Marriage & Divorce - 17 October 2006

This has just happened to a friend of mine I think she is too shocked to react.

2006-10-17 10:09:26 · 37 answers · asked by Candy 5

2006-10-17 10:08:39 · 17 answers · asked by roughlandgirl 1

We're in love for 2 years, now she is in another country and we promise each other that we'll be together after 6 years. Do you think that kind of story really exist in life ?

2006-10-17 10:07:11 · 6 answers · asked by chieuduongnd 2

And she suggested going? With the understanding it would be OK to leave if it was not comfortable. Would you go? Or would you be insulted?

2006-10-17 10:00:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 10:00:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

they were seperated at birtrh and found each other in there early 20's so just seeing each other four the first time was ok but, after 3-6 months they fell in love is there anywhere they can marry in the united states or any country and come back to pennsyvania and still be married any where at all?

2006-10-17 09:59:41 · 13 answers · asked by mandie b 1

I have been married for 10 years and my wife makes me feel like I am second to her family. I explained this to her the other night (for those of you that read my previous question that was last night, this was a few days ago) in a manor that was not accusatory but just sharing how I feel. (We try to have an open dialogue) Well she kind of got an angry look on her face and that was it, she didn’t say anything. The problem is for the first five years we went to her parent’s house every Saturday for lunch as well as her sister showing at our apartment five days out of the week and calling twice a night. Her sister is married now (Thank God) and does not drop by however she calls all the time. Maybe this should not bother me but I am sick of being an extension of her family when we should be our own. Also when it came time to do the holidays with my family her first question is always, “How long do you think we’ll be here?” I’m like until we leave (Frustrated). I never put her in that position and I don’t think it is fair for her to do that to me. I would love to pack it up and get away from both of our families but we both have great jobs so that is not an option. Well I am not looking for options; just want to know if this is how it is. My Aunt told me before I got married “You don’t just marry the girl you marry the family” I did not get it back then but I sure do now.

2006-10-17 09:58:18 · 20 answers · asked by winterlinda21 1

My Boyfriend's X gets a disgusting amount of money from him and He pays for xtras like intrsuments,gymnastics,etc..that doesn't bother me the thing is all she has to do is say it's for the kids and He does it when he damn well knows it's not!! He gets mad and I get upset for him but mad that He won't tell her no ever!!She had breast cancer a few years ago and is fine now but pulls a guilt trip on him to get what she wants? It even works on me- Need advice or comments to help deal with this- haven't been able to vent w/out feeling bad about it-Help!!

2006-10-17 09:50:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is always the number 3 big issue in marriage fights! how could you disrespect our marriage like that. You say I talk to people about you and I cause you shame, but you've talked to a particular someone so much about our marriage and the issues we've had! I hear stuff that she knows about us and I get so hurt that you could open up so easily to a stranger who you call a friend and tell her so much about us! Then you wake up and get so pissed at me.

Question: How much is okay and how much is just too much!!? Could you please share them in some detail so we can understand where you are coming from please.

2006-10-17 09:49:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

....my last one divorced me! Any suggestions on a good one?

2006-10-17 09:45:23 · 20 answers · asked by Been there...done that! 1

Newly divorced - not a kid - been dating on & off with this guy since April, but have known him for years - came on strong in the beginning, but then went "AWOL" - admitted he has commitment issues since ex cheated on him - was looking for casual sex - i never gave it to him - told him let's just be friends - called me about 1 month after that slightly drunk saying how much he missed me, knows that he hurt me, then went AWOL again for another month - called me again this weekend saying he misses me, but sober this time - told him i was slightly involved with someone else, and now he is coming on strong again - calling or texting everyday since last weekend - is it that same old story, he wants me now that i'm with someone else?

2006-10-17 09:45:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 09:41:17 · 20 answers · asked by Mary M 1

gone , bneing she is the only girl, she has been nasty to me for sometime,unk nowing she has this meal..i found out tonight .i feel; she has a in trest in one off the party but she says ,get over myself and she will do what she wants to do ..i go for a pint after work 2 or 3 times a week, but she also joins me..am i being a nob or i9f the tables where turned would she mind...?????

2006-10-17 09:33:18 · 36 answers · asked by Andy K 3

i was young when i get married with him....and now i am 26 years old and he is old then me....he is jelous of me..what can i do?

2006-10-17 09:33:01 · 10 answers · asked by maria 1

Why would you be that way?

2006-10-17 09:32:57 · 8 answers · asked by Me 3

what are some other good lines to use? thanks

2006-10-17 09:30:19 · 30 answers · asked by Baby's Daddy 1

my girlfriend and i have been dating for 8 months now and I really love her and want to propose to her but i don't know if she wants me to... we have talked about kids and marriage and have been able to talk to eachother about everything that is going on, I feel that she wants me to propose to her but is there any signs that she may show that would clue me in on proposing? And how important is it to ask the parents before doing so? her parents are separated and she doesn't talk to her father, she lives with her mother. Do i absolutly need to ask her mother first? Also with the ring, is it important to have the actual engagement ring when proposing or is it okay to take her with after the event to pick one that she likes?

2006-10-17 09:23:08 · 17 answers · asked by ffpdfirefighter2002 2

Because of this many times small discussion with my wife turns into a big fight. I really really love her and dont want to hurt her but I cant control myself sometimes. Problem is that she also always come up with the issues that I dont like. But still I think this all happened bcoz of my short temper. I dont wanna end up with any misunderstanding and this thing is building up day by day in our relationship. PLs come up with serious answers. I really appreciate that

2006-10-17 09:22:58 · 16 answers · asked by sps 1

My husband and I have been fighting for months and he has a temper and is very verbally abusive. I have asked him to leave and would like a seperation but he says he wont leave because he wants to kiss his daughter good night every night. He makes me feel bad about trying to kick him out he says im taking his daughter away from him. He has told me that he does not love me and has no respect for me and he is staying only for our daughter. Another thing is my parents own the house and i make all the money he quit his job several months ago after not making any money for years at it. He also sends our daughter to daycare and does nothing around the house. Im so confused on what to do next. Help

2006-10-17 09:22:05 · 24 answers · asked by juels222 1

Am doing this paper and I was wondering wat people thought about Divorse, since all over the world some one is getting divorse,because the divorse rate is getting Higher.

2006-10-17 09:18:47 · 12 answers · asked by Jazmin 2

There are many reasons I have to leave him, his anger is a big one he breaks things, im afraid it might end up being myself or one of the kids that gets hurt. He is not respectful of our marriage or my feeling (he has cheated in the past)
This is hard for me I do love him but it isn't enough. The problem is $ I have no where to go, no way to support myself, he taked me into dropping out of college. I need a place for my kids and I to live, a way to pay for our needs. Any suggestions on how to get to started? Where to get help? How to get on my feet? There is so much I would like to say but im not given enough space on here to tell all....

PLEASE HELP, I am truly DESPRATE!

2006-10-17 09:18:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Won't stop asking for money even with alimony and childsupport etc...

2006-10-17 09:17:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that this is the love of my life and I would give anything for him.

2006-10-17 09:17:14 · 18 answers · asked by Stephanie 1

Has anyone been to a marriage counselor? Please share your experience. Did it help, and in what way?

2006-10-17 09:17:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a good husband and all but we just do not have any passion for each other anymore...I want to take this big job offer which is something I want to do. My pay will triple every year 120k verses $450k yr. But its a big change and wife is not willing to go. I married her for life but she is putting me in a corner over this. I would not leave her just because the sex went bad..Its through good times and bad...The choice I can take is mexborgn, austrialia or Naple Florida I chose Florida I guess?? I am going to chose one whether she wants it or not......my question is this should I divorce her if she does not move with me?????

2006-10-17 09:16:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

tighty whiteys, colored briefs, boxer briefs, boxers, or bikinis, and why?

2006-10-17 09:14:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I only do it for her own good. When my wife is disobediant or shows some independence I have to put her it the special time out room in the crawl space of our happy abode. Should I allow her water during the usual 2 days.

2006-10-17 09:11:47 · 29 answers · asked by steve b 5

hooker hang out and saw my wife's sister there. Picked her up and did her all night long. I don't think it's cheating because 1. I took her off the dangerous streets for the night 2. I payed her well and 3. I at least kept it in the family. why did my wife get so mad ?

2006-10-17 09:11:12 · 3 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1

both of us have our own families and we havent seen each other in years, we started talking and it seems like we just picked up where we left off. is it possible to keep the friendship open and not do anything that would cross the line?

2006-10-17 09:06:42 · 18 answers · asked by sundance28 1

elements are;
1- Service (ie. cooking, making my bath, massage, making dinner for your friends)
2- Physical (sex, touch, kisses, bjs etc)
3- Respect (ie. what I do, what I say, who I am, our marriage)
4- Appreciation (of who I am, what I do for u or kids, where I work)
5-Romance (flirty, flowers, surprise dinners, emotional etcs

what are your "2 most important" from the list if your man/woman focused on in your marriage/relationship, would maintain or spark your fire again if it burnt out!
keep it real!

2006-10-17 09:05:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous