She is a crack head with four kids. I don't know if I should worrie or if I should just let him be there? He only goes over there when I am at work and leaves our 2 year old daughter at home with his sister. Help!!!
2006-10-17 16:36:18 · 29 answers · asked by mommybanks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Crackhead or not, men who are married should not be alone with the opposite sex, EVER. People should avoid putting themselves into situations like that. Thats when the " we didn't mean it to happen" comes along. He needs to know under NO uncertain terms can he spend anymore time with her. Then, make him KNOW he is your man by letting him know how much you appreciate him watching your daughter and whatever else he does. After that put the baby to bed and give him lovin he hasnt seen since before your little one was born.
2006-10-17 16:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by tiredinaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee captain obvious....Your husband has responsibilities to his own children before he goes playing daddy for the crackhead and hers. Be honest about it, tell him it's not acceptable and either he stops or the next time he decides to visit, he may want to pack the rest of his clothes to take over there because you aren't going to want him back!
Or you could always move...which ever is easier. I don't mean to come off as rude or insensative, but honey, you already know this is wrong on so many levels. Chances are, something is going on. Do you want him bringing home anything that is going to require a shot of pennicillin? If not, then you have to do something. Sitting on here wasting time isn't going to help your cause. Putting an end to this will.
2006-10-17 23:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should confront him about it. He has no reason to be over there while you are at work. This woman will do anything to get crack. He may be sleeping with her or he may be using. You really need to get to the bottom of this. If he is sleeping with her he is putting you at risk for who knows what and you have a daughter to think about. You need to leave like you usually do to go to work and come back home and go over there and see just what is going on. He should show you and your daughter more respect because by him hanging over there he is disrespecting you. By him just going over while you are at work makes you get the idea that he is up to no good.
2006-10-17 23:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For you, try to ask yourself why he did that for you. Maybe something is wrong in your relationship, something wrong with your household or some appliances more entertainment than you owned at home? If he does it once in a while then let him do what he can help to fix your neighbor's problem, however if he does regularly then there's something wrong or unusual with your husband.
Talk to him a soft manner and ask him what important matters he can't left at your neighbor's house, Is his presence at your neighbors' house badly neccessary? or He is only having fun with their wives?
You may give him joke that you will sending an agency to transfer his bed near to your neighbor's wife's room, so that you will not be disturbed or bother to lock safely the door during night time from intruders.
2006-10-18 00:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is making some bad choices. You need to sit down and have a talk with him. Let him know it is not acceptable for him to be visiting with your neighbor and/or leaving your 2- year old at home with his sister.
2006-10-17 23:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either your husband is giving her money for sex because a lot of crack heads are whores, or else he is a crack head himself. People who dont do drugs dont want to hang around a crack head unless they are getting high or getting some. Seriously be worried VERY WORRIED.
2006-10-18 14:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is a serious question, your marriage is obviously in very deep trouble. also i don't understand why you know nothing about drug addiction or crack, i mean if you're married i assume you have been outside now and then. I can't help you , looks like you are going to get the biggest wake up call of your life-----or, if you care about the kids, grab a bag and run like hell. I know what I'm talking about here.
2006-10-17 23:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by Raptor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him why he goes there? I would ...he should be home with his children not a t the crack head neighbors!! Some thing is wrong here!
~Good Luck~
2006-10-17 23:39:44 · answer #8 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be worried about it. If she's a crack head then chances are, he's probably doing drugs with her (among other things). I would suggest u check up on him. Besides, he has no business being there in the first place.
2006-10-17 23:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats REALLY shady. Why does he say he is over there so much? Have you told him you are uncomfortable with this? If you HAVE told him and he still goes over there all the time, he is totally distrespecting you and your wishes. Not to mention he is being totally irresponsible with his children. You definetely need to keep your eyes open for signs of him cheating, or even doing drugs with her. Something is making him go over there night after night...you have a right to know what that is.
2006-10-17 23:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by EllisFan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋