i dont care she got them after pregnancy but now only has sex in dark or covering up during it. she really is beautiful to me still and i tell her all the time. how can i help her realize more shes beautiful?
2006-10-24 17:02:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Their not stretch marks, their love marks.
2006-10-24 17:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A woman's self-esteem is often based upon her looks. She may feel fat or be self-conscious of her stretch marks after pregnancy but stick with complimenting and reassuring her. Be patient. Do the lights need to be on during lovemaking?
Surprise her with strivectin (helps fade stretch marks faster) and/or cocoa butter. Help her apply it, if she will let you. Work out with her - take walks with her, go for bike rides, etc. Try to make time for each other away from baby on a regular basis. Make these dates fun, relaxing, and playful (not pushing sex - just easygoing laughter). You will be surprised how she will appreciate this one day. Help her with baby and housekeeping duties (if you don't already).
Good luck - you sound like a keeper!
2006-10-24 17:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by greyrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most women have horrible stretch marks and they love their body.
She can't think she is the only woman on the planet with stretch marks.
Her self confidence has to come from inside of her. You sound like a wonderful husband
2006-10-24 20:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stretch Marks can be surgically corrected see a Skin Doctor. You need to do something so you can live happy together.
2006-10-24 18:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by orlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is her own personal feeling about herself........if she really wants to do something about it...then the only answer is tummy tuck, but only if she is finished having children. They do make a woman not feel self-conscious when naked or otherwise. Otherwise, you are going to have to just let her resolve these feelings about it........even though you say she's beautiful, she has to believe it!!
2006-10-24 17:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if she didnt get them you would not have a beautiful child
and tell her your mind is not on her st mrks it is on u know
always complement her on different things during the day or night
like her hair or her lips or her feet or legs............like every other day it will help her self esteem
my st mrks dont bother me so sorry 4 you just make her as happy as you can be passionate maybe it will pass
2006-10-24 17:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by ez-goin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep reassuring her that it's not about her stretch marks and keep making her feel pretty. She'll get over it soon enough.
2006-10-24 17:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats a hard one to answer. Tell her to get over it. Thats what I would say. She should be comfortable enough around you not to act like that though. I would understand when it comes to strangers or family though.
2006-10-24 17:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by NoName 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who isnt? Give her time, she'll soon get over it. Still have mine and it doesnt bother me that much anymore.
After all, I am more than my stretch marks.... :)
2006-10-24 17:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by sexy_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a couple of my friends have strech marks, they are very self consious about it, they cover up wen we go swimming. it may never be resolved, its jut how women feel. byee
2006-10-24 17:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by Tessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋