Marriage & Divorce - 17 October 2006

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2006-10-17 18:05:30 · 10 answers · asked by jules 4

OK,This is the deal..met a man,by internet,ended up knowing him from college,sounded like we were both in same type of marrage(husband sleeping on couch for a year,him 5months)wife had an affair,I did not cheat on my man,we just separated.So we got together,ends up wife is a little screwie,scrip meds and wine,after about 2months into relationship ,broke it off,well went on a break with him,got together for a day of "fun",after a month apart, then called or IM everyday for weeks and she got phone bill and she calls me,I dont talk to her but tell him this is not working,she freaked like she was being cheated on,not like she was a cheater.
So I end it again,like another break,he sends me an email from her to him to prove her cheating and med. abuse,still wont see him,chatted twice. Wife has called me 3 times today..wants me to call her,says there are things I need to know. Should I call her back

2006-10-17 17:57:08 · 25 answers · asked by DeeDee 2

Lately he won't even try and we've gone from three to four times a week to maybe once a week. He's really busy at work but I thought sex took priority in a man's brain. Please don't tell me how I can get his attention back, just tell me WHY this might be happening.

2006-10-17 17:56:01 · 20 answers · asked by We2Angels 2

I have just went through a divorce, just to tell you , my hubby was terrible to my children so don't defend him here please, anyway, I started divorce in January, my attorney knew of his 401k. It was a large sum. Now 6 months into divorce, he took a loan against it for $5000.00, bringing his total down...I only get half of his total now to date. Is that legal or did he borrow against something that should have been frozen ? and shouldnt that toal come off of his half, not mine? I mean what if he would have borrowed total amount. Isn't that illegal to do when divorce is in process? PLEASE HELP!!!

2006-10-17 17:45:36 · 2 answers · asked by bunnylatte 2

I have recently just admitted to myself that I am gay, but I am married to a gorgeous woman... How do I tell her that she's not exactly what I need?

2006-10-17 17:41:37 · 24 answers · asked by Josh C 2

This is really bad, I went to my Doctor today and the male nurse that has been my nurse for years hit on me. He gave me his number, offered me to go out with him sometime. He's really sweet and cute.....but....I'm married. My husband and I are very opposite, it feels like we are together just because we are used to it. Not to add my parents LOVE him...I swear more than me at times. What do I do...part of me says walk away from the nurse, the other part of me says go for it, have some fun.

2006-10-17 17:37:35 · 14 answers · asked by pinkie_me76 2

I am fed up with my abusive husband(mainly verbal and mental but has been physical years ago). Even though I'm scared *** hell I am planning to divorce him as soon as I can. My kids and I will move in with my mom until I feel ready to have a place of my own. My problem is that we haven't had sex in about a month and he is getting tired of my excuses. To make it even worse I really want to have sex because I need it too and I don't want to cheat. I think that if we have sex he will go back to thinking that I'm ok and that I want to stay with him and put up with his bullshit. I sometimes find it hard to separate my emotions from sex. I don't want to fall into the trap of thinking things could be better because the sex is really the only good thing between us. I think that is why we are still together to this day. I wonder if it's wrong to have sex with him while I'm here even though I'm going to leave him?

2006-10-17 17:11:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 16:53:58 · 11 answers · asked by elpackage 2

My husband has a history of alcohol abuse as well as lying, stealing and "stepping out of the marriage." According to him he has never had sex with anyone else but "might" have kissed someone else. Now he is just over 3 months sober and insists he is changing his ways. He also insists that I need to give him another chance (after 12 years of chances!) I however, don't believe a word out of his mouth, am not in love with him anymore, am not attracted to him anymore, don't trust him, etc. I gave him more chances than he deserves, offered to let him come clean and start over with no repercussions, work with him in therapy etc. He would always be good for a short while and then slip back to his old ways. The difference this time is that he is sober. Can someone really change that much? I feel that he is only working on it this time because he realized that I was dead serious about leaving his sorry ***!

2006-10-17 16:46:07 · 26 answers · asked by COLLEEN F 1

When do you just accept it? Or decide to give up the friendship for a relationship which includes sex?

2006-10-17 16:42:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 16:41:24 · 4 answers · asked by mikers 3

I am a 39 single father of a 13m & 15f year old. I am engaged to a wonderful lady with a 5m, 11f & 12m. My mother has become an issue of being controlling and wanting me to be with just my children more. I am trying to be fair to all and balance my time with all. My mother called my fiancee and left a rude message, that has created stress between everyone.

2006-10-17 16:38:22 · 9 answers · asked by fasmith32 1

She is a crack head with four kids. I don't know if I should worrie or if I should just let him be there? He only goes over there when I am at work and leaves our 2 year old daughter at home with his sister. Help!!!

2006-10-17 16:36:18 · 29 answers · asked by mommybanks 1

2006-10-17 16:25:31 · 3 answers · asked by elpackage 2

Oops!I didnt know that this question has arisen many times...so this has been experienced by many people...I want to know how and why it happens how can your heart ache for the person you hate, who claims that he loves you..but does not understand you...and does not hesitate to hit you in anger...
Is it love...Infatuation ..obsession..what?????

2006-10-17 16:23:17 · 16 answers · asked by suhani 1

ok my husband and i have been so nice and took in a family there both 19 and ther daughter is almost 2 well he has a drinking problem and one night he got so angry and went kinda crazy and slit his wrist and throat i told my husband i wont them out there destoring our apartment and it's so stressful but my husband wont tell tehm to leave he wants to help but i us. Everytime we live the guy calls to ask were we are who he will walk in on us when we are trying to have alone time because he is BORED. I dont know hat to do HELP ME. And also i want him to go to get help but if i do that he will be in jail becaus ei found out about 20 mintues ago he has a warent fro his arrest. What do i do. my husband wont listen to waht i have to say about it.

2006-10-17 16:20:23 · 21 answers · asked by nicole51304 2

For example, if I give my husband a hug, he thinks I am asking for sex. Also, if I give him a simple kiss, he thinks I am teasing him into sex. I am at the point where I think twice before showing any affection in order to avoid sending the wrong message. Why can't men understand that sometimes we only want affection without having to go all the way into sex?

2006-10-17 16:19:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 16:11:52 · 16 answers · asked by budi 2

My husband seems to understand, but I feel it myself. There's definitely something wrong with me!! I'm only 22yrs, healthy, so why don't i want it? Help me!! What can I do to be more keen? I want to surprise my husband by asking for it, not giving all the time..

2006-10-17 16:10:09 · 14 answers · asked by firaisah 2

My husband and i have been married for almost 2 years and everything is great. The only thing is he sometimes looks at porn, I use to think it was fine when we dated but know i don't like it. He doesn't look at porn alot, but i still find myself feeling jealous. I talked to him about it and he says it's just a habit b/c he's been doing it for so long. Am i overreacting? (serious answers please)

2006-10-17 16:04:13 · 20 answers · asked by daddys_girl319 2

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2006-10-17 16:01:14 · 26 answers · asked by The Heart Doctor 2

For checking to see what your significant other is up to online.

Before you lecture, I need the info for a friend.

2006-10-17 15:54:14 · 6 answers · asked by eddysmomma 4

what are the guy things that should be kept fom his spouse? is there anything to hide at all? unless the husband is having an affair?

2006-10-17 15:53:27 · 35 answers · asked by budi 2

my husband and i just got married we have been married now for 6 months and now hes saying that im smothering him. i know i am but i cant help it. i love being around him. and i cant live with out him. he says he loves me but he just needs a little space whatever that means but i dont know it just seems like now that we r married he spends most of his time without me either playing video games or hanging out with his friends what should i do?

2006-10-17 15:52:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was wondering if you ladies got wild at Bachelorette parties? I heard that you all are almost as bad as us. When there are strippers there, what do you guys do? Be truthful and spill it! ;)

2006-10-17 15:51:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a severely verbal and emotionally abused woman. Married 8 yrs, 13 yrs total. Kids 6 & 4. He has called me everything from stupid, fat *** *****, worthless ************, you ain't ****, sorry *****, and I don't mean **** to him. He will say that he doesn't care about opinions or feelings. He also wishes that I drop dead either from diabetes or a car slamming into me. His father and brother cursed me out and he defends them . Our house is almost in foreclosure while he spends money on ebay everyday buying sports figurines and clothes and doesn't want to buy me clothes hardly. Gives me only $60 a week and I have to buy my gas,food( he only buys me dinner food), etc. He brings home $900 a wk. and I can't touch the money( transfered the money from joint acct. to a new acct). We could go and live with my mom . I'm not working currently. How do I just let go of this miserable marriage for my kids and myself? I feel physically ill and anxious most of the time(rapid heartbeat) now.

2006-10-17 15:46:39 · 28 answers · asked by Veronique 3

My husband found out that his friend had been emailing me trying to get with me. When he asked me about it I explained that it was just some suggestive emails and I shut it down once I realized that he was serious. I showed him the responses i sent and he's cool w/me, but his so-called friend. My husband has been letting this simmer since Friday morning, and a few minutes ago he called from work and let me know he called his friend on his break and let him know that he knows and his friend said, "so what about it?" Then he hurried and got off the phone and said that he was at the hospital w/his wife. YES his wife. My husband says his so called friend did this because my husband had sex w/ his wife when they were in high school, before his friend and his wife ever met. I feel like this so called friend is no friend at all and should be ashamed of his behavior. I don't really want his wife to know because we are friends and i would NEVER sleep w/him, but he might try this w/ someone else

2006-10-17 15:46:14 · 22 answers · asked by PRL8268 2

I want to be honest about my status with people, but as soon as my status went from Married to seperated (not divorced) I am getting asked out on dates. I don't want to really...I don't even really want to be seperated, it just is what it is.

I'm just curious what the "norm" is for a seperation. Is this my time to see what else is out there...or is it supposed to be a reflective time to put into your marriage?

2006-10-17 15:45:46 · 12 answers · asked by Sticky 2

and emotional abuse of my daughter [and the 3 kids that get to hear it ] he doesnt think he has a problem . she is a stupid ***** period as far as he is concerned . he makes good money 100 k or more . maybe they could persuade him to get counseling . of course i may never see my grandkids again , i could just anonymously mail the family violence laws to them with his name on it . he is to smart to hit her . cops call the name calling .......here it comes ........wait for it ........a verbal altercation .......you stupid ***** you . how f-ing dumb are you ? ball and chain around my neck forever i guess. he wont file ..he wants her to ...appearances you know .

2006-10-17 15:41:23 · 15 answers · asked by Mark H 1

I would like to get married some day but I don't think it's gonna happen. So I was wondering what you all planned on doing in the future, marriage and family wise.

2006-10-17 15:38:03 · 16 answers · asked by Tina 2