My first love and i met when i was 13. He was 16. We dated untill he graduated and moved away after highschool. We still saw each other from time to time and wrote letters back & forth. I went on and dated while he really waited for me. (short story) i broke his heart.2 1/2 yrs. later, we saw eachother for a few days and decided we didn't know each other like we thought and went our own ways (with neither of us happy about it!)
We both went on to marry other people and had families.
13 yrs. later, out of the blue(both divorced now) he calls and we date for 6 months,I was in heaven! but in turn he breaks my heart(not able to get the past out of his head) We moved on and I married a few yrs. later, we still talked once or twice a yr.
So, now im remarried (not happily)and we have been talking more often and we both know that we screwed up and let eachother go.
I do believe we are soul mates, & we have 26 yrs. to make up for.
Do you believe in true love? Soul mates? is there hope?
2006-10-24 07:53:58 · 5 answers · asked by ashley s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only you know in your heart what will make you happy. Remeber though that 26 years have passed. Can you make a relationship from this past that you have created? Are you willing to upend your life for a maybe? Is he? Life IS short, so make sure you make the right decision. This is your future!
2006-10-24 07:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by lee911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the tract record you have can you honestly even pretend to believe in a soul mate? You don't seem to hold on to any relationship for very long, not even the recurring ones.
There is no such thing as a soul mate. It is nothing more than a romantic notion that many of us would like to believe in because we are too lazy to actually be proactive and search for the person who best suits our needs and desires.
2006-10-24 15:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation, except we are both married with kids and while my heart is in knots over him his is not with me (very in love with his wife), though he wants to stay friends with me. You did not say if there are children involved. Assuming there are not I would look at moving forward with him EXCEPT what bothers me is he broke up with you because he could not move past the beakup from when you are kids. That seems weird to me. But I do believe in soul mates but I don't think knowing who that is, or being with that person, guarantees happiness.
2006-10-24 15:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not souls mates because you have had to many chances to reconcile. Sometimes you think that you really love Someone. But, when you see them you really didn't love them at all
It is just a fantasy that you have for them. 26 years is to long to go back and forth and not know that this person is just old use to be.
2006-10-24 15:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe there is hope i was sorta in the same situation but we broke up got togehter had a son vice vesa over adn overbut now he married and tells me all the time htat he is getting divorced and wants me but i did move on and am in love which i thought could not happen because of him i hope in your case what you have is real just take it slow get divorced and have a life
2006-10-24 15:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by vomissie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋