She used to be a paint stripper at an auto body shop. She said she had no secrets. I'm pretty devastated. The damage to her lungs was something I should have been told about. I told her I used to smoke. It's about honesty.
2006-10-24 07:59:16 · 22 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ur poor wife...you are so goofy!
2006-10-24 08:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she used to be a stripper, it could have been a lot worst job than that. I mean you have never said anything about her having any health problems. So what is the worst health job you ever had? I myself worked in the shop where they painted the cars, I would think that is worse than being a stripper. I know the fumes are worst than they are for the stripper. I'm sure if she thought about it she would have told you about it.
2006-10-25 00:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you said stripper in your initial question, I thought you meant taking her close off. It sounds like you are looking for an excuse to leave the relationship. The reason you are giving for wanting out of the marriage has nothing to do with her past employment. If you want out of the marriage, and since you are the more honest between the two of you, be honest with her about why you want out of the marriage.
2006-10-24 15:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not boyfriend and girlfriend you two are married that's not something you just get rid of marriage is a lifetime commitment. Dang what happen through thick and thin. I Understand you have been kept in the dark about it but it sounds like you might be looking for a very petty reason you get out the marriage.
2006-10-24 15:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. Strippers are known to be inconsistent, flaky, and chronic marijuana users.
She's probably lying about everything.
Trade up for a 22yr old hottie framer. They really know how to put stuff together...if ya know what I'm talkin' bout.
2006-10-24 15:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with her and work through it. That is not something you usually want people to know so why would she have told you. You haven't told her everything either don't even fake. So work through it if you really love her forgive her and appreciate the fact that she is changed. we all make mistakes including you.
2006-10-24 15:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by kiki_t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, and you have never lied to her about ANYTHING that happened in your past? Oh come on, I could see if she killed people or had 13 children and gave them all up for adoption, but if she is healthy , and you love her, then what is the problem?
2006-10-24 15:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by Fuzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethimes in life we need to learn to get past our past.
IF the relationship is worth giving her a chance go for it, only you know what kind of relationship you all have. Is it worth it ?
All the best.
2006-10-24 15:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats in the past is in the past its not like she cheated on you although she did betray your trust get over it and move on she is your wife.
2006-10-24 15:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make a list of the things she can do to make it up to you ! After all your worrying it's the least she can do to console you . Make sure to examine her lungs thoroughly to make sure they are OK !
2006-10-24 15:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I suppose it's not as bad as if she was doing upholstery. The tuck and roll is something you don't get over, ya know?
2006-10-24 15:01:13 · answer #11 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋