2006-10-24 19:41:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What is his fantasy? Might be something you can't go with, but you need to know anyway. Ask him. Have him tell you, in a safe environment, his wildest fantasies. If it's not safe for him to share stuff that might blow your mind, don't bother asking him. It's not about gathering ammunition. It's about hearing what lies deep within his imagination. Once you get that knowledge, find ways that you can be comfortable in giving him what he wants. You might not be comfortable with every nuance, that's OK, don't worry. Choose the right time and place, it might come intuitively or you might have to get closer to him and find out where he's at, moment by moment. He might want anal, and that might not suit you. He might want a threesome, and that might not suit you. He might want to be given oral sex, and that might be uncomfortaable for you. If it's oral sex that's the issue, talk with him... let him know that you want to please him but you feel.... be honest with how you feel, if it's about taste, or about hygiene, or about feeling made dirty, whatever... Whatever it is, oral sex or otherwise, be honest with both yourself and him. Be real about what your fears are, and if you simply can't do something he wants, and can't find a compromise or happy medium, be honest with yourself and with him. See where that goes. Honesty builds intimacy, in relationships that are genuine and lasting. My take on things? If you can't be honest and be respected for who you are in your honesty, then you need to leave the relationship 'cuz if you can't be honest with him, that means the entire relationship is built on him and his opinions about himself, and you don't matter squat.
2006-10-24 21:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by pair-a-docs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
This is male job. You should follow the instructions of your husband and act as you know about sex but do not know about intercourse.
It should appear by your actions that you are doing this first time .
All these things will make him happy and his male ego will be satisfied.
Feel Free to Contact .
Enjoy Life
Dr.Mojo
mojodrmojo@yahoo.com
2006-10-25 03:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him to a strip club and buy him a lap dance....sit back and watch from the corner of another room...get all steamed up about it, take him home......bang it out with some serious passion and then top it off by swallowing!
2006-10-25 02:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tie him up and do what ever your heart desires. It will be either his best experience. BUT! You will have a great time no matter what.
He will to.
Take control and have your way with him.
2006-10-25 06:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A really Great BJ.
2006-10-25 08:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by bob r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gentle shoulder rub, back massage with your **** and then blow --- minimum of 2 F---s after that he will stay happy for atleast 72 hours
2006-10-25 03:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by seenu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several women at once
2006-10-25 02:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by Pauline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mistress.
2006-10-25 02:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by Johnna L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT? how old are you and how long have you been married?
2006-10-25 02:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress in something sexy .............stockings sexy lingerie ..................or long white socks a short plaid skirt .............take on a role play it out ...........a really sexy bj with yoy slipping a finger into his most secret place ......and swollow
oh yessssssssssssssss
2006-10-25 17:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by just a guy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋