Sexual Adventures in marriage?

Question

Have you and your spouse participated in a sexual adventure ex: a three way. And if you did, in what way was your marrige affected.

Answer 1

There are many different ways to venture out of the norm without resorting to something as hurtfull as a 3way. Too many problems can and probably will arrise with adding a 3rd into your bed. Try role playing or adding some bedroom accessories instead. You won't be as hurt if your wife makes a crazy face/sound with a toy as you would with another man. Men's egos and women's hearts aren't made to handle all that jealosy.

Answer 2

the moral right winged will tell you your going to hell and it is sooo wrong -- the silent wish i coulds will say just that i wish i could

to be honest it is some of the hottest sex and most mens fantasy to have two women, the two man thing and his wife NOT double standard but true

the bigger question is why would you want to and do you really think it is something you are mature enough to handle?

i've done it and i picked the girl and lived out every fantasy he and i talked about for him but it was mutual but opened up other doors later down the road for both of us and that sucked in the end so beware as you venture because it can open pandoras box

Answer 3

3some, group sex is a kind of the open sexual relation. Majorities of people disapprove of open sexual activity. Critics have put forward moral, medical, and psychological objections to open relations. The lack of social acceptance places pressure on couples to hide their open sex from family, friends, and colleagues. This may limit their social support network, resulting in a loss of psychological and physical health benefits. There is no guarantee that you will try and stop it, most likely if both will like it you will repeat experience. If only one will like it what will prevent him to try on his/her own with the remaining spouse suspicious and feeling hurt. Do not open a Pandora box.

Answer 4

I did once participate in a 3 way, if you can even call it that. He did me, then her, then me, then finished with her. While taking turns she watched us and I watched them. All it did for him was give him an opportunity to do someone other than me and gave me the opportunity to see him being pleasured by someone else. Maybe it would have affected me more if I was in love with him...

We have married couple friends we swapped with two times over the summer. The first time I was with the guy I was really nervous and couldn't enjoy it. The second time, and I'm being honest here, it was easily the best sex I've ever had and I felt bad for enjoying it so much especially in front of the wife and my guy. It was one of the handful of times I've had an orgasm and I loved every minute of it. It was just one of those things in life that I truly enjoyed but my guy, the husband and wife will never know my true feelings. I'll have to keep it to myself :). That experience hasn't affected our relationship. Everytime I see the guy I think what a lucky woman my friend is :).

Answer 5

I haven't personally, but I have a good friend who had a threesome with her husband and a guy she met on the Internet. Her and her husband both thought they were strong enough in their relationship to handle such an adventure. The threesome actually went well, but it was the day after that was the killer...they are now thinking about seperation. I don't think I would do something involving another person, it always seems to end badly...

Answer 6

hey when you took your vows and you promised to love and obey one another, its was not meant for you your wife and lover it was meant for you and your wife. if you have a problem then get divorced and the you can have lots of lovers and have group sex instead if not then try and work on your marriage and see why it is that you want a threesome and try and talk to your spouse maybe you can work this out without resorting to a threesome

Answer 7

a 3-way in a "marital" relationship is NOT an adventure but the fastest way to sabotage and undermine any and all the trust you both worked hard to attain.
3 ways are for single people w/o commitment.

Answer 8

Not when I was married, but I did have a three-way when I was younger.

But we did it for the wrong reasons and said and did a lot tht the ultimate outcomes was that I destroyed one friendship and damaged the other

Answer 9

That is like saying I have been monogomous with 5 people at the same time. Its not a marriage any more if you are having 3 ways. You just graduated to friends with legal benifits.

Answer 10

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