my fiance has broken up with me...I know I have made mistakes, but i have done so much work to make things right. I have never cheated on her, but i did text another girl (whos was a friend of a friend), and it was just to see where everyone was going out and stuff. I am in therapy, on medication, not drinking, not going out. I just really want to win her love again. I want us to be in love. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I can do this????
2006-10-24 06:24:16 · 9 answers · asked by blahblahblah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first of all lilac b???? don't answer if you don't have anything to offer. you are wasting my time.
I just want to know what I can do....We have been together for 1 1/2 years and our lives are so connected (everyday life, money...etc.) I am working two jobs to make our dreams a reality. we were supposed to go to school (law school for me, psychology for her) we were on our way, and now she just gives up....I don't want to let her go...she means too much to me..
2006-10-24 06:31:49 · update #1
You are leaving ALOT of stuff out. Be honest, and then maybe you can get an honest answer.
2006-10-24 06:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can choose you who you love, but, unfortunately, you can't choose who will love you back. If you've made mistakes in the past and are fixing them, then show her and give her a chance to come to terms with this - but if you're the one doing all the changing and it's still not working out, then maybe it's just not meant to be. Show her how much you love her, show her how much you've changed and hope for the best!
Good Luck!
Aloha!
2006-10-24 13:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you don't want to be too pushy or demanding because that would only push her away...so I suggest you just let her know how you feel and back off a little bit but not too much and let her come around.
2006-10-24 13:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would move on, she's into phychology...that means she doesn't understand herself. Run man run! Find a new girl and be a better guy this next time around. If a girl leaves its over
2006-10-24 13:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you whine to her half as much as your whining now that is half your problem MAN UP tell her you want her and go after her NOT STALK and if it doesn't work then guess what it is over and move on with your life if you really care about her
2006-10-24 13:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no way you can win someones love the love has to be there in that person.having an opened communication line is always good. and time. don't press the issue . be patient
2006-10-24 13:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by JUST US 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her a little time to think....the littlest things bother us.
she'll come around!
2006-10-24 13:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by Precious M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mail order bride
or jack daniels it works
2006-10-24 13:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by mariojr72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and explain and commucicate!!!!
2006-10-24 13:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋