This is the lady who asked a favor to my husband if she and her friend can use some electricity to plug their extension cord in my garrages so they can dig the basketball court in my x-nieghbor yard.
She is the one who borrowed my husband cell phone and also talking to my husband by our garages. My husband said,she asked for house phone but he gave her his cellphone so he won't have to get up.
She is the same lady also who told my husband that she's a nurse and her brother own the Nickolites coffee shop here in the City where I live.
This lady live the same street where I live. Me and my husband always passed by their house everytime we go somewhere or to the store. There's other street go to instead of their street but my husband has been accustomed go that way ever since before she moved in to her new home.
I need your comments guys how I get rid of her in my mind.
2006-10-24 19:00:55 · 14 answers · asked by rauma_raumamary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give her a bat in the mouth and tell her to keep away from your hubby,i'm sorry but your hubby seems to have taken a shine to her,i'd kick him into touch too.
2006-10-24 19:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by kasey c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got the right idea. Just because you, in your mortal human mind, cannot fully understand every nuance of a particular theory or belief does not automatically make it false. That goes for evolution, for global warming, for why wars happen, for belief in GOD, for understanding of the Trinity. See, people do this on both sides. If they don't get it, it must be wrong. Hilariously enough, this argument is mostly used to argue that Christians must all be idiots. Since an atheist or other non-Christian cannot understand our faith (at a particular age, after being raised in a particular way) then it must be wrong. At the same time, if you don't understand what evolution is really defined as, you cannot completely discredit it. Just as you shouldn't blindly believe in your religion, you should not blindly accept all theories put forth by scientists. The medical world screws up every other day and has to reassess. It's the same with evolution. It's an idea that will be transformed, adapted, and changed as we learn more about our origins.
2016-05-22 12:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by MarilynAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous is the not the only word to describe this situation. Seems like this lady is threatening you marriage. Is time you talk to your husband about it, let him know how you feel instead of what he does or will do, cos men are sensitive too. you have to be very careful with your words. Before marry and after married is very different, words put across must make sure the receiving end don't get hurt or think that we don't trust them. After he understand you feeling, ask if he can travel by other street instead for your sick. If he is clean and clear of his conscious he will accommodate your request. If not then you have to think of recovery. Time will wash her off your head if you don't hear and see her face or travel pass her home.
2006-10-24 19:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have by your own choice made this a big deal. You literally have given up your own peace of mind over something that seems very mild in the scheem of things in life.
Only you have the power to get this out of your mind.
You are being controlled with your own self talk. Stop the conversation in your brain
2006-10-24 19:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so why did u permit her to use smthing of yours on the first place? i know i wouldn't and i never have any problems with any neighbours - i just don't notice tthey even exist. so do not give her anything, do not let her use anything of yours, do not talk with her, if she tries to engage u into conversation say u re busy in abrupt tone. i swear she will omit u as her potential victim and go to someone else. and u will forget about her existence if u don't hear about her for some time. and what's her house? just a house as many others. u don't have anything against all other houses on your street cos u don't know who lives in them
2006-10-24 19:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing worse than neighbors who get in your face and want help or favors all the time....the helpless female ones, especially. I know the type.
If you hubby is like mine, he's probably not concerned (guys don't get as wrapped us as we do...) and that can be irritating in itself. You should talk to your husband and tell him that it is bothering you. It may take a few times of telling him. Be nice about it.
2006-10-24 19:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the woman maybe after your husband?
This is the woman maybe already seeing your husband?
Hope not but looks like she made a good impression on your husband. You don't want to take her out of your mind but watch her. She smells danger.
2006-10-28 09:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by better late than never 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut dont get her out of your mind get her away from your husband - Keep your friends close and your enemies closer - befriend her and dont let her out of your sight
2006-10-24 19:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pop round for a drink there and surrepticiously flush a lump of sodium down their loo...
2006-10-24 19:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my husband to kept away from this lady, and then tel this lady that he is your husband and go someother place, will if that dosen't do it, will honey i don't know what you are going to do to get this women out of your mind. shift maybe.......good luck and god bless
2006-10-24 19:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋