2006-10-24 12:57:16 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like you guys are struggling for the dominant role. He wants to be dominant, and saying sorry (he feels) could jeapordize that. Does that make sense?
2006-10-24 13:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to bear that jackass. I understand that you have faced an exceptionally abnormal life. But be strong. Find a new man. Start with online dating. It doesn't work out every time, but many a times it does. There are many single men all over the world. Kick your husband. Live your life, your way. And cheer up!! If he tries to harass you, then you can actually register a complain against him. Don't forgive him. He doesn't deserve you. But if you love him, then do a little 'tit for tat' for the sake of your self-respect and get to normal. But seriously, he doesn't deserve you. Al the best :)
2016-05-22 11:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there could be many reasons for that....maybe he doesnt realize he hurts u...or maybe he has too much pride to tell you he knows he did something wrong and hes sorry. my boyfriend hurt me recently because he was being jealous, but my case is different because about 5 minutes later he came and said sorry ...maybe u and ur husband should talk and communicate after all communication is an essential for a healthy relationship.i hope my advice kind of helps.....and i hope ur happier from now on.
2006-10-24 13:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My X husband was like that.
The guy never says he is sorry because he isn't capable to feel anything for anyone but himself.
He can justify everything he does and says. The sad part is that people like this believe their own words.
Don't let him destroy your own spirit, if it does, take care of yourself and move on
2006-10-24 13:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well when did it start and how long has this abuse being going on? Verbal abuse can scare you just as much as physical abuse? This man does not seem to care that he is hurting you nor will be apologize for his action. You both need to seek professional help. If he doesnt agree to attend then your next step need to be out the door.
2006-10-24 13:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not even realize he is hurting you. Men think entirely different than we do. He may say something hurtful and think he is being funny or charming when in reality he is an idiot. When he says something hurtful immediatly say, " That was mean and hurtful" Watch the expression on his face change to arent I so funny to arent I such a jerkoff.
2006-10-24 13:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if he never says sorry then he has a problem. Maybe it is hard for him to apologize so then you should talk to him and tell him how u feel. If it doesn't work and he continues, seek marriage counseling.
2006-10-24 13:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional abuse is very real and very damaging to the human soul. If this pattern is consistent, you must get into couple counseling and work at your relationship. Otherwise, this is not love, but abuse and you need to make a plan to move on.
2006-10-24 12:59:11 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its my opinion but as a male i get mean towards wife when my self asteem is low its not intentianal thing but i do know i am trying not to do so if i can help it
hope it helps you
2006-10-24 13:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by bear_is_looking_for_cats 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because if he says he's sorry then he has to accept he is responsible for what he has done to make you feel that way
2006-10-24 13:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by mochi.girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋