Marriage & Divorce - 24 October 2006

We separated for about 3 or 4 weeks and now we have been back together again a couple of months and I have really struggled with trusting her. It seems like everytime I question her she gets mad. Should I shut up and fight through it?

2006-10-24 08:49:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband cheated on me and had to tell me because he got genital warts.
After 10 very good years in marrige and two kids, i decided to forgive him. But lately i'm very depressed and i can't stop thinking why would he do it? how he did it etc. What can i do to stop all these thoughts?

2006-10-24 08:49:20 · 27 answers · asked by CANDYKISA 1

why does my mom not tell me she is getting remarried it has been 10 almost 11 years since the divorce?

2006-10-24 08:48:00 · 3 answers · asked by babydoll.angel 1

2006-10-24 08:46:35 · 15 answers · asked by Debbie L 1

2006-10-24 08:46:34 · 11 answers · asked by Bla 1

just wanted to know, who else has an awesome marriage?? and if not then why? what happened?

2006-10-24 08:41:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

me to thank all you for your answer's to my previous question. She read your answers and called her boyfriend to come over and do me in the butt, She said I needed to step up and be a man. Any encouraging words for me ? or how to not make it hurt so much ?
I'll let you know how it goes again thanks

2006-10-24 08:37:35 · 15 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1

If a man has rage do you think it is a good idea to marry him, and just maybe he'll get rid of it. Or should a person give the other a time frame to work on it. Is this something that can be dealt with, or is it considered to be a permanant feature of ones identity?

2006-10-24 08:36:00 · 26 answers · asked by gayle j 2

2006-10-24 08:27:48 · 8 answers · asked by newwebbie2003 1

My DH & I have been married going on 10 years. His oldest daughter threw a party for her 1 year old and didn't include me on the invitation. Hubby said I should go anyway, which I didn't because to me, that would be just as rude. I told him to go anyway but he needed to ask his daughter why his wife was included. When he got back, I asked him what she said and he said "about what?" He never said one word to her and everyone who asked where I was, he told them I didn't want to come. Am I being too sensitive or should he have spoken up and questioned the daughter? I know if I invited her husband over without her, my husband would tear me a new one. Maybe it's just time to move on and live alone. It's hard to stay in a relationship thats only one sided. He insists that my own kids respect me but why shouldn't his kids?

2006-10-24 08:26:47 · 10 answers · asked by whitewolf8853 1

2006-10-24 08:22:46 · 11 answers · asked by boomboom 1

We been divorced for 9 mths and he calls me all the time. He finds any excuse to see me. Uses our child to brings us back together. Is always wondering what am doing and with who. Treats me as if we are still in a relationship.

2006-10-24 08:19:01 · 10 answers · asked by em506 1

I have a male friend who I have known for about 2 years, and he has been coming over my house for about a year. He has been living with the mother of his 12 year old for 12 years. He has told me that she cheated on him 2 years ago, and that he'll never trust her again. He has said that they have nothing in common. About 2 months ago, he got married. He didn't tell me, another friend told me. When I ask him about it, he said that he forgot. He told me that he only married her for the kids, and that he isn't in love with her. Why would you think that he wouldn't tell me? Also, he has never shown my husband and I any pictures of his family. What do you make of this?

2006-10-24 08:13:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So for all of you out there who think this is the case in divorce you seriously need to adjust your tunnel vision. I am 100% for womens equal treatment in every aspect. I don't dwn play the bonds between mother and child and it makes me sick when people down play my bond with my daughter. That whole stupid argument is exactly what her mom says and you know what I say about it: quite being so damn selfish and full of your self! You think you are the only one who has a special bond with your children? It is this mind frame and thought process that has surpressed people for years. Oh but I guess that is the way it's always been huh? Well welcome to the 21st century.

2006-10-24 08:10:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

if i had acourt house wedding and no party or other engagement what is ok for me to do

2006-10-24 08:10:08 · 26 answers · asked by vomissie 2

i don't want anything less then perfect in this departament so that might be a problem

2006-10-24 08:08:19 · 12 answers · asked by Rastaman 2

We've known each other for almost 2 years now and have only talked online and on the phone. We are sure we want to take this step, however i can't find sufficient information on what steps to take. She will be moving to the states once we are married and living with me. What will be the quickest and easiest way to do this. I'm in the military so the reason i say quickest is cuz i don't get much time to travel and deal with whatever places i need to go to make this marriage happen.

2006-10-24 08:08:17 · 3 answers · asked by Lost and Wondering 1

I told her to buy a nice necklace at the jewelry store. She didn't listen to me, so now she has to live with the one I'm picking out. Why don't women listen to their husbands?

2006-10-24 08:07:26 · 22 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

My husband loves to control the money. Usually when I get paid, he transfers all my money into his account and pays bills,he leaves like $50 and expects me to 'make it last' till next payday. I finally stood my ground and am now keeping my money & helping him pay the bills. Now, I'm doing a little job on the side as a typist, and he's already trying to decide for me how to use the money. I told him it's mine and I will decide how to spend it, but he's just not getting it. I can already tell it might lead to an argument later - I have to, again, stand up to him and tell him its MY MONEY. It's not like I'm going shopping with it, I'm trying to make it last till my next payday, I even gave him some of it, but aparently it's not enough. Am I being selfish? Don't I have the right to hold onto AND decide how to spend MY money?

2006-10-24 08:05:11 · 21 answers · asked by amyvnsn 5

When we first started dating, he was full steam on about talking about getting married and having children. Here we are 4 years later and still nothing. He keeps saying it's because he was married before and wants to make sure that he doesn't have to go through another divorce, that this time it's forever. Should I feel guilty because I want something (engagement) to show that we're still moving forward? I'm not asking to get married right now, but I feel like I need something! What are your thoughts?

I feel kind of bad for saying this, but I don't want to be wasting my time if he's not serious any more. It's an added worry that we're already living together, so why does he have to do anything because he's already got all the perks of marriage without actually having to be married. I'm just worried, because I've already broken up with another guy where the relationship didn't go anywhere after 4 years. Should I keep the same standards now that I did back then?

2006-10-24 08:05:11 · 7 answers · asked by Heather 1

serious answers please.

2006-10-24 08:02:10 · 9 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2

if you and ya husband got married at say 21 and you were a virgin does ya husband have to give u a chance to sleep with someone else since u never did after 10 years of marriage.no he was not a virgin.

2006-10-24 08:02:08 · 15 answers · asked by MR. IM 1

She used to be a paint stripper at an auto body shop. She said she had no secrets. I'm pretty devastated. The damage to her lungs was something I should have been told about. I told her I used to smoke. It's about honesty.

2006-10-24 07:59:16 · 22 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

My wife has a reoccuring dream that I have sex with her sister, what does that mean?

2006-10-24 07:58:42 · 10 answers · asked by JazzMan 2

2006-10-24 07:58:06 · 30 answers · asked by Lucy A 1

he is messing around with his so called best friends wife, the best friend has a mistress; he denies it. he says he loves me but he doesnt know what he wants, i have stood very low for him & begg for him to stay with us(his girls & I). i get treated really bad by him cuz he says i dont do anything else than say the samething over and over, that i should let things be the way they are. i am truly inlove w/him and dont know if i should fight to win him back or just give up just like he did! it hurst so much that i dont even know how to begin accepting this and just give up. i dont want this for my girls so why cant i move on!! i call him all the time, i want to know what his doing/who is he with, how do i stop chasing him around and try win him over again to see what am worth, is it even worth it to try to get him back? we been married 10yrs 2girls & i love him just the same as when we met!!!!

2006-10-24 07:57:49 · 15 answers · asked by why 1

My first love and i met when i was 13. He was 16. We dated untill he graduated and moved away after highschool. We still saw each other from time to time and wrote letters back & forth. I went on and dated while he really waited for me. (short story) i broke his heart.2 1/2 yrs. later, we saw eachother for a few days and decided we didn't know each other like we thought and went our own ways (with neither of us happy about it!)
We both went on to marry other people and had families.
13 yrs. later, out of the blue(both divorced now) he calls and we date for 6 months,I was in heaven! but in turn he breaks my heart(not able to get the past out of his head) We moved on and I married a few yrs. later, we still talked once or twice a yr.
So, now im remarried (not happily)and we have been talking more often and we both know that we screwed up and let eachother go.
I do believe we are soul mates, & we have 26 yrs. to make up for.
Do you believe in true love? Soul mates? is there hope?

2006-10-24 07:53:58 · 5 answers · asked by ashley s 1

Are their any married people out there that have had a threesome? I just want to know if it is possible to continue to have a marriage afterward. I have been told it's best to pick a stranger for the third because you will never see that person again, is this correct?

I want to here from someone that is married and has experience.

This is my husband’s fantasy to have another guy join in. I am seriously considering it but I am scared that one of us is going to like the third person too much.


Thanks

2006-10-24 07:53:38 · 25 answers · asked by loribaby36 1

I don't see how any one who has half a brain can't see how the court system is built in favor of mom and against dad. Thank god it's changing but we still have tremendous biased favoring. Why don't oppenents of shared parenting, which are mainly feminists and women whom claim to be for equally rights, really sand for what they claim to stand for? How can it be that women have custody in almost all cases? All men can not be unfit.

2006-10-24 07:52:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems like we are together 24/7 and talk on the phone throughout the work day. We have kinda been getting irritated at each other a lot lately. Any advice?

2006-10-24 07:49:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous