax, and truthfully some women perfer smaller then biger or less sex more forplay, if you didn't do it for her she wouldn't be round.
2006-10-24 22:14:35 · answer #11 · answered by Becca 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋