Ok, this is a strange question but I have been married for 12 years...together for 14. We have a pretty healthy relationship and no major problems. The thing is my husband has this thing with licking my bottom. He really enjoys doing it, I however dont get much from it. Why would this turn a man on so much?? I dont get it??
2006-10-24 12:58:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some guys like doing that. I've even heard of girls doing that to guys. Sometimes you have to compromise. If it's something he REALLY likes to do I would just wash really good down there and let him have his fun. If it's something you're absolutely uncomfortable with then he should respect your feelings. Guys just have different sexual tastes (no pun intended) than women. Fetishes are WAY more common in men than women.
2006-10-24 13:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, here is a guy who really like licking the bottom of his wife. Yes, its a kink and its a huge turn-on to part the big soft cheeks and kiss the puckered hole.
I wont deny that its even more satisfying to have anal after that -and I get it quite a few times- but licking itself is a huge satisfaction and excitement (even without anal)!
Also, since yours is a 14 yr old relattionship, he is probably trying to bring in new excitement. I would suggest you too at least try to enjoy that feeling. And who knows, like my wife, you might urself start asking him to do it in a short while :)
2006-10-25 04:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by life_is_rhythm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has probably seen it on a porn film. were the guy licks the bottom, it looks like the woman is turned on and then they have anal sex. i bet he is hoping that u will let him have anal, so go ahead and give it to him and then tell him that he does not have to lick u there to get it, but direct him a little further up to where u want him to lick
2006-10-24 20:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by keithy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've only been married 5 1/2 years and i still cant figure my man out sometimes. who know why they do anything that they do? i do know communication is the most important thing, so why dont you just ask him why he likes it? thats what i would do.
2006-10-24 20:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Boop 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
he wants you to lick him there my thoughts. I had one bf that use to always try to do that i did not get much from it either i would rather be licked up about 2 inches higher in the front. he eventually ask me to return the favor i would not.
2006-10-24 20:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to guide him the spots that feel good to you so you can enjoy it,most men love to do this but they are pleasing the girl in the process,maybe he thinks he is pleasing you,give him some tips on how to please you.I mean front licking not back.
2006-10-24 20:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had a bf that liked doing it but did not want it in return..... I think it's the guys turn on and if it does not bother you then whats the problem.......
2006-10-24 20:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine**** 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to each is their own thing. If it truly bothers you tell him before it gets to a point where every time he touches you you are afraid that he will do that one nasty thing and it ruins everything else. communication communication is the key.. Good Luck
2006-10-24 20:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just go with it, if it doesn't hurt then why complain. You could have a n open talk with him and ask him why it excites him.
2006-10-24 20:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by Keanu 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know why.. but I love too do that also. I wouldn't worry bout it. If it doesn't bother you.. let him have his fun
2006-10-24 20:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by mrbubbachowpuss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋