If your husband had an affair with a woman who knew he was married, who would you be more angry with?

Answer 1

I would be equally angry with both of them, but more hurt by him as he is the one who's loyalties should lie with me.

Answer 2

I would be mad at both but more at my husband for allowing it to happen.I have no respect for any woman that has an affair with a married man or vice versa. If your spouse loves you as much as they say they do then they shouldnt be messing around if your unhappy divorce is the way to go then you can start a new life.

Answer 3

You didn't say if the woman was married or not. Actually BOTH parties are at fault. Your husband committed adultery. As for the woman, if she's married, she too committed adultery. If she's not married, then she had an affair with a maried man. Both again are wrong. No matter how you look at it, adultery was committed here. Definitely grounds for divorce!!!!

Answer 4

Him. Since he has the final say in committing an act of adultry. A person can try all they want to get a married person in an affair but in the end the married person makes the final decision whether to have the affair or not.

Answer 5

well yeah i would be mad at her but it is definetely the husband that should be loyal and respectful. I would be more mad at my husband. It was his decision to cheat. I never understood why women always get more mad at the other woman when it was their husband that did them wrong. Just like i don't believe in the saying man stealers b/c really can someone steal what wasn't really yours if he wanted to stay he would have. I think its just easier to blame the other woman for everything so they don't have to address the issue with their husbands.

Answer 6

George W Bush

Answer 7

I'd say BOTH!!!!! BUT, I'd be more pissed at the Fleusy.............. for going after the guy KNOWING he's married in the first place!!!!!!!!

The married man can be JUST AS BAD, cuz he can always tell a woman that he is unhappily married to his wife!!!!!!!!
Ya just never know what a person could dream up when they want a FLING!!!!!!

Answer 8

I would be more angry with the woman because I would have to feel something for him to be angry and if he cheated I would not even want to think about him. Any man who would cheat on his wife isn't worth the effort.

Answer 9

sure at first your hating her, and wanting to slap her for seeing your hubby, but it was his choice to be with her, he could have walked away from her, he could have told her he was married. he had it in his power to stop it before it began but he chose not to, so he is the one i would be most mad at. she is just the other woman, looking for a man to help her pay her bills, and sleep with.she may have initiated it but he could have stopped it, he could have walked away and made the choice either way, he could have chosen his wife over the other woman.i am sure every day this happens, and there are men out there who respect their wife's and would not want to hurt their wife that way, but than there are others who don't have a concience, after all it isn't them hurting.

Answer 10

I would be more upset with my husband. I feel that the married man is more responsible for the well being of his relationship.

Answer 11

I would be angrier with him because he is the person that I am supposed to trust the most in. I can't be angry with someone I don't know and most men tell these women that they are soon going to be divorced.